I'm actually pissed off with some of the comments on this thread all over again.
I've just spent all bloody day sat in a badly-managed court to represent a woman who, but for one bad thing that happened in her life, through no fault of her own, would probably be happily Mumsnetting at this very minute. She was highly educated, articulate and had worked in a number of professional jobs. She had a family and children. And then something fairly mundane went wrong - something that is posted about on MN all the time - and it had a catastrophic knock-on effect on her life.
She is now hopelessly enmeshed in the criminal justice system, with every substance abuse problem going and a catalogue of mental health issues. She has been abused, assaulted, abandoned by everyone she loves and was sleeping on a bench for a while.
And now she is going to prison again because nothing I said I could persuade them not to lock her up.
It's shit, utter shit what happens to some people, and then a whole bunch of posters, most of whom have not a solitary clue what they are talking about, come on MN and give a massive, ill-informed kicking to those of us trying our best to help people through the system.
I probably won't sleep terribly well tonight because I am upset about that poor bloody woman. That should make some people feel better.
I'm done with these threads. They are all bollocks sweeping generalisations and "oh but I don't mean yoooooou". This is the last legal thread I am even opening on MN because I really, really can't be bothered anymore. It's bad enough sometimes doing the job without having to defend it as well.