... And it's beginning to really piss me off
I'm currently breastfeeding our three week old DS. He's struggling to settle in the evenings,preferring to feed on and off for several hours until he finally falls asleep in bed next to me, after which he goes into his Moses basket and will stay there during the night feeds, which are every three hours.
My mum is convinced i'm making a "rod for your own back" in that i'm obviously picking him up too much, and should never allow him to go to sleep in bed with me. I pick him up not at every noise, but when his grizzles turn into crying, and I know he's starting to feel distressed. How the hell she can make this assessment when she's 80 miles away beats me, to be frank.
And DP has just doubly pissed me off by saying that he doesn't think we leave him to cry for long enough either. He's three weeks old FFS
I feel like telling them to both fuck off. But their comments have put doubts in my head that i'm mollycoddling our son.
Am I being unreasonable to want to ignore them?
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MadAboutQuavers · 30/11/2010 20:14
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