@Mia85
I learnt a lot from these threads over the years, the basics for posters are the same, the figures are just different.
I also learned that if someone told me that they could get my largish pension lump sum (it wasn’t part of our planning, but annoyingly just over the lump sum limit.) out in one go, that they were lying and would have required me to pay a huge sum of money to indemnify them for any future claims.
So between that and annuities, I learned quite a bit before we found the right FA for us.
Ditto charges and what to expect annually, oh and ditto that when you do draw your 25% to draw £100 first other wise if that is your first draw down the pension company will stick you on emergency tax and it is a bugger to get back from HMRC until they are good and ready.
So in conclusion, in the days when we were still hammering the pensions I learnt more, than I lost, in feeling a bit overwhelmed by other peoples sums.
I had H&N cancer eight years ago, not as widely diagnosed then as it is now.
Consequently I am eagle eyed and eared for people with similar symptoms, someone was talking to me at the golf club and mentioned their symptoms, I told them to go to their doctors asap.
They weren’t as lucky as me in the end, but I was able to help them navigate the early days of appointments and what to ask for.
So in the immortal worlds of the BT advert it is good to talk.
And if it is not hateful talk I fail to see the problem.