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To be fed up with continual requests for feedback...

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FelicityFlops · 18/10/2022 19:10

Firstly, many places only want positive feedback - so that is a challenge.
Secondly, hotels that I have been going to since 2009 should really understand that I like them, feel comfortable and happy there and would definitely recommend them to other people.
Thirdly, I am not convinced that constructive criticism is ever passed on.
Fourthly, yes, I have just had yet another request for feedback.

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PeloFondo · 18/10/2022 20:40

bonus is often based on customers feedback
It would be nice if people gave compliments more I would say
That's not because we are shit Grin but I hear complaints weekly, and in 5 years I've had 3 compliments because people just don't give them

Ihatethenewlook · 18/10/2022 20:50

It’s bizarre reading this as I literally got one yesterday from a bloody paediatrician! I brought my son in for a check up, got told he’s 3 weeks away from his symptoms sorting themselves out before he’s got to go in for bloods (I know with his symptoms this means they’ll be checking for cancer). And at the end of the appointment she handed me a pen and form to fill in and asked to give her feedback and hand it in to reception 😡😡

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 18/10/2022 22:51

This thread has reminded me of the episode of Dave Gorman's Modern Life Is Good-ish, where the wonderful Annabel Port went out to ask people for feedback on the survey she had (supposedly) just done with them - except there was no actual survey; the only questions that she asked them were for feedback about their participation in the non-existent survey Grin

sorcerersapprentice · 18/10/2022 22:53

It drives me bonkers. Even the courier who literally leaves an Amazon parcel texts for feedback. I never do it now. I always click no to surveys. My time is too precious to be spent on this sort of pointless admin

TheClitterati · 18/10/2022 23:10

I ignore it all. If I am very happy I might leave a review. If I am really pissed off I might leave a review. New or local business I want to support I might leave feedback. Everyone else can go to fuck.

TheClitterati · 18/10/2022 23:13

If I get asked for my sex or gender the reply options are anything other than male/female = delete survey.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 18/10/2022 23:13

It drives me bonkers. Even the courier who literally leaves an Amazon parcel texts for feedback. I never do it now. I always click no to surveys. My time is too precious to be spent on this sort of pointless admin

They make such a massive deal of one-click ordering and how you can get your item ready on its way to you in just two seconds - but then fail to mention the extra 5-10 minutes that they want you to spend reviewing the product, the seller (if Marketplace) and then the delivery as well.

Gymnopedie · 18/10/2022 23:32

And they only want good ones. Poor ones, however factually correct, are removed.
<glares at M&Co, when the 27" inside leg jeans were 30" - I measured them. The next day, poof! Gone. 27" v 30" is not a matter of opinion.)

Maverickess · 18/10/2022 23:39

I can't speak for everywhere obviously, but where I work criticism is definitely passed on because I'm usually one of the people on the recieving end of the post mortem when a poor review comes in. I know that things have been changed based on feedback we've received.

I will agree though that sometimes, it's not acted upon, or, twisted to make it the fault of the staff on duty when actually it's a staffing or system issue that's the real problem, and that needs fixing but there's always the 'apologies and more training' response which pisses me off as much as I'm sure it pisses the customers off.

Thing is though, that so many people only review negatively, and that can give a skewed overview of the place. So asking everyone to review tries to combat this by encouraging happy customers to review as well as unhappy ones to give a more balanced view, we might have had 99 happy customers today, and one who wasn't, but if the one who wasn't happy is the only one to review then it's not giving a true picture that 99% of customers were actually happy and only one unhappy, which on balance means the place is a pretty good one.

We don't expect every customer to review, of course not, and I don't review every single time I'm asked, but I do try to, especially if it's been a good experience as well as if it's been a bad one. Unfortunately reviewing online is now seen as a blackmail tool by some, and most people do read reviews of somewhere before they stay/dine/buy to weigh up if it's worth it, so it's worth a business trying to even things out, especially when you're told in person how happy people are but then only the bad ones end up published for all to see.
I also like reading them, gives the opportunity to reflect on something not done right and a boost when something is done right. Much rather have a positive review than a tip tbh!

Isaidnoalready · 18/10/2022 23:40

Amazon removed feedback when I said I couldn't review the product as I had never received it but the customer service was great yeah not allowed I need to review the PRODUCT....I never received it i cant review it 🤷‍♀️

Isaidnoalready · 18/10/2022 23:41

Ebay removed my feedback I pointed out it was facts not fiction so they banned the seller

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