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If employers were mandated to allow employees to WFH unless there was a clear reason to need someone physically in a workplace

233 replies

OptimismvsRealism · 16/07/2024 17:54

All the trains and buses at commuter time would be so much less hideous

Infections would be down

Diets healthier

Work life balance more serene

Why do humans always work against their own interests?

OP posts:
Beezknees · 16/07/2024 22:38

Itisjustmyopinion · 16/07/2024 22:35

Ah yes the laptop issues. It was only when I challenged one of my direct reports that I was going to the head of IT to find out why her laptop kept breaking even after she supposedly had them look at it multiple times that it magically worked and hasn’t broken since. Funny that…

They were constantly having to reboot for some reason. 🙄

I've nothing against wfh myself (I wfh 3 days a week) but some people absolutely do take the piss and to pretend that everyone is more productive at home is a big fat lie.

ElaineMBenes · 16/07/2024 22:45

Another thing to consider is that there is often an assumption that everyone, particularly young people, are completely comfortable being 'online'. However, that's not necessarily true.
Lots of young people feel uncomfortable in online meetings and don't feel confident in contributing.

BitOutOfPractice · 16/07/2024 22:48

OptimismvsRealism · 16/07/2024 22:06

So everyone suffers because you do?

But you want everyone to do what want?

I have made the move in the opposite direction - used to WFH, now I've taken an office. I am far more productive and happy.

Though TBH i bet your team are glad you WHF! 😏

TragicMuse · 16/07/2024 22:51

Nah. I fucking HATE working from home.

It's my home, I don't want work invading my space.

Who paid for the ruin to the carpet from a wheeled office chair? Who paid the increased heating and lighting? Who paid for my having to sign up to fibre to get a workable signal? Who paid for the laptop stand and the 4-way usb?

I did. The £6 a month was barely a drop in ocean compared to what I spent to make it work. We didn't get a financial boost or help for all that kind of stuff.

Ansion · 16/07/2024 22:51

OptimismvsRealism · 16/07/2024 22:25

It's what they actually want. The learning from being around people is nonsense. Office work happens in your head and on your desktop. Happy clappy "sparking ideas" is yank nonsense.

Some people learn that way. As you say, people have different learning styles.

Do you agree that everyone is entitled to a working environment that suits them?

Keepingthingsinteresting · 16/07/2024 22:59

OptimismvsRealism · 16/07/2024 22:25

It's what they actually want. The learning from being around people is nonsense. Office work happens in your head and on your desktop. Happy clappy "sparking ideas" is yank nonsense.

That might be your experience, but it isn’t mine or that of most of the juniors I supervise and mentor. Yes, I’m senior and I’d quite like not to have to go into he office, but I’m also not an arsehole and recognise my presence as a senior in the business means others are leaning from me. I know his as they tell me so, and that is also how I learnt when I was junior so I have first hand experience.

You don’t want to be forced to work from home, but it’s not a one size fits all thing. Employers can set what they want, and if people don’t like the offer they can leave and the employer will change.

I find it ironic you are ranting about how people shouldn’t be forced to go in whilst trying to impose what ou think is best on everyone else.

TinDogTavern · 16/07/2024 23:01

"Everyone should have the choice by law".

Give me strength.

Your employer can choose where to require you to work. You can choose whether or not to work for them on their terms.

An employee who thinks they should have a legal right to decide where they work? Good GOD no.

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 16/07/2024 23:23

Every business needs other businesses to survive. Its the knock on effect that people don't think about. Taking offices out of the playing field massively reflects on so many other trades.

No office means no cleaning, maintenance, security staff. No need for electricians and plumbers, carpet fitters or decorators. No use for these people means less work for banks, accountants, insurers, vehicle sales, workwear suppliers etc.

A permanent workspace at home needs to be declared to your home insurance, mortgage provider and legally requires to be registered as a business premise. Your home needs to legally be as per your employers insurers require, possibly to the extent of putting in fire doors, fire separations should it go that far.

Needanewname42 · 16/07/2024 23:23

Ginmonkeyagain · 16/07/2024 22:23

My work colleagues aren't my life long friends and work isn't my social life (although some former work colleagues have become close friends that over the years) but I do appreciate and enjoy sharing lunch or a pint with them.

Sometimes a little low level socialising does wonders for your mental health and wellbeing.

Yip there is a department in our office that has a lunchtime quiz, 15mins and a bit of a laugh.
I have a feeling it was started during lockdown just to break up the monotony of those early months.

I sometimes go for lunch with a couple of colleagues just a general chat. It certainly makes it worthwhile to go into the office

Needanewname42 · 16/07/2024 23:28

@OptimismvsRealism
You're living in dream land. Your boss wants you back in the office for a reason. Only you know what that reason is.

Your a manager - realistically how well can you manage and mentor your team if you never see them?

Are they turning to other people to ask questions because you aren't available?

