Thanks,
I had not even thought about the toaster thing. Mind you I want a cool pink one anyway so could be a good excuse.
I don't know about her weight as she has not been weighed by a proffesional since the health visitor signed her off, She was very nderweight, classed as fail to thrive and I had PND with no2, at the time I was told I was lucky SS didn't get involved and I got very paranoid that they wanted to take her off me. When she was tiny she went into A & E and they wouldn't let her out for 4 days as they said I wasn't feeding her.
She was just struggling to stay awake all the time and so unhappy, I used to slightly joke with my mum about how a four yo could be depressed (only because it hurt me so much). I have such an issue with her weight that I am going to freeze up when they want to weigh her, which I know they will.
I am struggling a little bit emotionally at the moment because I feel like I have let her down when the solution was so simple, I can't really understand why she was not tested when she was 10mo and very ill with lactose intolerance and losing weight.
It really helps being able to do something, today she has dropped again, although not actually until about 5pm and I suppose it is going to take a while to completly recover.
The GP did say it would be expensive for a few weeks while we work out if the diet helps which both me and my mum took to mean that he will diagnose her, or at least prescribe food. TBH I really don't care how much it costs. She seems to have found food at last, in the greengrocer she chose loads of fruit and veg that she wantd to try and tried them all. It is quite nice to realise that it is not my bad parenting that has stopped her eating all this time. People are very quick to offer advice i.e. have you tried not offering her anything else, well yes but after 4years I really don't think it is going to suddenly work.
I can't belive she is eating all sorts of food, without an argument so quickly.
Is it really that quick or am I reading too much into uit?