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Lack of school residential trips...

242 replies

StrongerThongs · 22/02/2023 16:05

Full prepared to be told IABU because Covid, teacher stress, cost of living crisis etc BUT I have a DD in Y9 who has never been on a residential school trip, either in the UK or overseas. Her primary school were unable to offer a Y6 trip due to Covid.

Pre-covid the secondary school she is now at offered several opportunities a year but this has been reduced to one massively oversubscribed and prohibitively expensive ski trip every two years (the last one was to Colorado!) and a couple of subject-specific trips for KS4 (eg. languages trips, geography field trips).

Instead school have decided to run an activities week in the summer term for all pupils which includes a bunch of paid days out (eg theatre trips, museums, escape rooms) or the opportunity to stay in school for free activities (sports). This seems like a bit of a crap alternative and frankly a waste of a week's education!

I get that school trips take a lot of planning and I am NOT knocking teachers but I believe they offer really important opportunities for developing confidence, resilience, independence etc particularly for children who have missed so much due to Covid.

FWIW this is a successful oversubscribed state school. At my own bog-standard comprehensive I was able to go skiing in Italy, canoeing in France, fell-walking in the Lakes as well as field/language trips and I'm not from a wealthy background - trips were affordable/subsidised. Obviously times have changed.

Interested to know what other schools offer? And if IABU for thinking DD's school could do better?

OP posts:
Soproudoflionesses · 22/02/2023 21:06

Retreat · 22/02/2023 20:29

We have been on a skiing holiday this year, however I was talking about a school trip. It doesn’t have to be skiing. They haven’t been anywhere! Even at a minimum a cultural trip into London. Sorry it’s laziness.

You're not sorry though are you?

Ever worked in a school??

WombatChocolate · 22/02/2023 21:06

Retreat, if you’re a teacher, can you think if any reasons why teachers who used to be willing to organise trips, no longer want to? Clearly lots have been listed on this thread. Have you not spotted any of them in the schools you work in - tens and hundreds of hours of admin beforehand? Incredible pressure and burden of responsibility during trip? Loss of goodwill due to the increasing demands within the job? The fact it all attracts complaints and no appreciation? Laziness? Hmmm.

We must say, your view if you’re a teacher is…….extremely strange …..goady??!

froomeonthebroom · 22/02/2023 21:08

My school have offered 3 overseas trips this year at varying costs and all have been undersubscribed. It's hard to justify running them if people can't afford it/aren't interested.

MrsHamlet · 22/02/2023 21:10

froomeonthebroom · 22/02/2023 21:08

My school have offered 3 overseas trips this year at varying costs and all have been undersubscribed. It's hard to justify running them if people can't afford it/aren't interested.

And a lot of work goes into it before you send the letters out... it's time wasted

DanseAvecLesLoup · 22/02/2023 21:13

Retreat · 22/02/2023 20:55

I’m a teacher and happily run school trips as I know how enjoyable they are and how important for creating memories. My dd school has done nothing. Hence why I can say it’s laziness. No one can be bothered anymore. Such a shame.

Yep, it's just laziness.🙄

Stop being a goady twat

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 22/02/2023 21:14

+Retreat · Today 20:29
We have been on a skiing holiday this year, however I was talking about a school trip. It doesn’t have to be skiing. They haven’t been anywhere! Even at a minimum a cultural trip into London. Sorry it’s laziness*

Yeah setting off at 4.00 am to avoid the traffic in the M1 with a load of tired teens is lazy. Then controlling tired teens in London, whikst your also knackered. The months of organisation, getting it approved by SNT, letters checked, sorting replies, and you haven’t even set off.

Do please explain how you organise trips, because lots if teachers must be hazy. Bet you’re a joy to work with and at parents evening.

MrWhippersnapper · 22/02/2023 21:15

Teacher my arse

WombatChocolate · 22/02/2023 21:17

MrWhippersnapper · 22/02/2023 21:15

Teacher my arse

Absolutely!

Sorry, but our responses are exactly what Retreat wants aren’t they! I’m guilty of responding too as the posts are so irritating…..but it’s what goady people want. Probably chuckling away at home.

EmmaEmerald · 22/02/2023 21:18

MrsHamlet · 22/02/2023 20:59

Nope.
I just don't think it's my job to do those things. If I think a trip has curricular value, I will organise it. But a ski trip/shopping centre visit/theme park visit... I don't see the point and I'm not prepared to spend precious time on it.

Agree
parents should organise this sort of thing.

aren't new teachers leaving within five years of joining, surely by now someone has put two and two together?!

MrsHamlet · 22/02/2023 21:19

A lot of teachers don't make it even as far as 5 years!

noblegiraffe · 22/02/2023 21:23

surely by now someone has put two and two together?!

