DD is five years old, he has only just taken her up to bed - he has totally fucked up on bedtimes since she was young, she was always a bad sleeper and i stupidly got into the habit of laying with her til she went to sleep but when she was about two i got it sorted to the point where i could leave her to get herself to sleep. When DP works late, i put her to bed by 8 at the very latest read her one story, say goodnight and put her to bed, shes quite happy, well not 100% happy, with this this. DP however has to read untold stories ends up laying up there with her, keeping her awake, for ages, hours!!! Tonight she is playing up, doesnt want to go to bed - sitting on sofa stamping feet, "im not going to bed" DP letting her watch more and more TV, even putting new stuff on for her FFS. Ends up in tantrum, she wants carrying up stairs, DP cant carry her, he has bad back - So i say i'll carry her, i pick her up, shes heavy, there is a slapping sound when i get my hand under leg, she kick off saying ive slapped her, i have NEVER slapped her ever, and i didnt slap her, it just sounded that way. DP standing there going "nice one sunshine" FFS, then she kicks off at top of stairs cos i put her down, DP losing his temper by now - blaming ME!! starts shouting at me because i was insisting on no more fucking cunting horrid bastarding henty!! , meanwhile DD is becoming hysterical. Shes overtired and will be irritable as sin tomorrow, this will just cause more tension between me and DP. Why cant he see that "keeping the peace" and allowing her her own way is just damaging her. She has school next week and its going to be a nightmare to try and sort bedtime out again and she is already struggling, i believe because of the late nights. Theres no reasoning with him about it - he thinks i just want her out of the way- err, no, i want her to have a decent nights sleep, and yes, its half term she has been irritable all fucking day because shes exhausted and im stressed and tired and wouldnt actually mind some down time before my own bedtime. She is still up there sobbing and arguing with him now. I daren't intervene because then he shouts at me and it all degenerates, so i have to sit here seething knowing that this is doing untold damage to my DD. In short, i think my DP is a cunt
PS apologies for the vile language, but its got to come out
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So bloody angry with DP just now over DDs bedtime
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