My Dad died at the weekend- 4 days ago- boss rang me & then turned up at my house asking when I was going up be back. I am not even remotely ready - not even had funeral yet which is next weds.
Aibu to think I should get signed off sick? I have barely taken a day sick in a decade so feel like it’s s time to just take a bit of time out.
AIBU?
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Upthebracket22 · 02/11/2022 19:49
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLPotatoFamily · 02/11/2022 19:55
Sorry for your loss. I’m not sure what you can do about this. It’s awful and desperately unhelpful.
I had exactly this, my boss texted me the morning my mum died, about seven hours after it had happened, saying “are you coming in tomorrow or what?”. I lost my shit. I also had compassionate leave withheld and had to take it unpaid whilst others were granted it. HR just said it was managers discretion. 🤷🏻♀️ I’d been there five years, had never had an issue and had just been promoted. I never felt the same there again after that, all my passion was gone, and I left the industry entirely 7 months later. I loved that job too.
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