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...to expect dog owners to use leads in a park - I got bitten today and am fuming!!!

82 replies

MrsGumby · 06/04/2007 15:39

What started off as a lovely sunny afternoon in the park with the kids ended up with me mopping up a bloody leg after some shitty little dog took a piece out of it. I'm not a dog lover at the best of times and have always had issues with owners of unruly mutts at our local park but today has taken the (dog) biscuit!!! I was playing catch with my DS and the ball went over to a grassy patch where a couple of fat salad-dodgers(sorry, but I'm raging) were troughing a bucket of KFC. I went over to retrieve the ball and this little yappy Scottie dog sprung out of nowhere and bit my calf! Rolled up my jeans to find a bleeding wound and stormed over to the owners who reeled out the usual "That's the first time he's ever done that, he's usually so well-behaved"... Demanded that they put their horrible little hound on a lead pronto (which they did - so good of them) and warned them that it would be in their best interest to do that from hereon in since it could be a child next time. Also took the bloke's telephone number although it's probably a false one. Whilst I wasn't exactly savaged (although it bloody hurts!) there have been enough sickening stories in the press about dangerous dogs and children for me to be absolutely appalled by some dog owners' disregarding and frankly disgusting behaviour, and this is just a case in point. I don't have a problem with dogs being exercised in large open spaces (preferably Siberia or the Gobi Desert) but I DO have a problem with dogs being left to run amok in public parks where children play.

Just a thought...now that we've got a ban on smoking in public places, why not a ban of marauding dogs in public places? The anti-smoking lobby have (quite rightly) drawn attention to the dangers of public smoking to non-smokers; isn't it about time we draw attention to the dangers of dogs without leads to those of us who don't want to share our public places with vicious animals?

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Nbg · 06/04/2007 15:42

As a dog owner, I do agree that at places such as parks and where children are, dogs should be on leads.

tutu100 · 06/04/2007 15:42

That's awful. You really should report them. I am sick to the back teeth of lazy dog owners who let their dogs poo right outside my house, so that I can't let ds walk on the pavement. Also being bitten by a dog is very serious even if it's just a little nip as you could get an infection. Keep an eye on that bite!

MrsGumby · 06/04/2007 15:46

Tutu, I felt really woozy at first but that seems to have passed. Have put on a load of Savlon in the meantime...pretty sure I'm covered for Tetanus (I had my DD last June and I think they check for Tetanus when you're p/g) but will keep my eye on it.

Little shit

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SquonkyDonkeyHotCrossBuns · 06/04/2007 15:49

I think it's pretty outrageous that a dog is biting you anywhere, MrsG... but in a park where children play (to some extent) unsupervised is blardy awful. Make sure your tetanus shots are up to date.

Btw: kept missing you last night, but "hello" from a fellow city fan

MrsGumby · 06/04/2007 16:10

Hiya Squonky! You're the first City-supporting MNer that I've met...there are probably many more who choose to remain in the closet .

Just noticed that my DS is writing the alphabet in felt-tip on the floor so I gotta go...

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paulaplumpbottom · 06/04/2007 16:13

I think if a dog bites it should be put down.

SquonkyDonkeyHotCrossBuns · 06/04/2007 16:20

If he's getting the alphabet in the right order, leave it there for posterity!!!

(there's me and stoppinattwo so far, but are thinking of setting up an mn supporters club, so we'll count you in when we do!)

LazyLine · 06/04/2007 16:21

PPB, maybe we could put down people who punch or hit other people as well?

misc · 06/04/2007 16:30

just because you have had one bad experience doesn't mean all dogs should be on leads in parks. There are plenty of responsible dog owners out here thank you who have put in time and money at training classes and who also see the benefit of letting their dogs socialise with other dogs (ie NOT taking them to a far off field or the gobi desert!).
It is attitudes like this that end up with kids being terrified of any dog which is such a shame in my opinion.

Please don't tarnish us all with the same brush as long as my dog is trained and friendly and I pick up mess after her then there is no way she will be on a lead in a park....the park is there for ALL to enjoy.

