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To think we should avoid London right now?

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StayorgoLDN · 13/10/2023 09:23

Due to visit London in the next few weeks.

Anxious with Palestinian protests and so forth in the news. I don’t want to be near that with young children, and worried that it may escalate to some sort of attack.

We are not Jews, but presuming as the U.K. is supporting Israel that we’ll all be fair game ie there might be an attack/bomb somewhere prominent to send a message to gov.

Have been in London during terrorist attacks before and I’d rather avoid.

AIBU to consider rescheduling our family trip to next year?

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Maatandosiris · 13/10/2023 13:29

StayorgoLDN · 13/10/2023 13:06

@MyAnacondaMight

Look to explain this - again.

I realise that we are unlikely to get killed/injured.

My kids are autistic, what this means is that whenever we go on holiday we start preparing with visual schedules from 3 months ahead of time.

We sit them down to explain to them

Day 1: we will travel to the airport in our car, here is what the airport looks like, whenever you get into the airport this is what will happen, then on the plane they will do a safety briefing like this (video), we might get a snack on the plane - discussion of food, whenever we land we will pick up the bags and then exit the airport, here is what the airport in London looks like, we will get a train from X to Z here is what those stations look like, we will have lunch at X destination (has to be preplanned with known menu)…. Etc etc etc

A change in what is expected ie getting off at Gloucester Rd rather than Kensington High st, could result in anything from mild distress and agitation to a complete meltdown, hyperventilation or in the case of one of the children them lashing out and doing a runner.

It depends on what their tolerance level is at the time. For example if there are a few minor changes, probably ok, if substantial which for them would be 2-3 travel changes/missing out on seeing something big in the itinerary this is liable to result in up to 2 days of the holiday to be written off. Thankfully they haven’t had to experience an out of control protest/terrorism disruption, I would imagine this would write off the whole holiday.

I don’t want to spend a few thousand to sit in a hotel room rocking children to calm them thanks.

Tbh is London going to be the best place, tube lines get cancellations and delays all the time, the other day I was halfway down the Escalator in Leicester Square and it stopped so they held everyone behind the barriers until they could restart them when everyone had walked off them. Sudden changes of walking routes because the street was packed.

Would you feel better getting a taxi which might be more predictable, less crowded etc?

Saverage · 13/10/2023 13:31

I hate these threads. For the sake of peace of mind of one OP, a seed of fear is planted in the minds of many of us who live and work in London.

I'm pretty immune to terrorist fear having lived and worked here for over 50 years and been close to many scares and attacks, but seeing these threads does raise my anxiety a bit as generally it doesn't cross my mind to think about it.

Sunseaandsand1 · 13/10/2023 13:32

I worry more about the potential violence here (in London) from local gangs & the people who really ought to be in secure units/prison.

StayorgoLDN · 13/10/2023 13:34

Maatandosiris · 13/10/2023 13:29

Tbh is London going to be the best place, tube lines get cancellations and delays all the time, the other day I was halfway down the Escalator in Leicester Square and it stopped so they held everyone behind the barriers until they could restart them when everyone had walked off them. Sudden changes of walking routes because the street was packed.

Would you feel better getting a taxi which might be more predictable, less crowded etc?

@Maatandosiris

It’s not ideal, but the range of places to go are aligned to the DCs special interests so off we go.

And yes we are going to walk/take taxi now based on responses on this thread.

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Fupoffyagrasshole · 13/10/2023 13:36

i live in london and have never once thought about not doing something in case of terror attack - id never go to work if i worried all the time

Maatandosiris · 13/10/2023 13:37

StayorgoLDN · 13/10/2023 13:34

@Maatandosiris

It’s not ideal, but the range of places to go are aligned to the DCs special interests so off we go.

And yes we are going to walk/take taxi now based on responses on this thread.

Great, that sounds much more manageable. Hope you all have a great time.

StayorgoLDN · 13/10/2023 13:40

@Saverage

It wasn’t my intention to plant a seed of fear. But to get travel advice on what the current situation is as the media aren’t all that reliable and tend to have an agenda.

I am minded to do this having previous experience of living in a city with terrorist presence, and of being in London whenever a major attack was taking place.

