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What did society look like when you first legally became an adult(18)?

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NewLion · 25/03/2026 21:29

It was 2011 David Cameron was PM Bolton were playing at Wembley and Waterloo Road had announced it was moving to Scotland

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StarCourt · 26/03/2026 17:19

The Miners Strike, Band Aid and the death of Tommy Cooper

Pedallleur · 26/03/2026 17:28

crossroadsfan · 25/03/2026 21:33

1979, the Thatcher era was beginning. It's hard to describe how badly behaved many men were towards women in those days, openly leering, sexist, condescending and grabby. In other ways, society was generally more polite and more deferential than today.

Birds, booze and fags was the norm for adult men. Gay people were reviled (Elton and Freddie stayed quiet). Cash or cheque? No ATMs, Tickets for gigs were cheap and our money went further. Rail fares weren't expensive. Food in restaurants was more limited in that there weren't all cuisines everywhere. Fish and chips or maybe a curry. Racism rife so Rock against Racism had been started up. Cabinet was Oxbridge (that's not changed). Think we had a phone but you called your gf/,bf from a call box. Sat night TV was the family thing unless you were going out. No other TVs in our house and obv no computers. Banks everywhere and a bank manager was a good job.

KnickerlessParsons · 26/03/2026 17:29

In 1979:
I’d never met anyone with skin colour other than white
We were ummimg and aahing about the Common Market
15% of 18 year olds went to university: fees were paid for by the govt and almost everyone had some kind of maintenance grant
Our teachers used to give us “the slipper” and/or lines if we were out of line
There was no theory driving trat
If you wanted a loan you needed to have an appointment with the very formidable bank manager
Every living room sported a range of ashtrays as everyone smoked
Dogs’ poo was everywhere and it was white because the food was bulked out with chalk (or something)
Dogs roamed the streets freely while their owners were out all day
All soap came in bars
Gay men were called poofters
Trans people didn’t exist, although transvestites did.
The whole country watched the same thing on TV at the same time.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/03/2026 17:35

What did society look like? Better, due to the non existence of social media. Mobiles that could only call & text, the high street was booming and you could go to the cinema, get a pizza and a drink in the pub afterwards for about a tenner.

SpecialAgentMaggieBell · 26/03/2026 17:36

1997, Tony Blair became PM. The future looked bright (the future's Orange Grin).

Pedallleur · 26/03/2026 18:46

Newspapers were terrifyingly powerful and sold in millions. Page 3 of course. TV news was usually BBC in our house. Depending which paper it page 3, football, cigs, sex scandal or union bashing and how Scargill etc were going to make us Russian. The Queen was still a remote figure who people loved.

Tel12 · 26/03/2026 18:58

Most young people got to celebrate 18 as well as 21 as people couldn't get their head around the change. It wasn't unusual for men who were doing the same job to be paid more than women. Few women doctors or any professionals. There were numerous bomb scares and evacuations in London where I was working. Skirts were with either really short or really long as maxis became fashionable. Music. Music was incredibly important and radio was king. Bought a record every week. Young people went to dances or discos weekly. The tedium of getting asked to dance by a boy who couldn't!

Buddywoo · 26/03/2026 19:05

Mid sixties for me. No abortion, the pill only for married women or proof you were shortly to be married. Living together was beyond the pale. No trousers at work. Sexual harrasment at work rife and was expected. Women couldn't go on the mortgage. So much better today.

Janesput · 26/03/2026 19:08

Thatcher was in power. Leaving my "rough" comp, there was no real expectation that students, especailly boys, would find work, let alone good jobs with a career path.

Job ads for "a bubbly girl Friday" we're all the rage.

Gwenhwyfar · 26/03/2026 19:17

Librarina · 25/03/2026 22:16

It was 1995. Blur and Oasis were battling it out and for the first time in my life it felt cool to be from Manchester. I was heading off to Uni and my family were just coming out of getting shafted by Thatcher.

Even though my parents weren't, most of my friends were middle-class thanks to the assisted places scheme. They were also mostly white. I think I had 2 friends who weren't. I had no friends who were gay thanks to Section 28 doing it's worst

I think I felt pretty optimistic. I had got a grant and there was no student loan. I worked at M&S part time and did more hours in the holidays. I didn't sign on when I was at Uni but I think I did after my finals as there was a gap between them Master's. The only debt I graduated with was my overdraft.

Laddette culture was a bit of thing, but not really in the groups I hung out with although there were some I'll considered encounters which would be regarded as more problematic nowadays. Feminism was barely mentioned but we all felt we could do anything.
I marched and protested, against tuition fees, the second runway at Manchester Airport, roads being built, trees being felled. I went to raves and free parties and made friends wherever I went. I wasn't confident, or I didn't think I was, but I was content. I assumed that my life would be better than that of my parents because I'd 'made it' by going to HE.

None of this is recorded as I didn't have a mobile. It's only now I realise how lucky I was.

1995 for me too. Thatcher was PM as you say. My friends were all white, but some Asian acquaintances in uni. I did have gay friends, despite Section 28 even though they couldn't be out properly until they left home. I also had a grant and didn't have to pay fees. I remember the laddette thing, but I drank shorts and not pints. Never went to a rave or did drugs so probably didn't fully live the 90s experience!
Not only did we not have mobiles, but we also used our cameras very infrequently. I do regret not having more photos of those times.

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