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Work emails after holiday

123 replies

sanogo · 29/06/2024 22:55

Just curious as to how many emails you would come back to at work after one week on holiday and what do you do about them?

Twice recently I've spoken to two people at work, they don't know each other and work in different buildings and both of them said separately to me that when they come back to work they just delete all of their emails

At first I thought they were joking but then I realised they weren't

The last time I took a week off I came back to seventy emails. The guy that I was talking to said he came back to a couple of hundred. The woman had been to Australia for 3-4 weeks and said she had over a thousand so deleted every single one

In a way it makes sense because it would take days if not longer to read and action them all. I guess if any were important they would chase you up?

OP posts:
Bagwyllydiart · 30/06/2024 06:16

After a 3 week holiday, I came back to over 2000 in my inbox.

After sorting, 8 needed action/reply.

Zanatdy · 30/06/2024 06:22

You guys who delete the emails, how are you aware if changes have taken place when you’re away? I’ve got around 7 teams across the U.K. and so much change going on, I need to know what’s happening even after leave. I might just be cc’d in but it’s still important info I need to know about. I regularly have hundreds and hundreds but I have usually scanned through in 2-3 days and marked those I need to respond to. I have someone covering for me and she will cover the highlights but mine isn’t the kind of job you can delete emails, in an operational environment like mine you need to keep up to date or you’ll regret it later down the line

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/06/2024 06:27

Hoglet70 · 29/06/2024 23:19

I try to deal with mine on my phone when away - I forward the important ones to other people and if it's a one liner then I just do it myself, it's no bother.

My DH totally objects to my approach and opens a Holiday folder and shoves the whole lot into it when he gets back and deals with them whenever. He reckons if its that important they will email again.

I object to your approach too. Because you're working while on leave. Why? If you don't want to not be at work, stay at work.

If you're on leave, be on leave. You're not being paid to work then.

Wigtopia · 30/06/2024 06:37

CheeseWisely · 29/06/2024 23:23

After a weeks holiday I can come back to well over 200. I'm currently on 11 months Mat leave, so god only knows how many I'll get back to, despite my spending the last couple of months at work unsubscribing from everything I could, advising business partners I'd be off and having myself removed from email groups.

When a colleague was on Mat leave her out of office gave an alternative team email address for people to contact and also stated that as she is on mat leave she will not be responding to the senders email at all because she will mass delete all emails that are sent while she is off 😄

I thought it was brilliant!

CandiedPrincess · 30/06/2024 06:39

I'm on holiday for a week now. I suspect I'll have somewhere in the region of about 200, maybe more.

Woahtherehoney · 30/06/2024 06:43

I’m off for just over a week and when I go back I expect I’ll have about 350. I go through and flag anything that looks like it needs a response - some of it will be generic team/company wide stuff so I’ll read but won’t need to action.

I can’t delete them all as I’m the only person who does my specific job in my team and even though I have an out of office on people will provide project updates etc so I have to know what’s going on!

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/06/2024 07:01

MagnusCanis · 30/06/2024 02:40

What kind of jobs are people doing that precipitate 2,000 unread emails after one measly week off? 😯

Mine vary. If I'm on a big project I'll have updates, approval requests, meeting requests for when I'm back, queries to answer, automated updates to tickets raised, new requirements from the funders to assess, problems to investigate, stakeholder concerns to manage. And then all my usual day to day job.

It might be hard to grasp, but everyone's job is different so some people will have more emails to manage than you.

AhBiscuits · 30/06/2024 07:03

Around 250.
I go throught them all, delete any that need no action and work through the rest. Deleting them would cause big problems, some of them will be from the court and essential documents needed for cases.

Amba1998 · 30/06/2024 07:12

Well some context is needed

I have clients. I can’t just simply delete their emails as though they never sent them!

I delete the internal junk. They file and prioritise the ones that actually need to be dealt with / responded to / considered

if there is a shared inbox and everything is forwarded then fine maybe okay to delete if they’ve seen dealt with

I don’t see though why someone should have to chase you up because you chose to delete them. It’s not their problem that their email was sent when you were away. Put an OOO on to say you’re away and you’ll respond when you can when you return.

I got 300 the other week. I was away for a week.

WhoGivesaSpit · 30/06/2024 07:14

Just got back from mat leave - now that was a lot of emails! luckily my out of office said "I am on mat leave until x date, this email will not be read. Please contact me again after x date if important" - so then no problem deleting all!

