Was speaking to my mum the other day and she was saying how she can’t get back to sleep after waking up at around 6 am now. She said they go downstairs and put the radio on the tv and listens to hits from the 60/70’s with a cup of coffee/tea.
Sounds a nice thing to do, but I remember my Grandparents doing similar, i don’t know, I guess I’ve become very aware of their age all of a sudden…mum 69, dad, 73
AIBU?
Parents have started doing what Grandparents do
Bringbackthe90s · 05/08/2022 10:06
Am I being unreasonable?
400 votes. Final results.
POLLVickyEadieofThigh · 05/08/2022 11:59
I'm 64, so already on the track to old githood. But my memory of taking my late Mum to a holiday cottage in 2013 (when she was 77) provides my best example of the bizarreness of this phenomemon.
Mum had the customary narrow food preferences of someone her age, so one night we had (high quality) sausages for dinner. She took one with a minuscule portion of veg, etc and on being offered to take another by my partner, declared "I think one's more than enough - don't you?"
Now, when I was a child, we ALWAYS got 2 sausages. WHO thinks a single feckin' sausage is "More than enough"?
This has become a catchphrase in our house, mind!
antelopevalley · 06/08/2022 14:03
I am in my fifties and bewildered by the amount of women I know my age who are deciding to no longer drive on motorways.
Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 06/08/2022 14:16
I don't drive - don't need to, live in London, but also I was a useless driver when I had lessons and after failing my test decided to do the world a favour and abandon the whole idea - believe me, the world is a safer place in consequence. However, as to why some women in their 50s might decide to stop motorway driving, could this be related to anxiety, perhaps as a result of the menopause? Feeling their reaction times are slowing down?
Nanny0gg · 07/08/2022 12:27
That's me.
Would you rather there were lots of very nervous drivers on motorways? (I'm fine on dual carriageways and local driving)
antelopevalley · 06/08/2022 14:03
I am in my fifties and bewildered by the amount of women I know my age who are deciding to no longer drive on motorways.
IncompleteSenten · 05/08/2022 13:27
I was so determined to never turn into my mother that I accidentally turned into my dad.
Beer belly, dad jokes and luxurious beard included. 😭
velvetvixen · 07/08/2022 09:23
I think maybe it’s nice to obsess over tiny, insignificant details, and leave all the world’s actual, big complex problems to someone else. Kind of retiring from responsibility.
There's something in this I relate to. I'm more inclined to eyeroll at the state of the world than become incensed as I did in my youth.
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