Ugh, the sun brings out the worst in some people.
Small rant follows about the crappiness of yesterday:
Yesterday I couldn't get into a disabled loo as some incredibly rude woman decided that the whole of her family should push in front of me, because they were 'in a rush'. Her three teenage sons and miscellaneous adults. And no, no one was disabled, she just said it was hot and the queue was too long, and they wanted to get a table in the restaurant! She gave me evils, the whole time, and stood blocking the door as if I was going to ram my way in! She literally stood starfish style with legs apart and arms stretched across the door frame. It was bonkers! She also talked over my head to my helper, and refused to reply to me, and generally acted like a complete bitch. Thank god there was a 'family loo' that someone let me into. I had to walk a few steps though and leave my scooter out side, which was pretty hair raising, slipping on water and wet loo roll, and it was a lot harder to sort myself out without disabled facilities. No idea why belligerent bitch door block woman didn't use the family toilet. I guess it was more of a kick to take something away from someone else. She had adopted door block position before I arrived by the way. So not provoked by me in any way. Bitch.
And to top off the day, a van had blocked a pavement and the only dropped kerb on that side of the road. It was parked sticking out of a building yard (the yard was empty so it's not like the van was trying to squeeze in), and the man working at the yard stood there and laughed at me asking him to help me. Laughed at me. For being disabled and stuck on a pavement I couldn't get off and was too narrow to turn around. He just stood there sniggering as I asked if he could move the van, then if he could get someone else who could help, snigger snigger sneer. I ended up crying in front of him 'why won't you help me?' Snigger snigger. So humiliated myself in front of a sick bastard who enjoyed being cruel.
People are bastards and I wish both of those twats the worst thing I can imagine, which is having my illness and having to struggle in front of people who seem to get a kick out of being cruel to the disgusting crip.
Sorry, rant over.
I think the splash park need to make an effort to show its time for a 'closed session' and other people need to wind up their time and leave.
It's useless to try and rely on the kindness, or empathy of strangers. People in public places are not all going to be thoughtful and understanding that just occasionally, someone else should come first. And it takes only a very few people to be selfish to drive other, less resilient people away. People who can't just push themselves forwards and be ok whatever the environment, or cope with the casual discrimination and selfishness of others.
Basically, it's very easy to exclude people with special or additional needs. So there needs to be extra rules in place to compensate.