Dunno, some people on another thread were calling teachers disgusting and abusive for not giving a child something that was neither ordered nor paid for so I think some parents really think that they can behave like utter dicks and teachers will just continue to suck it up and do stuff like work for free.

This thread shows that perhaps the tactic of treating teachers like shit for years is having consequences.

PumpkinDart · 22/02/2023 21:24

Well my children's school have a residential every year from year 3 (seems young to me but my daughter went and loved it, I think her whole class went) and one every year following.

I know that in a comprehensive school a family member teaches at there's been trips to parts of Asia, ski trips and other various history trips (one to Washington) in the last year so I think it's school dependent.

Maybe your child's school is just being conscious of the cost of living increasing and tailoring trips that are more affordable for the majority rather than the minority.

PumpkinDart · 22/02/2023 21:26

Plus, echoing others, perhaps teachers would be more inclined to offer up their PERSONAL TIME to do these trips if they weren't already completely underappreciated for the personal time they give up to mark/ lesson plan etc.

Retreat · 22/02/2023 21:49

Sorry had to take a break as I’m marking. Yes, I work in a school and enjoy what I do. I find the attitude at dd school lazy. They used to do loads of trips pre covid, but now nothing. I find it frustrating and I’m not trying to be goading. It’s my honest opinion having worked in education for a long time.

Battlecat98 · 22/02/2023 21:54

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 22/02/2023 20:46

And yet every teacher on here has said the same thing.

It’s not ‘horrible’, it’s the truth. That’s why there are no trips.

Well not exactly every teacher, there are teachers on here that have said they enjoy doing it and organise trips. My point was, that it's not necessarily just the teacher stress, that means there are no trips, there are many reasons, cost of living,covid, difficult parents.
My DC school does offer residential trips but it is first come, first served and very expensive.

Retreat · 22/02/2023 21:56

I suppose I just enjoy teaching and seeing young people grow and develop. I also enjoy seeing them outside the school environment. It’s rewarding in my opinion.

maddy68 · 22/02/2023 21:56

Residential trips can only happen of tea hers are willing to give up their unpaid time ma y of them have their own children who are on holiday and it's untenable plus they honestly genuinely need their nreaks

eatdrinkandbemerry · 22/02/2023 21:56

Schools can't win 🤷‍♀️
My child's school do a residential every year and parents moan about cost very savagely! They don't offer one and the parents moan their children are missing out!

yeetingbird · 22/02/2023 22:01

Retreat · 22/02/2023 20:55

I’m a teacher and happily run school trips as I know how enjoyable they are and how important for creating memories. My dd school has done nothing. Hence why I can say it’s laziness. No one can be bothered anymore. Such a shame.

And if you actually read many of the responses on this thread you would learn that it's not simply laziness.

noblegiraffe · 22/02/2023 22:06

Advanced search throws up questions.

S72 · 22/02/2023 22:07

School residential are so expensive. I haven't been able to send my son on one.

Thankfully, Scouts is reasonable. Last year was a 7 night Jamboree for £250.

This year a 7 night summer camp including adventure activities, a day trip and all food for less than £300.

Our scout group fundraised some of the above, so the actual cost per participant is less.

Plus much cheaper weekend camps and activity days throughout the year.

Sherrystrull · 22/02/2023 22:21

Retreat · 22/02/2023 21:56

I suppose I just enjoy teaching and seeing young people grow and develop. I also enjoy seeing them outside the school environment. It’s rewarding in my opinion.

Hmmmm.

Goady point scoring.

Appuskidu · 22/02/2023 22:23

Retreat · 22/02/2023 20:17

I agree op. I’m sick of the excuses. My Dd is in Y9 and no school trips. That was the best thing about school and created such great memories for me. The schools need to do better. I’m hoping they do something for next year. We have just applied for a summer intensive outside of school just so she does something.

…and you are paying for your DD to
go to this school?

TheNefariousOrange · 22/02/2023 22:24

I ran a residential trip every year pre-covid. This year I also will but I regret it deeply and it will be my last. The behaviour of both parents and children post-covid is getting worse. There's no way I'm taking kids abroad that can't behave in a classroom, and there's no way I'm dealing with all the admin just to be spoken to like crap from parents. I'd much rather spend my unpaid time with my own DD.

LolaSmiles · 22/02/2023 22:25

As a teacher who has run many trips abroad and in the UK over the years, I'll be completely honest and say that post pandemic, I haven't organised any trips as I simply don't feel it is actually appreciated how much time, effort and responsibility teaching actually takes, never mind extras like trips
Same here.
I've always volunteered for extracurricular, weekend trips, UK and overseas residentials, but I just want time with my family now.
I'm over prioritising other people's children over my own.

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