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To think Parkrun shouldn't take priority over the rest of the public?

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MaryRoze · 20/07/2024 09:59

9.30am every Saturday, our biggest park is inundated with Parkrunners. There are hundreds of them.

They take up the 3 biggest car parks (including the one at the start of the dog walking trail), meaning I need to park at the furthest away one. Not a problem except I can't get to the furthest away one because volunteers stop the traffic to let the runners go past.

Once I get parked, I'm pushed to the side of all the main paths because they're running 3 or 4 abreast. I try to go down the muddier gravel paths, but they're down there too. An older couple today got a "fuck sake" because they couldn't move out of one runners way quick enough.

Parents are being stopped from crossing the path between car park and playground with their kids because the runners are passing by.

I get that Parkrun is fantastic for people's physical health and mental health, and it's clearly very popular but AIBU to think they need to be courteous of other park users too?

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InsensibleMe · 20/07/2024 18:30

DysonSphere · 20/07/2024 16:59

The noise of children playing is actually soothing to me. Keep deliberately pretending you don't understand what I'm saying all you want.

Now back to my question about whether the London Royal parks are excluded from the PR rounds and if so, why.

Bushey Park and Richmond Park are both Royal Parks, and host ParkRuns. In fact, the first ever ParkRun was in Bushey Park. What is your point?

Magnastorm · 20/07/2024 18:30

MasterBeth · 20/07/2024 17:38

If hundreds of runners are gathered on a path, for example, as a run is about to begin, they have commandeered it by default

No-one else can pass them. No-one else can get by.

For 5 minutes at the start. Oh noes.

InsensibleMe · 20/07/2024 18:34

MasterBeth · 20/07/2024 17:39

Other than that, what do you want them to do?

Organise their run in a way that is less inconvenient to everyone else.

My ParkRun is not crowded and it is on wide paths. I rarely see more than one or two other walkers at that time in the morning. Compared to 120+ runners. For 45 minutes. .

CormorantStrikesBack · 20/07/2024 18:47

Yanbu. Two park runs near me are like this. Clumber Park a bit national trust place is a prime example and like what happened to you OP the volunteers stop all traffic coming in and you have to sit in a traffic jam for ten plus minutes. You can’t get to any car park. It’s beyond rude and entitled, i wouldn’t expect to impact on someone like that, why is their activity more important than mine? I find their attitude beyond belief. Why can’t they plan a route in the 3000 acre park which doesn’t cross roads to the car park? Especially as they go round twice so there barely any gaps to be waved through for 45 mins.

the other one closer to me is a there and back route on a narrow (think 3ft) footpath. I was walking along it the first ever week it ran,,,,so no idea it was a thing. It was like being charged at by a herd of wildebeest. I walked in the narrow strip of grass off the path. Still being physically jostled by runners desperate to get past me. Lost count of how many people ran into and tripped over my small dog who was terrified (on a short lead), people kept swearing at me when they tripped over the dog. I’ve never been back there on a Saturday and it was my regular Saturday morning walk for years.

its all very well people say well go later. But when I work full time I have a busy schedule at weekends, shopping to be done, all gym classes, or meeting friends, etc. so getting up and walking the dog asap is normal. Likewise i don’t want to get up earlier (7am) and walk at 8am because you know it’s the weekend!

BitOutOfPractice · 20/07/2024 18:53

im genuinely not trying to misconstrue you @DysonSphere I genuinely LOVE “my” park and the way it is so well used by so many people. I think it’s sad that you think it should be preserved in aspic for one particular type of user. I like to see everyone enjoying it.

as for royal parks, I don’t know about PR but I assume you’d disapprove of this? 😳 https://www.royalparkshalf.com/

Homepage | Half Marathon

This stunning central London Half Marathon, takes in some of the capital's world-famous landmarks on closed roads, and four of London's eight Royal Parks

https://www.royalparkshalf.com

ManyATrueWord · 20/07/2024 18:58

The entitlement of Park Runners is legendary here. Only a few, but enough to bother everyone else. I broadly support it, but individuals can spoil it for everyone.

Fizbosshoes · 20/07/2024 19:03

DoNotScrapeMyDataBishes · 20/07/2024 17:40

I explained repeatedly that in the case of our local Parkrun - multiple complaints have been made to the local organisers, the national organisation and the owner of the park (council) about the PB thug element of it.

