(The other thread title was waaaay too long!)
At one end of the spectrum: Parents who work away from home full time from an early age.
At the other end: Parents who home educate because they do not want to be away from their children.
I cannot count how many times I have heard people say, 'I don't know why she (and it is normally she) bothered having a child if she is going to leave it.
However, what is the definition of leaving it?
If you work away from home but see child at weekends?
If you send child to nursery at 4mo so you can return to work?
If you work part time?
If you work full time?
If you are a single parent who goes out once a week?
If you let your child sleep on their own?
If you send your child to boarding school?
If you send your child to any school?
If you and your partner go away for a week to Bali every year without DCs?
If you and your partner go away to Skegness one weekend a decade without DCs?
Does it matter whether they are left with nursery, childminder, family or friends?
When are they being 'abandoned'?
Since having DC I have been a WOHM, been a SAHM, been away with DP for weekends, sent DC to nursery/school, gone out in the evenings.
AIBU to think that if this is the view, nobody should ever have chilren unless they intend to be with them every second of every day until they are an adult?
AIBU?
Why did you bother having children?
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