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Reacted to a hair dye patch test, AIBU to be confused about my hairdresser’s response was wrong?

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justwantnicehair · 04/03/2024 23:32

My previous hair stylist has moved to Australia, so I had my first appointment with another stylist at the same salon who is highly recommended. I had a consultation and had a patch test done behind my ear. The next day the whole area behind my ear was red with dry, itchy and flakey skin which is something I’ve not experienced before. I rang the hairdressers to ask for their advice and they said I could still go ahead with it but it’s ‘my decision’. I feel lost as I’m not sure if a bit of redness and skin dryness is ‘normal’ and to be expected (I do generally have sensitive skin and can get eczema), or whether it’s a sign of an allergy which puts me at risk of anaphylaxis.

I told the hairdresser I didn’t want to risk going ahead with it and I then asked if there any any alternative formulas I could be patch tested for which I am. My hairdresser didn’t really explain much about whether ths kind of thing is common and whether any other formulas may be suitable or whether it’s likely I’ll react to all of them, they just kept reiterating it was my decision. I’m now quite nervous about trusting them.

OP posts:
swayingpalmtree · 06/03/2024 06:29

She didn't even see the reaction for herself. I'm not sure why you now don't trust her

Most decent stylists won't dye someone's hair if they've had a reaction- thats why. They won't go near it because it could be potentially dangerous to the client. They should care more about the health of their clients than getting money for a dye job. I wouldnt trust them either after that.

pootlin · 06/03/2024 06:34

Sounds like a shit hairdresser. Do NOT trust them, go elsewhere.

pootlin · 06/03/2024 06:37

Hahahe · 05/03/2024 18:37

I don't think it's up to the hairdresser to give advice about the reaction you had. She didn't even see the reaction for herself. I'm not sure why you now don't trust her.

Because she knows she will be causing OP’s ENTIRE head to get ‘red with dry, itchy and flakey skin’ but doesn’t care.

Sourisblanche · 06/03/2024 06:37

The patch test is a H&S stylist legal requirement if a client hasn’t had hair dyed for more than 5 months. I’ve been using the same salon for 12 years and it happened to me last year. My hairdresser said they are seeing increasing amounts of hair dye allergies which could be related to having had Covid or starting menopause.

Anyway, I had to go to the local walk in because my lips swelled up a little bit and the nurse told me the allergy gets worse each time you are exposed to the chemicals so don’t be tempted to try again. I am quite gutted really because my hair looks dull now and my hairdresser was my friend and I enjoyed going in and hearing her news.

Sourisblanche · 06/03/2024 06:45

https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2011/nov/28/could-hair-dye-kill-you

An old article but shows the potential dangers of hair dye. There is also some info on the NHS website.

I didn’t know any of this until it happened to me last year. I used to get half head blonde highlights twice a year. The time before my patch test, I remember thinking wow my head is burning and I was really relieved when my hairdresser took the foils off and rinsed my hair but I still wasn’t thinking allergy at that stage.

Could your hair dye kill you? | Health & wellbeing | The Guardian

<p>Recent severe reactions to hair colouring have prompted the question: why is the likely culprit – PPD – still being used, when it's banned in makeup</p>

https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2011/nov/28/could-hair-dye-kill-you

SmileyClare · 06/03/2024 08:26

swayingpalmtree · 06/03/2024 06:29

She didn't even see the reaction for herself. I'm not sure why you now don't trust her

Most decent stylists won't dye someone's hair if they've had a reaction- thats why. They won't go near it because it could be potentially dangerous to the client. They should care more about the health of their clients than getting money for a dye job. I wouldnt trust them either after that.

Quite.

A qualified hairdresser is trained in the legal requirements of patch tests and the importance of avoiding dye should ANY reaction present itself in the 48 hours after.

Any reaction to hair dye indicates an allergy to an ingredient and it’s likely to result in a far more serious reaction if the dye is used again on a larger skin surface just days later.

Some clients are alarmed if the patch test has dyed the skin a bit red but op is describing skin irritation.

The hairdresser did not even ask for a photo or ask op to show her the rash before telling her she can go ahead with huge amounts of chemicals; not just dye but bleach and a toner too.

This hairdresser does not take the well being of her clients seriously: avoid.

bookteafag · 06/03/2024 08:50

listen to your body.
I dyed my hair for years and it always itched but i was ok until one day i was not.
Same old hair dye but this time my head felt like it was on fire i washed it out after 5 mins and my head was blistering.
I thought quickly and got the shavers out and went bald emergency GP appointment.
She told me i was lucky my head could have swelled up.
I shaved my head every week for 4 weeks i mean bald.
I was itching sore blisters red contact dermatitis and hives all over my face & body i looked like a freddy krueger for months.
Its been a year now and my hair has grown back lovely and natural it took a year for my head and skin & scalp to heal.
My scalp still itches but not like it did and i dont look like freddy krueger any more.
I would never use hair dye again.
I have a few grays but i like them and it could have been much worse.

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