! Yes it did take me a while OP! And glad I gave you a laugh! I'm sorry I'm not normally so right wing! Or so patronising or one to write such a (in some ways perhaps coming across as out of touch, nasty and yes, right wing) post!
But, sometimes I do think that people (haven't read the full thread, so maybe not you!) are quick to claim this and that from the 'government' (i.e. tax payer) without at least some sense of gratitude.
I have benefitted from state support in lots of ways. I have close family members that can't work due to mental health probs, and other family members who have needed financial and other support from the state over the years. I'm not particularly well off myself and know that I am fortunate that I can and do work!
But - I'm aware support such as pupil premium comes form somewhere. It comes from the hard work of those able and fortunate to work. It is nice that in this country we can provide for those that can't work or need extra support. But sometimes those people can get grabby and entitled and forget that the tax payer is paying for them.
In DS school PP is put in a pot and used sensibly to best support the children that most need it. Good and rightly so. However, the school also nurtures others and provides opportunities for others.
M DCs are not eligible for PP. I work crappy long hours and miss my DCs and would rather be at home with them. I'm lucky in some ways to have an income and have a job. But, I don't think this should prevent my DCs having opportunities too. Yes, I want to support ALL children to reach their potential and many of those on PP need extra support which I want to help with. But I don't want the parents of those children to feel entitled (when I'm working my ass off, along with many others, to support said people) and I don't want my own kids to miss out