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To think Parkrun shouldn't take priority over the rest of the public?

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MaryRoze · 20/07/2024 09:59

9.30am every Saturday, our biggest park is inundated with Parkrunners. There are hundreds of them.

They take up the 3 biggest car parks (including the one at the start of the dog walking trail), meaning I need to park at the furthest away one. Not a problem except I can't get to the furthest away one because volunteers stop the traffic to let the runners go past.

Once I get parked, I'm pushed to the side of all the main paths because they're running 3 or 4 abreast. I try to go down the muddier gravel paths, but they're down there too. An older couple today got a "fuck sake" because they couldn't move out of one runners way quick enough.

Parents are being stopped from crossing the path between car park and playground with their kids because the runners are passing by.

I get that Parkrun is fantastic for people's physical health and mental health, and it's clearly very popular but AIBU to think they need to be courteous of other park users too?

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Iwasafool · 21/07/2024 13:55

Magnastorm · 21/07/2024 13:48

As was so well stated above, you are arguing that a large number of people shouldn't use a public space so a smaller number of people can use it instead, and that somehow the people running are the selfish ones.

For 1% of the total time you have in a week (2%, if we generously discount 12 hours of each day when it's dark).

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It isn't about using it instead it is about everyone being able to use it. If I am walking through the park with my husband I'm not preventing anyone else using it, 500 people running 4, 5 or 6 abreast are preventing other people using it. The OP was suggesting parkrun shouldn't take priority and that is the point, not banning it but accepting they don't have priority.

parkrun500club · 21/07/2024 13:56

Are parkrunners just so entitled that they won't pay a small amount to hire a better venue

parkrun is a free timed weekly 5k. It's not about being entitled, it's a free event.

Why can't dog walkers pay to hire a dog field?

MeouwCat · 21/07/2024 13:59

Park runs are sometimes cancelled because of events like Pub in the Park, in which large parts of the park are unavailable to the public for 4 days. I.E a total of 100 hours or more, or 2 years worth of Park Run (assuming that the Park run lasts 1 hour per week[. Just saying. Plus Regattas, Circus, Children's Fair, May Fayre, Scouts stuff, Other running events etc.
Just saying.

MasterBeth · 21/07/2024 13:59

thefireplace · 21/07/2024 11:49

I cannot comment on your specific venue but the few PR 's i ve done use a variety of paths, some very unsuitable for all but the fittest of walkers and often in winter extremely muddy.

Plymouths main PR uses no more than 25% of the available path network, The PR nearest to me, uses muddy and very hilly paths that few walkers use, the rest of the course is very wide, the main body of the runners are past any individual walker within 30/60 seconds or so, this would be the case for all PRs.... you see the runners approach, stop, wait to one side for them to pass, then continue your walk.

Why is that such a biggy for you?

Why do I need to stand to one side for the runners? Why can't they run to one side of me like every other runner who I pass in the park on any other day?

Here are some images from my local park run Facebook page. Unlike your experience, this park run uses the main circular pathway round the park. (This is officially part of the city's cycle path network, incidentally.)

Runners begin to gather and block the paths at least 30 minutes before the event starts. As many as 500 people take part, so imagine trying to push a wheelchair or bike through.
(You can probably tell from the photos, but the boggy terrain around here means you need to use the path.) "Officials" rope off the path so you don't feel you are "allowed" to use it.

Maybe there are park runs where runners coexist happily with other park users but here it's definitely a takeover.

To think Parkrun shouldn't take priority over the rest of the public?
To think Parkrun shouldn't take priority over the rest of the public?
To think Parkrun shouldn't take priority over the rest of the public?
xsquared · 21/07/2024 14:00

Your local parkrun will have a facebook page and an admin who you can message privately, if you have fb yourself and need to complain about your local parkrun or report any incidents.

They are usually good at posting reminders about parkrun etiquette if needed. Thankfully, there's not been many.

Watchkeys · 21/07/2024 14:00

@Iwasafool

Are parkrunners just so entitled that they won't pay a small amount to hire a better venue

It's a free event. Some people can't afford to pay. Are you so entitled that you won't allow them to attend a free fitness group in a public place for 1% of the week? Also, aren't there better venues to take a walk than on the ParkRun route, whilst it's being run? Why do you assume that the runners agree with you that a sports facility is a 'better venue' than a park? Is is called 'SportsFacilityRun'?

Your reasoning fails because you can only see one side: your own.

parkrun500club · 21/07/2024 14:00

If I am walking through the park with my husband I'm not preventing anyone else using it, 500 people running 4, 5 or 6 abreast are preventing other people using it

I've not been to every parkrun in the country (there are around 750 of them, possibly more these days) so I am sure some parks are more suitable than others, but in most cases there is room for runners and other park users. I tend to avoid parks in the week because of all the dogs, so it's swings and roundabouts. At least there's 30 minutes on a Saturday morning when I can run in peace!

