Sirzy
It is a mare. Loads of places still don't really comply with the law in terms of access. Then, even if you CAN get into somewhere you're faced with trying to navigate your way through tiny spaces, have people simply wheel you out of their way (yes, really) & then struggle to pay because there's no low counter. (Mind you, if you're with someone then half the time they will be expected to make the transaction for you because we all know people in wheelchairs can't do things like that...)
Nailak
Er, no, very often they can't. They can't squeeze onto another bus in the way you might be able to with a pram, so they could be waiting a VERY long time until people were willing to clear out of the place. Even people who've got ulta-lightweight chairs struggle with steep hills. Even with my chair & I have a combined weight of about 60kg it's hard going for whoever's trundling me about to do hills. Very few taxis are accessible to wheelchair users. Also, there's a fairly high chance of a wheelchair user being on a limited income, so a taxi would be a luxury they just couldn't afford.
Chanatan
It's astonishing, isn't it! I once got screamed at by a woman in Boots for being a "selfish little bitch" because I asked her to let me come past. She was right up in my face hurling abuse at me & no-one, staff or customer, did anything about it. I was - for once - on my own as a friend had dropped me at the station & I was being met at the other end. I find it particularly bad that no-one did anything because I look so much younger than I am - generally people think I am in my mid-teens, especially if I'm using the chair. I ended up dissolving into tears when I got on the train & even then only one person asked if I was okay.
MonthlyAFIWish
How incredibly frustrating. Rawrgh. I'd've been spitting feathers had it been me.
FamiliesShareGerms
I went to Prague as part of Girlguiding UK's Centenary Celebrations. Our guided tour route included a ginormous flight of steps. I was carried down them in my chair by 3 Guiders. That was when I had a clunky beast of a chair so I still don't know how they managed it even though I was very underweight at the time! Mostly, though, you can't do that with people in wheelchairs. Even though I do get a surprising amount of offers to be carried places when there's access fail & have, more than once, had to be lifted off trains because the ramp has, yet again, failed to transpire. I also once had to get a well-over-6-foot-tall-rugby-player who'd broken his leg & was thus in a wheelchair off the tube because the ramp hadn't shown up. No-one offered to help, just watched me attempt not to break him a bit more as I bumped him down. Managed not to break him, but did part-dislocate both my shoulders
FreeButtonBee
Have you enough time to do some research into facilities in your local area, quieter travel routes/times etc? I've a mental map of places with decent wheelchair access & facilities for places I go quite regularly. Not that I can go out alone in my chair, because although it is "lightweight" that = 15kg & too much for my arm joints to cope with But it is definitely useful to have an idea of where I will be able to stop for a wee/get something to drink without having to rearrange a whole café etc. There might be a Multiples!Group near you who could help?
MainlyMaynie (hoping to catch you before namechange!)
Could you get someone to write you the correct Dutch for what you need to convey so you could just give someone a card to explain? I've done translations for various people for various things - like sorting out the French phrases my friend with terminal cancer & severe epilepsy would need in an emergency - and while you might feel a wee bit embarrassed to use it I'm sure people would be fine about it. If you've the Dutch for "excuse me, could you help me with my buggy please?" the card could do the rest.