Hi all
Thought I'd just add my thoughts although I'm just repeating what lots of others have said. Still, it's good to get it off my chest!
My LO developed eczema at 3 months, all over body but particularly bad on face and head. We had lots of sleepless nights, trying to keep her from scratching. She often slept only for an hour at a time & I was breastfeeding to comfort her. All in all a very tiring & frustrating time. My LO was sooo angry/upset all the time.
Visited GP every week for about 6 weeks then finally got a referral to the dermotologist at the children's hospital. This was a godsend! Within 2 days of starting the dermotogist's treatment regime the eczema was finally under control. She is 14 months now & still has eczema but it's only mild and in her 'creases'. Still, it doesn't stop her stratching all over as soon as her clothes are removed. Nappy changes are a bit of a struggle but I try to distract her with singing & games (doesn't always work).
We use Dermol 600 in the bath, a soap substitute, Diprobase, 50% parrafin wax and hydrocortisone ointment (steroid cream) on a daily basis. The eczema tends to flare up if we don't apply the steroid cream at least once at day.
I'm not sure whether it's linked but we have since found out that she has an egg & dairy allergy. Looking back, it did seem that when I ate lots of dairy & egg her eczema got worse (she was solely breastfed at the time). I recall the worst day ever being one that I'd eaten omlette and had lots of stilton cheese. It may be coincidental but I'm tempted to think the eczema is partially linked to diet.
In terms of advice, I'd strongly advise parents to get a referral to a dermotologist. GPs get very little training in skin conditions & although they are doing their best they aren't experts at treating eczema. My other piece of advice to parents is to try to get some time to yourself away from the crying. My LO cried constantly with the pain, & it was worse when I applied the creams all day long. It's really hard when you are on your own with your LO all day & then getting little or no sleep at night. Just before we saw the dermotologist I was so stressed out by the eczema & crying that I was about to contact a child minder who could look after my LO for a few hours a week so I could take a break.
It's difficult for eczema baby parents because although it's thankfully not a serious disability it can affect your own sanity and health! Most people (including GPs I'm afraid to say) don't realise how your baby's eczema can effect your own health due to the lack of sleep, continuous crying & relentless need to apply creams etc.
Finally, I'm happy to say that as soon as we started the new treatment my daughter became a different baby. She now laughs & smiles all of the time.