Hello, I just wanted some opinions. my step daughter comes over every weekend with head lice. I go through her hair every week and get rid of them. She goes home and following weekend they’re back now I know children get them not a problem, but here’s where my am I being unreasonable comes in
Her mother is getting angry and abusive over the fact I have to keep going through her hair. I am not just attacking her with the comb as soon as she walks in I don’t say anything, my step daughter comes to me upset saying she’s pulled another nit out of her hair and asks me to check her, more than happy too. her mum is threatening to stop her coming over as I’m being abusive and keep telling her child that she has headlice she clearly does her mum knows a particular one of her friends children have them and they don’t do anything about the problem but continues to take step daughter to play with them, mum does nothing to get rid of them either it all always falls on me I told my partner he needs to do something about the issue, he told her he felt she was neglecting his child because she doesn’t check her hair at all. She’s gone mad calling me up threatening to stop contact, telling me I’m abusing her child, threatening to hurt me, my partner told her he would call the police if she carried on. Am I wrong for checking her hair? I don’t believe I’ve done anything wrong would you react the same way?
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Step daughter always has headlice.
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Honeybee129 · 21/09/2022 22:12
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