Didimum · 16/07/2024 23:30

I like WFH and do twice a week, but not everyone feels the same. I would hate to WFH every day. It’s quite shortsighted of you.

OhHelloMiss · 16/07/2024 23:30

I sit in an office part of the day but I'm out and about the rest of the day

Still impossible for me to WFH

Felch · 16/07/2024 23:34

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funderama · 17/07/2024 04:46

I'm a teacher. Should I have a legal right to wfh?

Poppysmom22 · 17/07/2024 05:19

I do hybrid and it’s the best of both I think - I go to the office and sit by myself because my team is spread all over the uk the rest of the week I wfh and sit by myself because the rest of my team is all over the uk. No difference to my work but gets me out of my joggers.

Poppysmom22 · 17/07/2024 05:20

I do think about the benefits for the environment from reduced car use that’s 120 miles I am not driving every week - that’s got to be a good thing for the planet.

Codlingmoths · 17/07/2024 05:53

HaddawayAndShite · 16/07/2024 22:31

Probably because you're talking such utter guff it's rotting my brain.

I can see why you don't thrive in an office and you're clearly just spoiling for a fight and angry and the world.

I wouldn’t thrive in an office with the op, that’s for sure 😳 we are moving to 3 days in the office from 2, there’s no question of people skiving off at home, but we are more effective with regular in person time and all the casual encounters that creates. I met someone Tuesday coming through the office to say hi, dropping in from another city before moving to another country office. I’d never have met him otherwise in a casual context to get to know each other better, and improve our working relationship.

MrsMurphyIWish · 17/07/2024 06:05

ilovesooty · 16/07/2024 22:33

She was on the WFH thread earlier where she was becoming increasingly rude about other people and directly to them.

Is this the reason why society seems to be so much more aggressive? WFH employee/ers* have forgotten how to communicate? I sometimes must about that. As I come into contact with hundreds of people a day I learn to read faces, body language, nuances of voice - you have to be socially flexible. Maybe WFH (and being alone) means forgetting how to compromise?

*not all WFHers obviously - just the OP and others like them who seem to be mad at the world.

PortiasBiscuit · 17/07/2024 06:10

I can certainly see why OP with that attitude might find working with other people quite tricky.

Beefcurtains79 · 17/07/2024 06:13

You have been in work 20 years? Wow, you write like a child.

Arielsmummy · 17/07/2024 06:13

OhHelloMiss · 16/07/2024 17:58

Transport costs would surely rise to recover losses though?

Not so great for the rest of us

Diets better how?

I've worked at home every day since 2019, pre covid. I am obese, diabetic, high blood pressure. In that 5 years, I've lost 4 stone...mainly because I am at home. I have more time to make better food choices, I can be more organised and not just pop to the sandwich shop. You have more opportunity to prepare healthier meals. You can eat at better times, not just stuffing something quickly at your desk. I can also exercise more. This is all because I do not have a 3 hour commute and my kitchen is 2 min walk away. Not only have I lost weight at home, my diabetic HP1ca reading has decreased from 86 to 49.
So yeah, diet is better at home, health and wellbeing is better, stress is better....and no cakes!!

DoAClassicCamel · 17/07/2024 06:19

Personally I felt trapped in my own home, no designated office space and it was like I lived in my kitchen. Hated WFH

PeriIsKickingMyButt · 17/07/2024 06:27

OptimismvsRealism · 16/07/2024 22:00

I'm not. I'm a manager and this is what I tell people who complain that "it's not fair". I suffered an office life for 20 years. Now it's time for a change.

Edited to remove insult because I like my Mumsnet account!

PeriIsKickingMyButt · 17/07/2024 06:29

OptimismvsRealism · 16/07/2024 22:25

It's what they actually want. The learning from being around people is nonsense. Office work happens in your head and on your desktop. Happy clappy "sparking ideas" is yank nonsense.

Learning from being around others is nonsense? You really are deluded

Hateliars34 · 17/07/2024 06:36

MrsMurphyIWish · 17/07/2024 06:05

Is this the reason why society seems to be so much more aggressive? WFH employee/ers* have forgotten how to communicate? I sometimes must about that. As I come into contact with hundreds of people a day I learn to read faces, body language, nuances of voice - you have to be socially flexible. Maybe WFH (and being alone) means forgetting how to compromise?

*not all WFHers obviously - just the OP and others like them who seem to be mad at the world.

Edited

You could argue the office workers have terrible reading comprehension by looking at these responses! What a silly argument.

People are vastly different, as you should know from the rich social life your job gives you. Some people thrive in the office, some people thrive wfh. All the OP is arguing for is for employers to have to allow WFH if they request it and it's feasible. My DH for example works in a role where his full team is based in another country, but still has to go to the office 3 times a week. That means a long, expensive commute, only to sit alone all day attending virtual meetings. There is absolutely no benefit to him being in the office.