i had this conversation with oh last night almost ended in blows lol
we have diff social back grounds, as in my parents/myself have a mortgage, where as his parents and then his self had a council house
his parents were the first ones to move into their street 60ish years ago, parents raised 5 boys in a 3 bed house, both parents worked, and all moved out as met partners, parents died 10years ago and house went to oh's brother
i said he should move and exchange house, oh said no, it was his family home and why should his brother move and have to leave somewhere thats hes lived in for 50ish years
then got onto topic of a girl he knows, was a single mum and yes she works, got a council place - i have no problem with this
2 years later, she met someone who earns a lot (more then me) and he moved in
my argument is that bf can afford to rent privately and friend should give back her council house for someone who is in the same situation that she was 2 years ago
oh disagrees and says they pay their rent/both work so should stay in their home