Are there any parents here who were, before having kids, indifferent to the idea of them?
I’ve never been sure one way or the other. I’ve been in relationships where I could see it happening (as is the case now), but at other times I’ve been quite happy with the idea of never having them. I neither desperately want them, nor am I firmly against it. My partner feels much the same.
I’m now at an age where time is no longer on my side, but I don’t know where we start making this kind of lifelong, life changing decision from a place of indifference.
I do like the idea of ‘a family’ that as an only child to a single parent I feel like I missed out on to a degree, but I also have a nagging worry that we could hate the radical change to our comfortable easy lives and regret it!
Did anyone here feel the same before you had kids? What made you have them, and how do you feel now? Thanks in advance x
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OctoberCupcake · 06/06/2020 20:07
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