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Is it worth going to the theatre to watch the ballet / a musical if you're right at the back?

101 replies

Ideasideas · 23/10/2022 18:18

I don't have much spare money at the moment but would love to take my girls to see Matthew Bourne's Sleeping Beauty at Sadler's Wells Theatre, and The Snowman at Peacock Theatre.

I can only afford for us to sit at the back. Is it worth going?

OP posts:
CakeCrumbs44 · 23/10/2022 19:37

Ideasideas · 23/10/2022 18:39

Thank you for the replies and website suggestions - I'll check those out now! I think I'll go ahead and book some back seat tickets, better than not going at all I guess! I don't want my DC to miss out just because I can't afford the better seats and yes the atmosphere and being part of the audience is always amazing regardless of seating position.

I did read that MB's sleeping beauty was a little dark... my DC are 7. I did see that it's resticited for under 5s and I found a review of someone who took their 5 and 6 year olds who both loved it apparently. I'm not so sure now! Do you think it comes down to how children might react individually, or that all children should avoid it?

I don't mean because it's scary or inappropriate, as they probably just wouldn't comprehend that. It's more that it's really hard to follow the story with no words, and it will be a different story to the one they "know" from the Disney film, and it's pretty boring to sit through a ballet for kids IMO.

Singleandproud · 23/10/2022 19:38

We always sit up high when we go to London, take a couple of £ for the opera glasses (binoculars) and you might as well be sat at the front.

CakeCrumbs44 · 23/10/2022 19:38

Musicals are much more fun!

Singleandproud · 23/10/2022 19:40

@Ideasideas have you heard of Kids week (really it's a month) in August children go free to West End shows

Darbs76 · 23/10/2022 19:42

Only seen plays and musicals not ballet but I’ve never had a really awful seat that I’ve thought it wasn’t worth going. I love going to the theatre, I go quite often and have paid a lot for some tickets and £20 for others and I don’t think the hugely expensive seats are worth it

EndlessMagpies · 23/10/2022 19:47

Matthew Bourne's productions aren't really what you would describe as ballet in the traditional sense. The dancers are classically trained, but it is far more modern and contemporary in style.

TottersBlankly · 23/10/2022 19:51

It's more that it's really hard to follow the story with no words, and it will be a different story to the one they "know" from the Disney film, and it's pretty boring to sit through a ballet for kids IMO.

But these are reasons to take them! New experiences develop the brain. Why shouldn’t a child learn how to get the most out of a situation that is different to watching Disney at home? Why shouldn’t they begin to learn how to interpret a story without words? Are people really only offering their children things they’ll find easy and unchallenging?

I’m honestly flabbergasted that anyone could suggest ‘ballet isn’t suitable for kids’.

Robin60 · 23/10/2022 19:52

Quite regularly ballets are streamed live into the cinema, this is a relatively inexpensive way to find out if it’s worth investing in the real McCoy further down the,one. I do understand there’s nothing like a live show but sometimes it’s just not practical or affordable. Also, up you get an amazing, close up view of the dancers themselves - a bit like sitting in the posh seats!

Bunnycat101 · 23/10/2022 19:54

We’ve done the snowman right at the back- we took our then 2yo and wasn’t sure what she’d be like so booked the cheapest seats and near the end in case of a quick get away. It was fine being at the back in the peacock theatre. There are others where paying extra is well worth it. Frozen for example is v far away at the back so have gone for expensive tickets for that.

Bunnycat101 · 23/10/2022 19:59

Also worth keeping an eye out for English national ballet to see if they being back the ‘my first ballets’. Your post has prompted me to have a look and I couldn’t see any upcoming ones but I’m hoping they do them again as I would like to take my girls.

floradora · 23/10/2022 20:03

TottersBlankly · 23/10/2022 19:51

It's more that it's really hard to follow the story with no words, and it will be a different story to the one they "know" from the Disney film, and it's pretty boring to sit through a ballet for kids IMO.