There are plenty of other events that take place in parks and prevent others using them during those periods, eg fayres, cycle events, dog shows!

Our park has two sections so the dog walkers can use the other side of it. Or they join in!

And couples who walk along holding hands block the paths as well...

S0livagant · 21/07/2024 14:01

bridgerbelle · 21/07/2024 11:20

Literally never been to a parkrun where that hasn't been the case, bar a few areseholes who will be aresholes everywhere they go because that's life. I'm not sure where this mythical idea of the entitled park runner has come from, I am usually at the back walk-running and chatting to some lovely older ladies.

It's not mythical. It happens at our local one all the time. Perhaps because parkrun goes up the slope of the main path so runners look at the ground not in front of them and run at the walkers. Sometimes you need to actually stop walking and stand there waiting for them to see you!

parkrun500club · 21/07/2024 14:02

MasterBeth · 21/07/2024 13:59

Why do I need to stand to one side for the runners? Why can't they run to one side of me like every other runner who I pass in the park on any other day?

Here are some images from my local park run Facebook page. Unlike your experience, this park run uses the main circular pathway round the park. (This is officially part of the city's cycle path network, incidentally.)

Runners begin to gather and block the paths at least 30 minutes before the event starts. As many as 500 people take part, so imagine trying to push a wheelchair or bike through.
(You can probably tell from the photos, but the boggy terrain around here means you need to use the path.) "Officials" rope off the path so you don't feel you are "allowed" to use it.

Maybe there are park runs where runners coexist happily with other park users but here it's definitely a takeover.

Why not join in if you are there every Saturday?

parkrun500club · 21/07/2024 14:04

It's not mythical. It happens at our local one all the time. Perhaps because parkrun goes up the slope of the main path so runners look at the ground not in front of them and run at the walkers. Sometimes you need to actually stop walking and stand there waiting for them to see you

There are dizzy and entitled people everywhere. Yesterday I didn't do parkrun, I did a organised hike instead and was on a narrow path with a cyclist coming towards me. He made no effort to slow down and when I said "we can't just disappear" he had the cheek to say I had no manners!

Arseholes will be arseholes, it has nothing to do with being a parkrunner.

Watchkeys · 21/07/2024 14:05

I wonder if any of the complainers on this thread have actually mentioned anything to their local ParkRun organisers, or if they just enjoy seething at strangers from their armchair when they're bored.

I don't do the ParkRun, but I'm happy to stand aside for the brief moments when my path and theirs crosses, and if any of them are rude to me, I would assume it's individuals swerving the guidelines, rather than trying to take down the whole event.

There's a lot of imbalance on this thread. Lots of people who love a whinge, but aren't willing to see other perspectives.

OneTC · 21/07/2024 14:07

Where do you people all live that you've only got one park?

parkrun500club · 21/07/2024 14:07

Cromwell1905 · 21/07/2024 11:22

This is not the problems of dog owners if kids are scared of crossing the road should they be educated on it or should cars stop using the road ?

This problem is down to parents not educating children.

most dogs are far less risk to pedestrians than 500 single minded adults trying to charge down a 10 foot path. Perhaps there are children scared of crowds and need to stay close to their parents when there are hundreds of runners gathering.

the whole idea of not trying to address a fear and just avoiding it is beyond stupid

No, the onus is on dog owners. Kids wouldn't be scared of dogs, if owners did their jobs and trained their fashion accessories properly!

But this is about parkrun, not dogs. Although it's always the dog owners who moan about parkrun.

S0livagant · 21/07/2024 14:07

Benjilassi · 21/07/2024 13:37

Practically, that might mean use half the width of the path

Hard to enforce if people want to overtake. The only way to enforce it would be to use cones or tape or have loads of marshals/volunteers. Many PRs wouldn't be able to find the volunteers for this and they could not hold the event.

run in single file

As above.

put a limit on numbers

I don't know about this.

run in two or three cohorts

This would make the event last even longer and would be very hard to manage. People would need to 'enter' a specific cohort in advance.

run off the path

Many PRs actively ask runners NOT to do this as it can churn up the grass during wet weather, thus spoiling the park.

Just organise what you do so it won't inconvenience others. It seems that park run is some sacred event that May Never Be Altered.

I imagine if enough people didn't want it to happen then it would cease to be a thing. People would either stop attending and/or stop volunteering and it would fold.

