I really don’t know what you’re issue is, but you clearly have a problem with my choices about my dc driving.
If 25 is the age that the brain is fully developed, it is not a marker of intellect. I take it you’re over 25?
My DD does appreciate the cost of cars actually, as she’s saving for one. When she’s saved enough, sell her current car to us, which will go to middle DD to practice in and/or drive when she passes her test. I imagine this will be at some point in the summer. Older DD will add her own savings to buy the car she wants.
As for the lessons, DD had to pay a fair whack herself as she was inconsistent with her availability for lessons and ended up taking way more lessons than she would have if she organised herself properly. Lessons were 35 a lesson, so not cheap as lessons ended up spread over 18 months. Middle DD will have block lessons or potentially intensive course + nighttime and motorway lessons separately, so should be far shorter time from lessons to passing the test.
Driving DD is nearly 20. She attends uni 3 days and works 8.30-4.30 2 days. She negotiated the combination into an apprenticeship and she earns £10k. She used to work in a local pub at the weekends, but gave that up so she had time for socialising, rest etc. So she could clearly afford to quit. Last week DD received results from her uni assessments and achieved 3 x firsts and 1 x 2:1, so her grades aren’t suffering due to working 2 days.
Just before Christmas one of the tyres had a puncture. I recall DH calling round garages, but I’ve just asked him who paid and he said he thought I’d given DD the money for it. I didn’t, so she must’ve paid herself.
Id understand your gripe if you had environmental concerns, or there’s a crisis of vehicles abandoned by teens who can’t afford them, or increase in car prices due to teens with cars who don’t need them… but it’s none of those is it? So just what IS your issue?