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Not to have life insurance. Do you?

236 replies

BrilliantBetty · 09/09/2021 21:25

Do most people have life insurance?
Even if you're young-ish?
I've always thought it was some sort of money making thing that's a bit of a scam maybe.

But i'm getting more and more adverts for it and beginning to think perhaps I should get it.

Is it something most people have?

OP posts:
thefourgp · 09/09/2021 21:39

Yes, have for years and single parent with two young kids and a mortgage.

I had a friend aged 34 who died earlier this year, didn’t have life insurance and her husband had to start a go fund me to pay for her funeral.

It’d make a big difference to his future life and raising their children alone if she’d had it.

thefourgp · 09/09/2021 21:40

I’ve also got critical illness cover for me and the children. Nobody knows what’s around the corner and nobody thinks it’ll happen to them. Please look into it OP.

moynomore · 09/09/2021 21:41

As soon as I got pregnant we got life insurance. An absolute must and no brainer in my opinion.

custardbear · 09/09/2021 21:41

We do so the mortgage is paid off if one of us dies if I die my family do quite well out of my pension too - not so much if DH goes first

NotExactlyHappyToHelp · 09/09/2021 21:43

I do as I don’t own and therefore have no real assets to pass on to DS. I pay £11 a month for £250,000 cover that would pay out early in the event of me being diagnosed with a terminal illness.

wonkylegs · 09/09/2021 21:43

We didn't have it until we had kids, now it's there to ensure that the mortgage gets paid and any other additional costs that would arise if one or both of us were no longer here. It's to minimise disruption as much as possible at what would be an already difficult time.

randomchap · 09/09/2021 21:44

Without my late wife's life insurance we wouldn't have been able to stay in the family home.

Having that money probably saved me from completely breaking down.

TaraR2020 · 09/09/2021 21:45

No, not yet but planning to get it sorted in the next year

alwayswrighty · 09/09/2021 21:45

I've got:

Life Insurance to repay the mortgage
Family income benefit to provide a monthly payment to my husband until our youngest is 23
Income protection
Critical illness
Will

I am not taking any chances. I'm the main wage earner and my husband and kids would be screwed without it.

RubaDubMum89 · 09/09/2021 21:46

I'm 32 and have it. Had it a few years now since we bought the house. Mine is only to cover me until I'm 60, I forget which, so if I died young my DH would have enough to pay off the mortgage and not worry about the kid/s and could cut his hours at work to be there more.

DustyMaiden · 09/09/2021 21:46

25 year policy on birth of DS.

JaninaDuszejko · 09/09/2021 21:46

I have a death in service benefit which would pay off the whole mortgage and leaves DH and the DC with a lump sum as well. We live well within our means, save lots and DH has a good job anyway so while I'm the higher earner his income alone would be more than enough to live on.

Overthebow · 09/09/2021 21:46

Yes, me and DH both have death in service provision from our employers, and life insurance. We rely on both our incomes to pay the mortgage so we need it. We also have critical illness cover.

PermanentTemporary · 09/09/2021 21:46

@TabithaTiger I'm no expert at all but this is how I went about it.

For life insurance, I basically balanced what I could afford with what I think I need! So funeral costs run about £3-7k (yes really), mortgage, maybe a year's income for whoever has to look after the children, and a bit of money for each child. I then got quotes from a comparison site and adjusted accordingly - I think it actually wasn't as expensive as I feared so I increased the amount a bit. Then I went for a company id heard of.

For income protection and/or critical illness cover which are much more unusual and very expensive, I googled and read for some months until I was sure I understood the pros and cons. Then I asked friends for a financial adviser recommendation and bought income protection through him. For me, it worked well.

PermanentTemporary · 09/09/2021 21:47

Oh BTW I pay about £9 a month for my life insurance.

DGFB · 09/09/2021 21:47

Yes we both have it. It will pay off the mortgage and provide a lump sum if either of us dies. It means neither of us would have to move house or the children from their school if the worst happened

Ikeameatballs · 09/09/2021 21:48

Life insurance, critical illness, income protection and death in service benefit here.

RJnomore1 · 09/09/2021 21:48

Yep, level term life cover, critical illness cover, income protection insurance, accidental death and death in service.

If I get run over DH will be very comfortable.

Some sort of life cover is I would say vital if you have kids. I’m presuming you don’t have a mortgage as life cover is almost always a requirement for one.

Singinghollybob · 09/09/2021 21:49

I was looking into it aswell as critical illness cover, and got some quotes Feb 2020, then the quotes increased due to Covid so I put it off. Then a few months later got a cance diagnosis and now can't get cover until I've been cancer free for 5 years. I imagine thr premiums will be s lot more expensive then aswell.
I kick myself I didn't take it out when I first got the quotes but hindsight is wonderful isn't it.

RedHelenB · 09/09/2021 21:49

Mine was joint part of an endowment policy. Useful when I divorced and still had this cover for my ex.

LittleCatDog · 09/09/2021 21:49

Death in service x14 times salary (generous), critical illness and accident cover free through work. And life insurance with our mortgage, so if either of us dies the mortgage is paid off. Husband has death in service x4 salary and an extra policy too.

StatisticallyChallenged · 09/09/2021 21:49

Yes, we both do - 1 term assurance policy which would totally clear the mortgage which covers both of us and I have death in service benefit which is, I think, 4x salary.

My brother died suddenly at 41.

MurielSpriggs · 09/09/2021 21:49

I don't know what difference it makes whether other people have it. It's a question of whether you need it. If you're young and less likely to die then it will be cheaper.

santaslittlehohoho · 09/09/2021 21:50

We're 28 and 31. £38 a month, huge payout (will cover mortgage, pay off cars and give enough for the surviving partner to take a few years off work if needed or have some good savings). 100% worth it for peace of mind - if the worst was to happen, the other person would have the security needed to not worry about material things, and to also take a payout if terminally ill.

Nanananani · 09/09/2021 21:52

Yes, I have kids and a mortgage, it would be massively irresponsible not to. I also have a large death in service benefit with my employer and private critical illness cover for us and the children.

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