PuppyMonkey · 30/06/2024 07:19

6 or 7… thousand. Grin

Only joking, I’m not nearly as important as everyone else on the thread appears to be. I’d usually be dealing with 20-40 after a week off.

So those coming back to 2000 emails would get that number coming in each week if they WERE at work. When do you all get time to do your job if you’re getting that many messages in a typical week or are some perhaps exaggerating?

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/06/2024 07:22

PuppyMonkey · 30/06/2024 07:19

6 or 7… thousand. Grin

Only joking, I’m not nearly as important as everyone else on the thread appears to be. I’d usually be dealing with 20-40 after a week off.

So those coming back to 2000 emails would get that number coming in each week if they WERE at work. When do you all get time to do your job if you’re getting that many messages in a typical week or are some perhaps exaggerating?

That is some people's job. Some people are paid for what they know rather than what they do.

GnomeDePlume · 30/06/2024 07:26

Going back tomorrow after a fortnight off. I'm expecting there will be a few hundred.

I'll start with the newest as it's not unusual to find that what was a crisis has now been resolved so I can go through and delete the preceeding emails.

Oblomov24 · 30/06/2024 07:26

Depends on the job. I used to get only 6 a week. Then 60, now 600. I can't delete any, some have time expired, 100 or so will still need time be actioned. Dh's mail box is full to the limit after a week.

newpussmum · 30/06/2024 07:29

I filter by sender then know which ones I can safely delete and others that I need to return to. We get a daily all-company update that can be deleted, that kind of thing.

UnpackingBooksFromBoxes · 30/06/2024 07:29

About 200, the vast majority get deleted as my out of office is usually paid attention to and anything urgent is forwarded and dealt with. I do like the idea of this though.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-28786117.amp

Should holiday email be deleted? - BBC News

A German company has an innovative approach to holiday email - it just deletes all of it. Good idea?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-28786117.amp

SilverGlitterBaubles · 30/06/2024 07:32

Probably 200, many will be internal for information but require me to read and stay informed. In my OOO I refer any urgent queries to my team or specific person who can deal in my absence. I block out the first day back in my diary to have time to read and catch up.

minimo15 · 30/06/2024 07:37

1,424 after a week.

Spirallingdownwards · 30/06/2024 07:39

MagnusCanis · 30/06/2024 02:40

What kind of jobs are people doing that precipitate 2,000 unread emails after one measly week off? 😯

Law!!

PoisonMaple · 30/06/2024 07:40

Would depend on your sector.

Mine is Law, I cannot imagine deleting all my holiday emails upon return. Courts and other side solicitors really do not care that you're on holiday.

PoisonMaple · 30/06/2024 07:41

Spirallingdownwards · 30/06/2024 07:39

Law!!

Just posted about this!

Imagine chucking 2000 odd emails in the trash 🤣

Sanch1 · 30/06/2024 07:41

I'd probably have around 500 after a week, but probably 25% are just daily company stuff that can be deleted, then I read and action the others as necessary. Probably takes the whole morning.

I have a colleague who's out of office says he'll delete all emails during his leave period and if still needed when he returns on X date to email again! Seems to work for him.

Spirallingdownwards · 30/06/2024 07:42

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 30/06/2024 06:27

I object to your approach too. Because you're working while on leave. Why? If you don't want to not be at work, stay at work.

If you're on leave, be on leave. You're not being paid to work then.

I disagree. If you are paid an annual salary and it suits you better to work say half an hour on your day off to distribute or delegate work arising while you are away to make your life far less stressful on your return then why not do this. Just because it is something you don't want to do it doesn't follow that it is what works better for others.

RoseMarigoldViolet · 30/06/2024 07:43

I am surprised about people deleting them. I would get about 500 and would have to read each one, respond where needed, and then file it in our electronic filing system adding a note in the system if it is something significant. So coming back from leave is usually pretty awful !

NCasOuting22 · 30/06/2024 07:44

WYorkshireRose · 29/06/2024 23:05

After a week off I'd typically come back to 100-150.

I'd never just delete them all, but do have a simple method for reducing them, which is to organise them by subject line (rather than by date), and then delete all but the most recent email for each thread. The only exception would be earlier in emails in the chain which contain an attachment that I might need to refer back to, so I keep any emails with attachments too.

outlook has a “clean up” function which deletes all old messages from a trail and just leaves anything unique or with an attachment.