But these are reasons to take them! New experiences develop the brain. Why shouldn’t a child learn how to get the most out of a situation that is different to watching Disney at home? Why shouldn’t they begin to learn how to interpret a story without words? Are people really only offering their children things they’ll find easy and unchallenging?

I’m honestly flabbergasted that anyone could suggest ‘ballet isn’t suitable for kids’.

I'm with you here - the experience is totally different. If you just want your children to know and appreciate Disney, then stick with Disney but the live theatre and dance experience is impossible to replicate

5128gap · 23/10/2022 20:11

Mammyloveswine · 23/10/2022 19:01

When we were poor students I bought DH tickets to see phantom in the west end..right at the back with a pillar in the way..we stayed in a travelodge and got the megabus down from Yorkshire... we had a FAB time!

His 40th is coming up next year so im going to book it again but with decent seats this time and a nicer hotel!

That really made me smile! What a lovely idea.

gogohmm · 23/10/2022 20:12

Yes of course! Live theatre can't be beaten

CeeceeBloomingdale · 23/10/2022 20:15

WeKnowFrogsGoShaLaLaLaLa · 23/10/2022 18:24

The theatre on my local city does £13 tickets for the the "worst" seats. I've been to the theatre twelve times this year for a similar price I'd pay for a cinema ticket. Not once has the view ruined my day. Give it a try.

I suspect we may live close to each other as I could have written this. I have also been at least once a month between a few different theatres, always in restricted view cheap seats. It is always worth while and rarely do you miss much. I'd rather see 4 plays/musicals/shows in restricted seats than 1 in the best seats.

Mummadeze · 23/10/2022 20:21

I usually book the very front row which is cheaper than the rest of most of the stalls. People don’t like being so close but I love it. You can see the actors so clearly. You just have to be prepared for the orchestra to be really loud!

HeBeaverandSheBeaver · 23/10/2022 20:23

Yes Matthew bourne is a very different ballet. I really didn't enjoy Cinderella that much. I love traditional classical ballet.

RainBow725 · 23/10/2022 21:02

I am a bit of MB fangirl and have seen them all in multiple theatres. Definitely worth seeing live - I would go high up rather than far back. You still get the overall visual spectacle if not not the fine detail. Some of them are definitely not suitable for kids but I think SB is ok - as long as they are not freaked out by vampires!

InsertPunHere · 24/10/2022 10:21

@Mummadeze , MB doesn't have a live orchestra.

@CakeCrumbs44, Ballet is easily understandable by young children. Mine have gone since they were 7 or 8. Telling stories through movement is something we do from the start.

TBOM · 29/10/2022 17:52

InsertPunHere · 24/10/2022 10:21

@Mummadeze , MB doesn't have a live orchestra.

@CakeCrumbs44, Ballet is easily understandable by young children. Mine have gone since they were 7 or 8. Telling stories through movement is something we do from the start.

It certainly does at Sadler's Wells, a very old friend of mine plays in it!

gabsdot45 · 29/10/2022 17:55

Yes, the last 2 shows I went to I sat on the very back row. It's still worth it.

Millsbills · 29/10/2022 17:55

It’s really not worth it if having poor seats

sorry OP

TBOM · 29/10/2022 18:05

Millsbills · 29/10/2022 17:55

It’s really not worth it if having poor seats

sorry OP

I disagree - it depends on the theatre. Sadler's Wells works just fine at the back.

threegoodthings · 29/10/2022 18:09

Musicals and dance are fine higher up/ further back, they're so visual and a different, not worse, experience from being closer to the front.

Plays I think you benefit from being closer to the stage.

BeaLola · 29/10/2022 18:10

I love Matthew Bourne ballets. Of your suggestion I would go for But racket as their first visit plus Christmassy

Heartily recommend Theatre Monkey for seat reviews

Also not sure if they do it anymore but the Peacock used to do a 241 offer on certain weekday evenings for the Snownan which made it more affordable for me to take my DS when he was younger

InsertPunHere · 29/10/2022 18:10

@TBOM - interesting! On tour he takes recorded music - or certainly when I've seen him on tour. I assumed it must be true at Sadler's Wells too,

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