I have to say I find BMW6's views really shocking even though I know a few people who think like that. Many of us lived through the excruciating hard sell of Live Aid,. I was never sure why being driven home tonight was relevant but that song, those images became the soundtrack and wallpaper of our lives for over a year.
We had our eyes opened to the true plight of much of the world, gave a lot of ourselves to make a difference and then, over the years, realised that no amount of aid was ever going to make a difference, so we stopped supporting those who try to send it!
I too realised that, like much of the holiday volunteering opportunities these days, much of the charity sector is set up to give us a feel good buzz, regardless of the realities. I doubt any of those charities like that, but it is their standard way of working. When you read stories of aid stuffs being left to rot on waysides, monies being diverted into the pockets of the ruling elite, let alone the CEOs of the charities themselves, you just stop giving.
I looked for more specific ways to make a difference, as I said upthread. The only difference in what I posted and what BMW posted was that they didn't stop to spare your feelings of "OMG what a horribly compassion free person!"
You couldn't be further from the truth for many people who think as BMW posted. I know quite a few others who think the same and it is born out of a hard headed realisation of the truth! Many parts of Africa cannot support the people who live there. The solution is not aid, the solution is a different government, a different way of living, a different everything
Think about it next time you buy green beans for your tea... the label of origin will probably horrify you!