I moved my buggy on the bus today so that another lady could put hers on the bus too. No thanks for that... hey ho. Her son got on as well (3ish?) and started to remove dd's favourite book from the back of buggy. Well, this is London and he was a little kid - I didn't know whether he might walk off with it - he might not even realise you don't do that. I didn't react but I did look a little alarmed, I admit - however, he saw me and just put it back (phew I thought, argument averted).
WELL! The comments between this mum and her friend! My daughter was WAY worse than her son - in fact she was touching their buggy, shock horror. AND she was probably 'diseased'. (Does anyone actually use the word 'diseased' anymore???) So eventually I asked if there was a problem - mostly because my daughter is starting to understand things and I didn't want her to think the kind of behaviour this mum was exhibiting was acceptable. We had a real corker of a row, ending with her telling me in very pious tones that I should never think my child was any better than anyone else's. (I certainly hadn't suggested any such thing).
Now, AIBU but I think I would have been well within my rights not just to have looked a little alarmed at her son's behaviour but actually to ask him to put the book back. In fact I think it would have been ok to add that you don't take other people's stuff without asking. And btw, that would in no way have suggested anything about where I ranked him next to my daughter in terms of who was 'better' (whatever that means?) Geeezzzz... is this the kind of rubbish I have to look forward to from other parents when she starts school?
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