I contacted both the local and national organisation after the incident where DD1 was injured - national replied with a "wasn't us, contact the local lot" type reply, local did not even reply to the contact.

Local one is a nice flat course so gets a lot of attendance and runs both days (kids get the Sunday) so it's the park for most of the mornings of the weekend ruled out of action, and the route goes around the entire park area - there's literally no way to get across to the kids' play area without impinging on the run route in some way... I think it's one that really has outgrown its venue and needs reducing down in numbers/the dickhead squad banning/volunteers to grow some balls and clamp down on the dickhead squad/finding a different route.

How many people are you getting at each event??
Our local parkrun is the 5k version on Saturdays, and junior parkrun on Sundays. I regularly volunteer at the Saturday one and can verify that at 8.40, there're approx 20 -25 volunteers and almost no runners. There have been people setting up the course before that but not in a way that would impede anyone going for a walk or children playing. From 8.55 - 9.45, agree, it is generally very busy (300-500 runners) By 9.45 the runners are slower and very spread out, you'd easily be able to cross a path. So that's about 50 minutes when it's very crowded. Packing up is usually done by 10.15 and again is not a hindrance to other park users.

Junior parkrun is literally 8.55-9.30, and probably all packed up and gone by 9.45, so it would be a massive exaggeration to say that the park is unusable for "most of the morning, both days"
Across both days I'd think there was maybe 1hr 10 min that would be extremely busy and I'd be surprised if your parkrun was much different, especially if it's flat, that means most people will be finished quicker.

Swearing, rudeness and pushing or shouting is obviously inconsiderate and unacceptable, but simply hosting events that are free to enter and over within an hour is not outrageously unsociable imo.

lemonmeringueno3 · 20/07/2024 19:20

I completely agree. I am tired of other people ruining my peaceful enjoyment of our nearest park.

Every Sunday morning the car park is full of parents with their children. They get there before me and hog the nearest parking spaces. Then they walk on the paths I want to use and sometimes I have to move aside for prams and running children. Fuming.

AlecTrevelyan006 · 20/07/2024 19:37

why should parks be 'peaceful'? The Victorians - who built nearly all of them - always meant them to be used for recreational purposes.

To think Parkrun shouldn't take priority over the rest of the public?
Iwasafool · 20/07/2024 19:40

ohtowinthelottery · 20/07/2024 16:50

@Iwasafool I assume the OP can walk more than your DH as she wants to walk her dog in the park! Whilst your DH cannot walk far, the event would be open to wheelchair users, parents with children in pushchairs, children on foot, dog walkers, slow walkers, learning disabled, visually impaired with guides, so from that point of view it is extremely inclusive.

If you were crossing anywhere with 500 people/cars/cattle coming at you, you would expect to wait until they had passed not the other way around.
It's 1 hour, once a week - it's not as if it's every day.
And no I'm not a Parkrunner!

Doesn't look inclusive where I am not sure where they are hiding all those people who aren't running.

I think the whole "it's one hour a week" thing is overlooking that runners run in the park every day, no one interferes with them. Other groups can use the park every day but on Saturday morning the runners prevent that, at least they do in small parks like ours. That is the difference, we don't have old slow people sessions, dog walker sessions, children playing sessions, that prevent runners running. Park runners do prevent those things.

2Rebecca · 20/07/2024 19:41

I find it weird some dog owners with limited time are so rigid about where they walk their dog. It must be at the same time and route as the park run. Just walk out of the door and go in the other direction. Dogs can be walked anywhere. They don't need a park. Put them on a lead and take it hem somewhere else

RunningAndSinging · 20/07/2024 19:45

Sandringham Royal Park also has a parkrun.

They have them wherever there is a keen team of local volunteers, a suitable risk assessed course and a land owner willing to give permission and yes, land owners willing to give permission do include the Royal Parks.

Although I think it is true that the founder did not ask Bushy Park originally but as they grew they had the discussion and the park was supportive.

Iwasafool · 20/07/2024 19:45

AlecTrevelyan006 · 20/07/2024 19:37

why should parks be 'peaceful'? The Victorians - who built nearly all of them - always meant them to be used for recreational purposes.

I practically grew up in that park and was never in a position where I couldn't cross a path because of hundreds of runners and certainly was never sworn at. Might have been slightly after that picture was taken but was quite a while ago.