It’s practical and sensible to take precautions while going about your business, particularly whenever you are responsible for vulnerable people as I am.

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Saverage · 13/10/2023 13:41

StayorgoLDN · 13/10/2023 13:40

@Saverage

It wasn’t my intention to plant a seed of fear. But to get travel advice on what the current situation is as the media aren’t all that reliable and tend to have an agenda.

I am minded to do this having previous experience of living in a city with terrorist presence, and of being in London whenever a major attack was taking place.

It’s practical and sensible to take precautions while going about your business, particularly whenever you are responsible for vulnerable people as I am.

Yes, no worries, I know you have additional considerations with your children. I hope you all have a nice trip if and when you take it.

mirax · 13/10/2023 13:42

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lap90 · 13/10/2023 13:46

Never crossed my mind.

mirax · 13/10/2023 13:46

alrighthen · 13/10/2023 13:07

I live in London and the first thing I thought when Rishi Sunak declared support for Israel yesterday was 'Thanks a lot - now there's going to be a terrorist attack on London'

I'm close to a (totally lovely, chilled, British) Pakistani family who are absolutely furious about the situation in Palestine and some of their social media has been getting pretty punchy. It's not violent at all but certainly angrier than 'I stand with Palestine' type posts. My feelings about the situation are running pretty high myself and I'm not remotely religious. It's not hard to imagine how violent religious terrorists will be feeling in response to this news and what they might be capable of.

I still don't think the risk of anything happening on an individual level is high enough to be anxious about - I've no doubt that the risk of driving a car in the countryside is higher. But I do worry for the city as a whole.

It is Sunak's fault of course if religious terrorists attack innocent people./s

BeggyMitchell · 13/10/2023 13:47

When have the British Jewish community ever incited or inflicted violence on the streets of the UK. Or even revelled in the death of others?

I'd be interested to know as a born Londoner.

Getupat8amnow · 13/10/2023 13:49

I live close to a well known Jewish area. There are more police on patrol locally but I’m still going to my local M&S tomorrow morning as on Saturdays it is deserted as the vast majority of customers are observing Shabbat.

Miyagi99 · 13/10/2023 13:54

StayorgoLDN · 13/10/2023 13:06

@MyAnacondaMight

Look to explain this - again.

I realise that we are unlikely to get killed/injured.

My kids are autistic, what this means is that whenever we go on holiday we start preparing with visual schedules from 3 months ahead of time.

We sit them down to explain to them

Day 1: we will travel to the airport in our car, here is what the airport looks like, whenever you get into the airport this is what will happen, then on the plane they will do a safety briefing like this (video), we might get a snack on the plane - discussion of food, whenever we land we will pick up the bags and then exit the airport, here is what the airport in London looks like, we will get a train from X to Z here is what those stations look like, we will have lunch at X destination (has to be preplanned with known menu)…. Etc etc etc

A change in what is expected ie getting off at Gloucester Rd rather than Kensington High st, could result in anything from mild distress and agitation to a complete meltdown, hyperventilation or in the case of one of the children them lashing out and doing a runner.

It depends on what their tolerance level is at the time. For example if there are a few minor changes, probably ok, if substantial which for them would be 2-3 travel changes/missing out on seeing something big in the itinerary this is liable to result in up to 2 days of the holiday to be written off. Thankfully they haven’t had to experience an out of control protest/terrorism disruption, I would imagine this would write off the whole holiday.

I don’t want to spend a few thousand to sit in a hotel room rocking children to calm them thanks.

What changes are you expecting? There are none.

RosaMoline · 13/10/2023 13:59

I live on the outskirts (30 mins by train) - won’t stop me.

StayorgoLDN · 13/10/2023 14:02

@Miyagi99

At minimum we are changing our hotel accommodation and travel plans in relation to the tube over the protests as stands.

Should things escalate further here in response to what is going on between Israel/Gaza, then we may have to reschedule entirely.

Should an issue occur when we are there it could be anything from a blocked road, cancellation of transport, closed attraction to cancellation of a show.

