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Petsaresafe · 24/04/2026 18:28

Eight years ago I was on Mumsnet and there was a thread from a lady who was barricaded in her bedroom with her kids while her drunk husband was outside it. She had found a place in a refuge but was panicking about what to do with her pets. People all over the country were offering help. I was one of them. As it happened we were only about 30 miles away, and we had room to foster both the dog and the bunny, so the lady asked me to take them. Two days later I went to collect them. She had three young children, who were incredibly brave saying goodbye to their pets. Another Mumsnetter was coming to pick up the lady.

When the dog got to our house he was terrified of men, barking at every man he saw. He also dribbled pee all the time. Wishing a week he stopped both and glued himself to the side of our other, confident dog. The only time I have seen him do the wee thing since was when my father was slowly dying in hospital and I was crying a lot. He’s always been very worried if anyone is angry or crying.

He was 3 when he arrived. Last month he turned 11. He’s still happy and loving life. The bunny lived for another five years. His companion (that we got him) is still here and on her 5th companion - she’s like the Duracell bunny, keeping going as those around her go!

I lost touch with the family. They had so much going on. But if you’re out there I hope you see this and know he’s had a great life, still is!

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Petsaresafe · 24/04/2026 20:43

And for a little amusement-
at the time, we’d just lost our previous lab and decided that we’d stick with having two dogs, as three was harder work. Then I got involved in the lady’s thread and offered her a foster home. And she messaged me, and we chatted, and I said I would take her pets. It was about 10pm at night. I was watching tv with my husband and I had to tell him. I said “errr, I think I might have just got us another dog”. “Whaaast?? He replied, “no, we said we weren’t going to get another!” So I told him the situation. And my husband said “oh god yea, go get him!” Then I had to explain that there was a bunny coming too!

And this is the pair of them now. The dog, who didn’t like men and the man who didn’t want another dog!

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babyproblems · 24/04/2026 20:43

This has me teared up!
You’re an angel @Petsaresafe 🩷🩷🩷

ainsleysanob · 24/04/2026 20:46

You, OP, are a Bobby Dazzler!

FeetupTvon · 24/04/2026 20:47

Absolutely wonderful!
This has made my week!
A reminder that there truly are some angels who walk among us 🩷

TerrysCIockworkOrange · 24/04/2026 20:47

I don’t remember the original thread but this is just beautiful. I really hope that lady and her children are safe and happy and see this update, and I hope her ex is living the life he deserves.

BinNightTonight · 24/04/2026 20:51

You are amazing. Another with wet eyes!

Frugalgal · 24/04/2026 20:53

Petsaresafe · 24/04/2026 20:43

And for a little amusement-
at the time, we’d just lost our previous lab and decided that we’d stick with having two dogs, as three was harder work. Then I got involved in the lady’s thread and offered her a foster home. And she messaged me, and we chatted, and I said I would take her pets. It was about 10pm at night. I was watching tv with my husband and I had to tell him. I said “errr, I think I might have just got us another dog”. “Whaaast?? He replied, “no, we said we weren’t going to get another!” So I told him the situation. And my husband said “oh god yea, go get him!” Then I had to explain that there was a bunny coming too!

And this is the pair of them now. The dog, who didn’t like men and the man who didn’t want another dog!

Edited

Omg this is the BEST thing ever!!

Other people would have thought they'd made a terrible mistake with the weeing and fear of men but you persevered, how utterly wonderful ❤️

PurpleReindeer2 · 24/04/2026 20:53

Awwww OP you are so kind. What a lovely home you gave the dog and the bunny. Hope the lady and children managed to get to a safe place too. You did a wonderful thing. Thank you x

fedupppl · 24/04/2026 20:54

What an amazing story, made me fill up.

What beautiful dogs you have and what a kind heart you have.
Wishing you and your dogs all the best xx

Woodfiresareamazing2 · 24/04/2026 20:56

Petsaresafe · 24/04/2026 20:43

And for a little amusement-
at the time, we’d just lost our previous lab and decided that we’d stick with having two dogs, as three was harder work. Then I got involved in the lady’s thread and offered her a foster home. And she messaged me, and we chatted, and I said I would take her pets. It was about 10pm at night. I was watching tv with my husband and I had to tell him. I said “errr, I think I might have just got us another dog”. “Whaaast?? He replied, “no, we said we weren’t going to get another!” So I told him the situation. And my husband said “oh god yea, go get him!” Then I had to explain that there was a bunny coming too!

And this is the pair of them now. The dog, who didn’t like men and the man who didn’t want another dog!

Edited

I've always been a cat person, but after that last post I now want a dog just like him.

You did a wonderful thing, OP.

I hope the mum and her kids settled somewhere and have lived a happy and safe life.

Mumsnet at its best. ❤️

Stephybris62 · 24/04/2026 20:59

This has actually made me tear up!
What a beautiful story ❤️
He looks like a lovely boy!!

amargaritaplease · 24/04/2026 20:59

I think everyone is wondering why I am weeping in the kebab shop

sunshinesky · 24/04/2026 21:00

This is wonderful! Thank you so much for sharing, you are clearly a lovely person. I hope the family found happiness and peace too.

fruitfly3 · 24/04/2026 21:03

Best thread ever. I hope the family found peace and I hope they see this.

HoldyHandy · 24/04/2026 21:06

Oh what a bunch of good eggs!

I was saying just yesterday that it seems to be all doom and gloom at the moment. Thank you @Petsaresafe absolutely amazing family. Well done to you and I wish the lady and her family all the best xx

Petsaresafe · 24/04/2026 21:07

Woodfiresareamazing2 · 24/04/2026 20:56

I've always been a cat person, but after that last post I now want a dog just like him.

You did a wonderful thing, OP.

I hope the mum and her kids settled somewhere and have lived a happy and safe life.

Mumsnet at its best. ❤️

Ah, we’ve rescue cats too…. We’re hopelessly soft when it comes to animals!

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Whyherewego · 24/04/2026 21:09

Best thing I've read in this forum for a while !!

Openthecurtainsforgsake · 24/04/2026 21:10

That picture needs to be framed OP!

xx

frugalkitty · 24/04/2026 21:10

What an incredible thread OP! I was doing ok until the pic of the dog with your DH. You're a marvel and I hope the original family have been as happy as their pets with in your care.

fedupppl · 24/04/2026 21:13

Beautiful picture of all your precious babies! That picture is so cute 🩷🩷🩷.

ExhaustedBedfordshire · 24/04/2026 21:13

I needed this tonight 🥹
Bless you x

NoisyHiker · 24/04/2026 21:13

When I grow up I want to be like OP.

Canwerecover · 24/04/2026 21:14

Thank you, I needed to read this after a rollercoaster week. This is heartwarming ❤️❤️

StephensLass1977 · 24/04/2026 21:15

You are an absolute angel.

Frugalfashionista87 · 24/04/2026 21:17

OP, out of habit I’m on Mumsnet before sleeping and your post has made my heart burst 🩷 I’m signing off for the night now on such a good note. I know these praises are
embarrassing you, but God bless you, you’ve really made a lot of us smile tonight. The photos of your dogs, the rabbit, your rescue cats, honestly you’re my type of person 🩷