Iwasafool · 20/07/2024 19:46

2Rebecca · 20/07/2024 19:41

I find it weird some dog owners with limited time are so rigid about where they walk their dog. It must be at the same time and route as the park run. Just walk out of the door and go in the other direction. Dogs can be walked anywhere. They don't need a park. Put them on a lead and take it hem somewhere else

You could equally say go and run somewhere else.

RunningAndSinging · 20/07/2024 19:48

Doesn't look inclusive where I am not sure where they are hiding all those people who aren't running..

At the back? Volunteering? Yes, walkers and volunteers are the minority but they are there.

RunningAndSinging · 20/07/2024 19:52

I think parkrun is perhaps a victim of it own success in some places. Where there are about 100 people it is not that much of a bother but I do get that 400+ people close to the start on a narrow path would be intimidating especially when some of them are entitled and rude. How should parkrun go about limiting the numbers though?

Likewhatever · 20/07/2024 20:00

The organisers could say something in their promotional material to the effect that PRs take place in a public place so runners are politely asked to be thoughtful and courteous to other park users.

spanishpainting · 20/07/2024 20:02

lemonmeringueno3 · 20/07/2024 19:20

I completely agree. I am tired of other people ruining my peaceful enjoyment of our nearest park.

Every Sunday morning the car park is full of parents with their children. They get there before me and hog the nearest parking spaces. Then they walk on the paths I want to use and sometimes I have to move aside for prams and running children. Fuming.

Parkrun for kids is a great way of instilling good community exercise habits from a young age, and a quick look at my local junior parkrun results page shows that it lasts between 12 and 22 minutes. There literally will be kids there who will burden the NHS less during their lives because they've started out right with regular exercise such as this.

So, sorry they get to the car park before you - there's possibly a way to avoid that 🤔 - but it's definitely for the greater good imo.

takingitsleazy · 20/07/2024 20:06

Likewhatever · 20/07/2024 20:00

The organisers could say something in their promotional material to the effect that PRs take place in a public place so runners are politely asked to be thoughtful and courteous to other park users.

Yes all the messages are around inclusivity and it being an event rather than a race.

There was a massive drama in the parkrun community a few months ago because all the stats were removed. It was all a big cover up to stop men claiming women's records but it was to prove a point that it's a get together not a race or competition

Ti7ch · 20/07/2024 20:09

Likewhatever · 20/07/2024 20:00

The organisers could say something in their promotional material to the effect that PRs take place in a public place so runners are politely asked to be thoughtful and courteous to other park users.

They say this in every run brief and it's on the courses website that we should give way to other park users

Watchkeys · 20/07/2024 20:11

lemonmeringueno3 · 20/07/2024 19:20

I completely agree. I am tired of other people ruining my peaceful enjoyment of our nearest park.

Every Sunday morning the car park is full of parents with their children. They get there before me and hog the nearest parking spaces. Then they walk on the paths I want to use and sometimes I have to move aside for prams and running children. Fuming.

How would a person use a parking space but not hog it? Couldn't you be classed as hogging a space, if your car was in it, and someone else came, wanting to use it?

londonmummy1966 · 20/07/2024 20:13

Just looked it up - 830 runners at Clapham Common this morning - its not a big space - and the run goes round the perimeter paths of most of it and along a narrow pavement at one point - its just not safe for that number of runners so I've stopped going.

CoffeeCatsAndVodka · 20/07/2024 20:16

Watchkeys · 20/07/2024 20:11

How would a person use a parking space but not hog it? Couldn't you be classed as hogging a space, if your car was in it, and someone else came, wanting to use it?

I think there was sarcasm in that post... 😉
Perhaps @lemonmeringueno3 you should have been fumming not fuming! 😂

lemonmeringueno3 · 20/07/2024 20:17

Parks should only be used by people doing what I like doing, and they should travel by public transport so I can park easily.

xsquared · 20/07/2024 20:17

Iwasafool · 20/07/2024 19:46

You could equally say go and run somewhere else.

Aah, but then you'd have the runners congregating in the other direction anyway, and getting in someone else's way of a quiet dog walk.

I run regularly and enjoy parkrun when I can make it. There are two within cycling distance for me and both are popular with easily over 300 participants per week. More when the students are around.

Every week at the briefing, the run director reminds runners we do not have sole use of the paths, stay on the right unless yoire overtaking, be courteous etc. The vast majority abode these rules.

No one should be sworn at, and the fault lies with the small number of inconsiderate runners, not parkrun itself.

The parking however, is first come first serve.

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