That’s what happens with major protests that escalate to violence and terrorist attacks. People are prevented from accessing their normal activities.

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User767463 · 13/10/2023 14:04

The chances of something happening at exactly the same place and same time as you in a giant city is absolutely miniscule. A thought exercise:

  1. A terrorist is planning an attack today. It could be any of the bazillion locations in London. Piccadilly Circus? Trafalgar Square? The Tube?

  2. You are going about your day in London. Will you walk through Piccadilly? How long does that take? Assuming it takes 60-90 seconds to go from one side to the other, it's almost impossible to be there exactly at the same time as a terrorist attack even IF an attack is actually planned for that day. The chances of him showing up half an hour later or three hours later or any other random slot of time is statistically much more likely.

  3. Now multiply the probability of you being in exactly the same place at the same time as a terrorist by all the possible targets and locations in a city the size of London. It's basically zero.

Another way of looking at it is to think of a single person who also happens to be in London. Maybe a celebrity? Eg Kate Moss. What are the chances you have ever stood across Kate Moss by coincidence in a city the size of London? You could probably go your entire life both living in the same city without meeting each other. The exact principle of "two random moments" applies to actually being caught in a terrorist attack, or car crash for that matter. It happens but you don't live your life in fear of getting ploughed into by another car.

StayorgoLDN · 13/10/2023 14:10

@User767463

Please can people rtft or at least OP posts before getting excited.

To reiterate again…..

I am aware that if there is a terrorist attack or escalating violence at a protest somewhere in London, that I am unlikely to be killed or hurt.

BUT - I have also been in GATWICK when there was a major terrorist attack in London which led to two days of disruption and distress. And have experience of living in a city with frequent attacks/protests/disruption.

I have autistic children and they couldn’t deal with anything like the above. Hence why I am trying to suss out risk/plan cautiously so I can meet my kids needs.

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madeinmanc · 13/10/2023 14:11

Trauma surfing 🌊

StayorgoLDN · 13/10/2023 14:14

Thanks all for helping me to come to some resolution as to what to do/how to adapt the trip.

Will update at a later stage as to if we went/how we got on.

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BlurredEdges · 13/10/2023 14:32

Coughingdodger · 13/10/2023 11:08

Of course they are. Where did I say that a Jewish poster living in London isn’t allowed to feel stressed?
But let’s get things into perspective.

Content Warning - distressing post (added by MNHQ)

Hamas cut open a pregnant woman's belly, made her watch as they stabbed the baby, then shot her in the head.

They burned whole families alive.

They made women beg not to kill their children, then killed them, one at a time, making their mothers watch.

They decapitated a man slowly with a garden tool.

They gang raped women on their dead friends ' bodies.

They shot elderly people at bus stops.

All in one day, a few hours, over a thousand people. Including many family friends and people I know personally.

They put all this on social media, glorifying it.

Then people all around the world, including in my home city, London, celebrated and cheered these acts and called them "beautiful ".

Does that help to understand my perspective?

RisingSunn · 13/10/2023 14:45

Just to add. There is very likely to be protests in some form around South Kensington. (Sorry I’m not sure if you mentioned High Street or South Kensington).

About 3 months ago the pro Palestinian protests took up the main road by Queens Gate up towards the Royal Albert. Horns and everything/slowed traffic etc..

So although no major disruption…I can understand in these circumstances things may be more intense and on a larger scale.

So perhaps try a bit further north towards Baker Street or something..

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 13/10/2023 14:51

@StayorgoLDN British Museum is at Russell Square so not West End either.

Not saying South Ken for other museums would be protest free, but just that it’s not the same area as Oxford street. Sorry if any misunderstanding!

MaxwellMouseCoffee · 13/10/2023 14:55

I have just come from a quick trip into central London and sat on the tube. Am I meant to be scared of bedbugs? Eek! I thought it was Paris. I had missed anything happening here!

hby9628 · 13/10/2023 14:57

We have a trip booked to London for half term & honestly, the thought not to go hadn't crossed my mind until this thread. I think I will monitor the situation though and see. I think I purposely haven't been reading too much in the media recently as it's all horrific.
Also bedbugs?? I'm off to google this now

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