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Dinners - are Brits only ones that make international food for dinner

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o9yhke89 · 13/06/2023 15:43

Was chatting with an Italian and Spanish friend about kids dinners - and mostly they just make whatever they grew up with i.e. Italian and Spanish food and really treasure their family recipes. Most of my English friends always try to have food from different cultures and this is seen as much more sophisticated and worldly. I've lived all over but was wondering whether the Brits just don't value their own cuisine especially when it comes to family meals.

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RaininSummer · 13/06/2023 18:37

I think one factor is that many foreign cuisines are much better for vegetarians as British cuisine is mainly meat ot fish.

Sacroiliac · 13/06/2023 18:38

I am from an Asian background and my favourite foods are Indian, Thai and Malaysian.

But I forgive British food everything because of its puddings.

YoucancallmeKAREN · 13/06/2023 18:39

MaxwellCat · 13/06/2023 15:48

Probably because British food isn't very nice?

Or maybe you are a boring cook. In these isles we have the best seafood, lamb, beef, cheese and soft fruits, if you don't have an imagination then you will produce food that isn't very nice no matter which cuisine you are trying to cook.

ilovemydogmore · 13/06/2023 18:40

CovertImage · 13/06/2023 16:14

Well if you're British, this just means that YOUR food is shit

Apart from the occasional roast dinner I don't cook British food. Nothing appealing about boiled root veg and meat.

Endlesssummerof76 · 13/06/2023 18:40

*I think people often just eat what fits in with their lives. If you have a relatively sedentary life, you don’t need all those carbs. I think British dinnertime is getting later too - instead of 5pm, many people are eating dinner at 7-8pm+ now, and don’t want stodge before bed.

Wanging a stir-fry together or chucking some pasta on is quick, easy, very customisable to tastes, and you get your veg in. Similar with curries, you can even make a day/s in advance.*

Isn't pasta one of the worst stodgy carbs?

Lessoftheold · 13/06/2023 18:40

Skethylita · 13/06/2023 18:32

See, I can't. I tried. 3 independent butchers in my large town centre and I am lucky if I can get my hands on rabbit at Easter. No meat other than your average chicken, lamb, pork and beef products, with the very occasional bit of duck or turkey, maybe once a month if you get there early enough.

If I request chickens' hearts I get looked at like an idiot (they're used in traditional food I cook) and the rest I just get told a flat "we don't sell that".

Your average townie, like most of the people around me, won't look further than that. So why bother?

You need an online game butcher who will deliver.

katepilar · 13/06/2023 18:42

I have noticed this trend in the UK too. In some places or families I worked for more than in others.

Sacroiliac · 13/06/2023 18:42

Actually the blandest dish in the world is the tagine. Whether it is in a restaurant here or actually in Morocco or Tunisia. Big lumps of carrot and meat lying in sloppy tasteless couscous. Give me a Lancashire hotpot any day.

Thriwit · 13/06/2023 18:47

Yes, pasta can be stodgy, but if you serve it with tomato-based sauces instead of cream or what-have-you, it lightens it. As a whole, the dish feels lighter than something like bangers & mash, for example. Different strokes for different folks (I’m not a big pasta fan, but the rest of my family are). My main point was that it might fit into your life better.

Saschka · 13/06/2023 18:47

WhatTheHeckyPeck · 13/06/2023 18:03

I've been trying to think when I last ate a "traditional" British meal and the only 1 I can think of is a toad-in-the-hole I made about a month ago. British cuisine is for the most part boring. If I'm going to spend time cooking a meal I want to be able to enjoy it and in all my 57 years on this planet I've yet to have a British meal that's made me think " that was delicious".

Really? You’ve never eaten at a decent modern British restaurant or gastropub? Or you have and didn’t like it?

If you’ve had “good” British cooking in a decent restaurant (not a Harvester or chain pub) and didn’t like it, I don’t know what to say. Plenty of non-Brits like it.

Ginmonkeyagain · 13/06/2023 18:49

The UK used loads of spices it its cooking - nutmeg, mace, cinnamon, ginger, allspice - all popular in traditional dishes going back centuries.

Pigeon31 · 13/06/2023 18:49

Some of it is because we have a really wide range of foods in supermarkets here. I noticed in Italy that they do tend to mostly sell things that are components of Italian cooking - whereas we have huge ranges of world food as standard.

MovingBird123 · 13/06/2023 18:58

Nope. Israeli family love making Asian food. I also used to live with a German girl who made sushi and pasta.

Karmakamelion · 13/06/2023 18:58

@TripleDaisySummer chicken tikka masala is based on murgh makhani which originated in Delhi

notokaywiththetropes · 13/06/2023 19:00

Sacroiliac · 13/06/2023 18:42

Actually the blandest dish in the world is the tagine. Whether it is in a restaurant here or actually in Morocco or Tunisia. Big lumps of carrot and meat lying in sloppy tasteless couscous. Give me a Lancashire hotpot any day.

You obviously never had a good tagine. I've had many in Morocco and make them at home. Lamb and prune with tons of fresh cumin and herbs, or chicken with preserved lemon and lots of garlic....unreal.

Seems the issue for many responders here is that they just haven't had good food from most cuisines. British food isn't bland, pasta isn't stodgy, Indian isn't just curry......you just need to taste better food all round!!

