Sorry just been off reading Militant Medical Nurse blog and I so get her.
She might not put it all in the nicest terms but she?s right from what I?ve read so far.
And just seen that her post was from 2008
Anyway, I have recently been a patient, oh what a barrel of laughs that was. . .Actually due to the EXCELLENT painkillers I was on it really was a giggle. . .
Anyway, prior to op, I was admitted last year with the medical issue that meant I need an op this year i.e.: Cholecystitis.
As I was writhing around in A/E muttering make it stop make it stop make it stop make it stop make it stop make it stop make it stop NOW!!
I was spotted by one of my old students who still owed me.
(He once introduced me in a drunk loud whisper to a large pub with amazing acoustics as the woman who finally taught him how to wash a willy, so he owed me!)
He is now slightly important and got me a side room, which was lovely and before anyone does the whole unethical stuff, I gave my youth, my spine, most of my liver, all of my patience and a lot of my taxes (yes when you rant I pay your wages you know what I pay tax too you shit!!) to the NHS for over 20 years.
So after a couple of days of verrry good pain killers and IV anti-b?s and discovering that I still have no feeling in the crook of either arm (I used to let the HO?s practice Phlebotomy and cannula insertion on me, hey I was young and drunk at the time) You have a vein running up your arm known colloquially as the houseman?s vein
Anyway when I came to, from the infection etc, and persuaded the consultant to let me go home I was sat in the room waiting for all the usual discharge crap to happen, another patient took a very serious turn for the, well, not the worse but for the end road. Could see it all from my room
When I was still on the wards it would have been oh we?re moving you, we need the side room, this is happening (wonders now if I was a bully and if there are old threads out there about the shitty nurse who turned them out of room. Or was it was the Hattie physique as well as attitude????)
I got the ward sister, (creep crawl) did I possibility mind, they were so sorry, (creep crawl) they would expedite (sp) my discharge meds, so sorry, understood totally if I didn?t feel able to leave the room.
WTF, a patient is dying give them and their family some privacy and dignity, even if that means turning some silly cow (i.e.: me) out of a side room
Don?t apologise, you?re the ward sister just bloody do it. Once you start apologising, it means you?ve done something wrong!
The NHS is free at point of entry, so many many other civilised countries you would need to have insurance or a lot of money to have any medical treatment. Never mind have your elderly relatives in an acute medical bed while waiting for a social services paid for nursing home bed.
As for Claire Rayner, lovely women I?m sure (God rest her) but seriously when she was nursing it was a whole different ball game. Never mind the fact that in her day it would have been a very very brave person to complain, if it had actually been listened to, after all you didn?t question Doctor! How dare you!
For a little while in British Nursing a Nurse?s opinion was respected, asked for even.
I believe I was lucky enough to witness and be a part of that and sad that I saw it die though hopefully not for good.
There was a point in my working life where patients and doctors and other nurses treated each other with respect.
If I called a doc and said you know Mr/s Bloggs, all the obs are ok but they?re making me feel yucky,(yes I did use the term yucky sorry) please come and look.
And they would, and a lot of times it would be that my subconscious had picked up something that I hadn?t consciously processed yet, and the patient would do something silly like drop their blood sugar, or bleed out or just stop breathing, buggers.
And I would look after ?my? baby doctors, I would rescue them when patients/ relatives were inappropriate or rude or whatever.
I would hold their hand (secretly) at their first cardiac arrest/ death, and occasionally hold their head/hair later in the social club .
I still don?t know what happened but something did, you can blame what/who you want but for some reason a division appeared between nurses and doctors and patients and families? I really really don?t know why
Oh and catsareforlifeyes cats are for life as my 2 sleeping on my sofa while I sit on the floor so as not to disturb them will attest to.
But as for your comment ?Nursing notes should where possible, be written as soon after the care is given-that could be anytime of day or night? to quote myself earlier Fuck the fuck off.
If it?s a choice between writing in the Kardex or helping a patient to the loo, well I know what I?m doing, and it ain?t getting my lovely blue pen out.
And if you want to quote ?the? code try points 1,2 and 3
You must treat people as individuals and respect their dignity.
You must not discriminate in any way against those in your care
You must treat people kindly and considerately