My tattoos are for no one except me and in the case of one, my kids.
I have a tramp stamp which has been there twenty years, still looks like it did when I first had it done. Was generic and straight off the wall, the design is ok but mostly I love it because it reminds me of a time when I left an abusive relationship and enjoyed some freedom and independence and fun for the first time in a long time.
I have another design which is visible and is for my kids, a physical connection to them because they're adopted and I don't have the same physical connection that a biological parent would have. They love it.
I have another design which is partly visible and represents something which is very important to me and influences the way I live on a daily basis.
I don't care if anyone is distracted by them, thinks I've desecrated my skin or thinks I'm common, daft, unthinking, sad, following the crowd or whatever else we have been accused of on this thread. My skin, my life, my career and nothing to do with anyone else.
Hasn't held me back in any way shape or form and many of my seniors (very senior roles in HE) have tattoos.