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 13/06/2023 19:04

Swrigh1234 · 13/06/2023 18:02

It really is. I don’t need to read the thread to know that. Compare the average British recipe with Indian, Chinese, Thai, Mexican, Turkish, Arab and do a spice ingredient count.

Now do the same for the average French or Italian recipe. I'd be surprised to find that traditional British cuisine used fewer spices than those.

Also, look at what the average takeaway/restaurant from the cuisines you mention use in the UK compared to what comparable places use back home. It's bound to be less complex. Not all ingredients travel well.

(Nobody has mentioned food miles yet, so I will. All the rice and pasta based meals involve importing foods we can't grow in this country. There's an environmental cost to that, and that matters to some of us.)

Bamboozles · 13/06/2023 19:05

We regularly have traditional British food mostly in the winter because it's cold here. Toad in the hole, faggots, Lancashire hotpot, Oxtail stew, Irish stew, with lots of root veg and cabbage, kale etc!
In the summer we have fresh home grown salad most nights, Broad beans, runner beans, new potatoes!
We also have fresh fish regularly.
We also eat curries, tagines. Pizzas, pasta and Mexican dishes.
Probably more all round than any other culture 🤣

DogInATent · 13/06/2023 19:07

Rabbit and duck - I can get wild game locally in season but from the local fishmonger who's also a game dealer rather than the local butcher.

Brits generally aren't adventurous when it comes to food. Oh they'll try a curry as long as it's veggie or a 'normal' meat (chicken, beef, lamb, pork), and they'll eat fish - bit generally the same six species. But give them something different and most wouldn't know what do do with it, even if they could bring themselves to try it.

Just look at the regular "disgusting food"/"foods you couldn't eat" threads, and they're packed with normal, traditional British foods and ingredients.

Nine out of ten Mumsnetters thing it's traditional to serve a Yorkshire pudding made in a muffin tin alongside the meat. Starting from that point of ignorance it's no wonder that traditional British cooking has been declining in breadth and scope.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 13/06/2023 19:12

Redebs · 13/06/2023 18:32

There isn't much in the way of vegetarian food in British cuisine is there?

I stopped eating meat a whole back and most of the foods I cook at home have international origins. Just a thought.

Are there many traditional British meals that are meat-free?

Macaroni cheese, cauliflower cheese, pease pudding, lentil soup, broth (unless made with meat stock), Ploughman's lunch, curried eggs, Glamorgan sausages, cheese and potato pie, jacket potatoes with cheese/beans. Omelettes (borrowed from the French, but hey! we do appropriation really well here.) Egg and chips. Beans and chips.

The salads of my youth which were just lettuce, cucumber, tomato and often hard-boiled egg, salad cream, (latterly replaced by Hellman's mayonnaise), pickles, beetroot and could easily be made vegetarian by just not having cold meat and perhaps having a heap of grated cheese at the side of the plate. Not haute cuisine, but not beige either.

Ohgooodgodwhathashappened · 13/06/2023 19:14

rufusthered3 · 13/06/2023 17:53

Sooo unfair. Gimme a leek and potato soup, apple crumble, sticky toffee pudding, Sunday roast, or hearty bangers and mash any day. Our food is delicious.

@rufusthered3 most of what you listed is beige to be fair!

TheCyclingGorilla · 13/06/2023 19:16

We eat all sorts, but we have loads of multicultural supermarkets near us. We can buy spices in bulk and basmati rice by the ten kilos if we want. Yes we eat International, but we also eat British favourites, and love it when game season comes round.

Endlesssummerof76 · 13/06/2023 19:17

Seems the issue for many responders here is that they just haven't had good food from most cuisines. British food isn't bland, pasta isn't stodgy, Indian isn't just curry......you just need to taste better food all round!!

Pasta is definitely stodgy. I've visited Italy over 30 times and have eaten everywhere from the very best restaurants all over the country to the homes of friends and colleagues. Italy is one of my favourite countries. I love the people but my opinion of Italian food has never changed.

Sarahtm35 · 13/06/2023 19:19

MaxwellCat · 13/06/2023 15:48

Probably because British food isn't very nice?

Maybe the food you cook isn’t very nice, maybe your mother couldn’t cook and that’s why your experience of home cooked English food has been a bad example.

Sarahtm35 · 13/06/2023 19:23

ilovemydogmore · 13/06/2023 18:40

Apart from the occasional roast dinner I don't cook British food. Nothing appealing about boiled root veg and meat.

Because you’re not cooking it right. Boiling a bag of that rubbish ‘mixed veg’ and throwing in an unseasoned chicken is bound to taste crap.
learn to cook properly or visit a decent pub (not weatherspoons or the harvester) and give us your opinion then.

Ski4130 · 13/06/2023 19:26

We cook a mix in our house, but we’re a mix of different backgrounds (I was born and raised in France, dh is English born with a Spanish mum and Maltese Dad, and we spent 4 years living in NZ) so it’s a total blend of Mediterranean, English & kiwi recipes. Dh also cooks a lot of Asian food. Anyone knocking English food either has an outdated version of what that actually is, or is surrounded by shit cooks, because English food, cooked well, is lovely.