Big birthday party coming up. We plan to invite a lot of people as large venue.
I have invited this child for the past 5-6 years. They RSVPed yes each time, but only turned up once. Present sent afterwards each time and an implausible apology.
We weren't invited to their party for the past few years. Awkwardly, a mutual friend asked us this year if we were going, to which I said we weren't invited.
If I don't invite them (but invite lots of mutual friends) it might seem like a snub. But then I don't want them to think I am just inviting said child for a present (which I'm not, I want guests to be present, not bring presents). It seems like for whatever reason they don't want to come to my child's party.
As a background, and so as not to drip feed, their child has some additional needs, but we have made it clear we can accommodate them, and they do go to other parties (so it's not parties per say that are an issue).
Aibu not to invite? I'm probably overthinking this.
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hibbledibble · 19/07/2019 14:12
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