AitchTwoOh · 06/04/2007 16:33

oh lawks. actually if all dogs were required to be on a lead everywhere that wasn't a gated dog park it would penalise many responsible dogs. however, tough tits i'm afraid. it would also protect people from irresponsible dog owners and i know who i consider to be higher up the food chain, as it were. until they bring back an enforceable dog licenece and mandatory training (ie, never) then the children should come first.

alipiggie · 06/04/2007 16:35

I was a dog owner until my beloved dog died sadly three weeks ago. I thought that most public parks had a "Dogs have to be on the leash" policy anyway. Would be worth checking into. Sorry this happened to you.

AitchTwoOh · 06/04/2007 16:45

oh that is sad, alipiggie, i'm sorry to hear that...

justbeme · 06/04/2007 16:47

I think you ought to phone your local dog warden ( see council web site ) to report - they would be interested. This dog also may have done this before and the people are covering up the fact. They comitted an offence to allow it to be out of control in a public place.

paulaplumpbottom · 06/04/2007 17:52

Thats true there should be a record in case the dog is a repeat offender

kks · 06/04/2007 18:01

Thats awful you getting bitten. My mum has a small dog and she always picks up it poo and puts it in the bin. The only time the dog is off the lead when out walking is in the forest, its always on a lead when children are about. I think dog owners need to be responsible, my partners dad and step mum had dog poo in their front garden from a passer by dog, its discusting!

mikkamakkamoo · 06/04/2007 18:02

I'd have kicked it!

Saggarmakersbottomknocker · 06/04/2007 18:46

MrsG - I got bitten a year ago this week, on my calf, through my jeans (luckily or ir would have been worse) I still have the scar. Keep an eye on it and make sure it doesn't get infected.

Abd agree about calling the dog warden. Maybe he'll have a wander around the park and round up the unruly owners.

powder28 · 06/04/2007 18:58

A friends dog bit me on the nose once.

Little fecker

alipiggie · 06/04/2007 19:15

AitchTwoOh thanks so much. We keep hearing claws on the wooden floor and expect her to appear. So we've got a virtual dog now called Rover . He's great and keeps ups all company. Amazing how resilient little boys can be. The Vet sent me a beautiful Angel Dog brooch which I wear. She had a great life.

Right sorry for the hijack.

currantbunmum · 06/04/2007 19:39

It should absolutely be reported to the dog warden/community polce. I'm not sure what, if anything, they can do about it, but it can't go unreported. In a park where children are running around it should be that all dogs are kept on a leash, it's common sense. And no, I'm not a dog hater, I just put my childrens and my own safety above that of a dogs social circle.

hotcrossbunny · 06/04/2007 19:44

But would that stop the owners who don't care about training their animalsRound here they'd just ignore it in the same way they do poo collecting.

Gobbledigook · 06/04/2007 19:46

I'd deffo report. God I bloody hate dogs. What is the point of them? THey are just a fecking nuisance and since being literally knocked over in the park by one particularly shitty little pit bull and launched at by anotehr one that trespassed our garden - ds2 is absolutely terrified of them and it can make park visits quite stressful as he can't run off too far in case one comes near him.

So bloody sick of simpery owners gonig 'ooooh, he/she is very friendly, she won't hurt you' while doing feck all to remove it from my child who is practically hysterical. Er, when you are 4 and the dog is the same height as you, it's pretty frightening!

Feckers.

marymay · 06/04/2007 21:29

my ds got bitten by a dog four weeks ago as he and dd were running on the common after school.the owner quickly started to run off .i ran after her like a crazy woman and when i finally caught up with her she said the same crap .oh its never done that before and well your child was running.
im not a violent person but how i didnt knock her out i dont know.
my son is now petrifed to walk anywere.

tutu100 · 06/04/2007 21:38

If anybodies dog bit my child I'd have to be pulled off the owner. Once I'd made sure ds was safe from the dog. Marymay I admire your self control because I would have decked the owner. What did you do and is your ds ok aside from the pyschological scars.

fireflyfairy2 · 06/04/2007 21:46

I got bitten by my friends dog when I was 10. He was a hunting dog though, her dad used to take him with him to shoot rabbits.

The dog broke out of his kennel one day & trapped me on the cattle grid. Sunk his teeth into my calf, as my friend & her 2 sisters jumped into their unlocked car so as not to get bitten.

Her mum came walking up the road with a friend & we shouted that the dog was loose, she went & got her dh from the fields & he had the dog put down that night I felt awful, but her dad insisted that once the dog had tasted human blood it would want more.

My friends brother didn't speak to me for 2 years after that