If people want to overtake then they can do so like when you drive, keep left and overtake on the right when it's clear.

parkrun500club · 21/07/2024 14:07

OneTC · 21/07/2024 14:07

Where do you people all live that you've only got one park?

I suppose there are parks and parks. My town has a few but some are tiny (though big enough to walk a smaller dog).

Magnastorm · 21/07/2024 14:08

Iwasafool · 21/07/2024 13:55

It isn't about using it instead it is about everyone being able to use it. If I am walking through the park with my husband I'm not preventing anyone else using it, 500 people running 4, 5 or 6 abreast are preventing other people using it. The OP was suggesting parkrun shouldn't take priority and that is the point, not banning it but accepting they don't have priority.

I've done, I think, about 20 different parkruns. At none of them has there been enough people to cause any problems to other users of the space.

Now, I'm sure there are ones where people get in each other's way, but - again - for at most 30 minutes or so before the event starts and the field stretches out and I'm also such such huge parkruns will be very much in the minority.

If that causes a bit of bother to other people, I honestly don't really care. Getting that number of people out and active is a huge win.

The route will be the same each week and the time is the same. Other parkusers, if they are so upset by a bunch of people going for a run or a walk, can easily go somewhere else, go at a different time or maybe, they could join in.

parkrun500club · 21/07/2024 14:08

If people want to overtake then they can do so like when you drive, keep left and overtake on the right when it's clear

A MNer after my own heart! YES KEEP LEFT!

although my parkrun asks participants to keep right

bluecomputerscreen · 21/07/2024 14:10

it shouldn't
but neither should dog owners take over public spaces and let their dogs literally spoil the green areas.

there should be consideration from all sides.

S0livagant · 21/07/2024 14:11

parkrun500club · 21/07/2024 14:08

If people want to overtake then they can do so like when you drive, keep left and overtake on the right when it's clear

A MNer after my own heart! YES KEEP LEFT!

although my parkrun asks participants to keep right

Edited

Keep right? That's going to confuse the public!

Runbunny · 21/07/2024 14:12

Every runbriefing reminds runners they share that park and don't have priority. Unfortunately some people (all people, not just runners) are selfish. We have trouble with a dog walker who deliberately let's his dog run around the runners legs and a dance school who think they should have exclusive use of the carpark.

From your PP, runners dot have priority for the carpark, they just get their first, the same as in any parking situation.

It's a shame some people spoil it, but it is overwhelmingly a force for good.

Runbunny · 21/07/2024 14:13

Also, it's 30 mins once a week!

AlecTrevelyan006 · 21/07/2024 14:15

Cromwell1905 · 21/07/2024 11:44

First of all as I have said park runs should be kept (please read my posts before writing) but consideration should be given to other users of the park which often it seems is not.

what you are suggesting is that I adapt the way I walk my dog to accommodate other people’s preferences even though my dog is no fish. What difference does it make if my dog is walking ta my heel to being leashed ?

so, if you don’t want parkrun banned, what practical solution do you want in place to counter the problem you perceive?

MasterBeth · 21/07/2024 14:16

parkrun500club · 21/07/2024 14:02

Why not join in if you are there every Saturday?

Because I don't feel the need to join a gang in order to go for a run.

bridgerbelle · 21/07/2024 14:16

MasterBeth · 21/07/2024 13:26

I am arguing that no one group of people should monopolise the most desirable part of the park for a period of time, so that other people can't use it, and can't make their way through the park.

It is not fair that only you and your gang should be allowed to use a path, just because there are hundreds of you.

Practically, that might mean use half the width of the path, run in single file, put a limit on numbers, run in two or three cohorts, run off the path. Just organise what you do so it won't inconvenience others. It seems that park run is some sacred event that May Never Be Altered.

Saturday afternoons would be a really convenient time for me to swim, but both pools around here have that designated as family swim time. That means only a quarter of the pool is available for lane swimming, and if I use it I am at risk of being splashed or having pool toys thrown at me by small children, plus it's very congested and loud. If I was like you, I would say that despite it being a time that lots of people can have a good experience for a short period, the fact that it forces me to either choose a time that isn't family swim or to share the space with a larger group is wrong and should be banned, because it sometimes inconveniences me. Presumably your view would be that parents should stop being so selfish and find somewhere else to take their children swimming. It's the same logic.

Benjilassi · 21/07/2024 14:18

S0livagant · 21/07/2024 14:07

If people want to overtake then they can do so like when you drive, keep left and overtake on the right when it's clear.

I presume this is what runners are doing. I don't think many runners overtake someone if it is not clear. And your suggestion is using more than 1/2 the path.
Only if there a physical barrier down the middle will you be able to stop people using the whole path.

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