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Is it normal to keep buying books even when you have plenty?

174 replies

MsGreying · 16/03/2026 13:13

People often ask me why I'm always buying more books. The truth is, I have a genetic condition where my body doesn't produce books on its own, so I have to supplement.

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Nowimhereandimlost · 16/03/2026 13:14

Not only is it normal, it's essential

likelysuspect · 16/03/2026 13:14

Yes, theres a word to describe the phenomenon which is where you buy books and in reality are never going to get round to reading them. I have this affliction too

Elefant1 · 16/03/2026 13:15

I have this condition too, we should start a support group 😂
Edited to add that I find regular visits the the library help manage the condition (I have the advantage of working in one).

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idrinkandiknowthings · 16/03/2026 13:16

This is my disease also. I literally cannot walk past the Tesco charity bookcase without having a rummage. My daughter despairs. I have shelves laden with (as yet) unread books. If I get an Amazon delivery, she says, "Is it a book?" 😅

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 16/03/2026 13:17

Please count me in to the support group. It's been suggested that my house gives off '2nd hand bookshop vibes'

DappledThings · 16/03/2026 13:18

Entirely normal. I get really angsty if I have fewer than 5 unread books on my bedside table.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 16/03/2026 13:20

DappledThings · 16/03/2026 13:18

Entirely normal. I get really angsty if I have fewer than 5 unread books on my bedside table.

You sometimes have fewer than 5?
Amateur 🤣.
Very pleased on a book thread to see the correct use of 'fewer'

ArtAngel · 16/03/2026 13:21

Every book is a gateway book

DappledThings · 16/03/2026 13:21

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 16/03/2026 13:20

You sometimes have fewer than 5?
Amateur 🤣.
Very pleased on a book thread to see the correct use of 'fewer'

Only very briefly if I've somehow not noticed the pile being depleted. And I don't sleep well till it has been replenished!

ShetlandishMum · 16/03/2026 13:22

Yes.

OccasionalHope · 16/03/2026 13:22

Plenty is obviously not the same as enough,

OakleyStreetisnotinChelsea · 16/03/2026 13:23

Normal in this house! DH rereads things when he runs out and running out doesn't seem to bother him. DD, ds2 and I have "tbr" stacks.

likelysuspect · 16/03/2026 13:23

Are there extra points given if the books are covered in dust on the shelves?

Bananajam · 16/03/2026 13:24

Digital or paperback/hardback? I have an addiction to both with a stack of paperbacks on my bedside table and across all the rooms in my house. I also have so many on my Kindle, I don't know if I'll ever manage to get through them all but should I go on holiday, I will never run out of something to read! This is perfectly normal, acceptable behaviour.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 16/03/2026 13:24

Completely normal though in my case it’s less of a physical problem and more compulsive Kindle behaviour

likelysuspect · 16/03/2026 13:25

The condition of buying books and letting them pile up without reading them is known as tsundoku.

Tsundoku (積ん読) is a Japanese term that originated in the late 19th century (Meiji era) as a slang phrase to describe the practice of accumulating reading materials without actually reading them.

Key Aspects of Tsundoku:

  • Origin: The term combines tsunde (to stack things) and doku (to read), and is sometimes colloquially interpreted as "reading pile".
  • Cultural Context: In Japan, it is often seen as a neutral or even positive, affectionate habit among book lovers, rather than a negative form of hoarding.
  • Intent: Unlike "bibliomania" (which is the compulsive collecting of books for their value or rarity), tsundoku often involves a genuine intention to read the books "someday".
  • Antilibrary: Author Nassim Nicholas Taleb coined the term "antilibrary" to describe this collection of unread books, arguing they serve as a valuable, humbling reminder of the limits of our own knowledge.

It is widely considered an "aspirational" habit—a collection of unread books acts as a "library of possibilities," providing comfort and the potential for future knowledge

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 16/03/2026 13:26

Books are an essential element in my diet and calorie free, so a no brainer!! Supplements always needed 😆

likelysuspect · 16/03/2026 13:26

My name is Likely Suspect and I am a Tsundokuer

'welcome to the group Likely Suspect'

BeanQuisine · 16/03/2026 13:27

I buy them at a rate that keeps the unread pile(s) at an emotionally manageable level. If there's too big a backlog it starts to become a bit depressing.

But that still allows me to buy a few each month. And of course plenty extra for birthday and Xmas gifts for friends and family.

AquaFurball · 16/03/2026 13:27

My favourite authors appear to write faster than I read. Add the TV adaptions of some of their novels I now have unread books as well as unwatched episodes.

likelysuspect · 16/03/2026 13:27

AquaFurball · 16/03/2026 13:27

My favourite authors appear to write faster than I read. Add the TV adaptions of some of their novels I now have unread books as well as unwatched episodes.

Oh god unwatched things stacking up on the 'watchlist'.

Bjorkdidit · 16/03/2026 13:29

I only read on Kindle (not sorry) and have hundreds of unread books so for the last decade I've only allowed myself to buy a book if its 99 p. I still buy about 50 books a year even though I only read about 30.

But in buying all these books, we're all practicing the Japanese art of Tsondoku, so that must be worthwhile?

JaneJeffer · 16/03/2026 13:30

AquaFurball · 16/03/2026 13:27

My favourite authors appear to write faster than I read. Add the TV adaptions of some of their novels I now have unread books as well as unwatched episodes.

Oh yes the “I’ll read the book first” trap

FolioQuarto · 16/03/2026 13:30

I believe the Japanese name for this is Tsundoku.

It is an entirely normal and rational way of living. I have two "towers of good intentions", one in the living room and one on my bedside table.

PuzzledObserver · 16/03/2026 13:33

I have this - but DH has a really severe case. When a book we own comes up on Kindle Daily or Monthly Deal for 99p, he will buy it and then put the physical book on the charity pile. This of course frees up space for another physical book.

We have 8 tall and 4 short Billy bookcases, several of them double stacked. I reckon our physical library is over 2,000 books and our combined Kindle library almost as much.

We both read a lot, but will never read them all.

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