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Have I got enough to retire at 60?

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timetogoandstop · 14/01/2026 19:17

I’m 60 and in a well paid job. Husband is 67 and retired with small private pension of 12k. We own our own home outright and have 200k savings. It’s my salary that keeps everything funded. I feel very responsible for my DH and grown up DD.

Ive been offered redundancy and would get a retirement pension of 35k per annum. I’m wondering if taking it is the right decision. Is it better to get years to enjoy retirement on less funds or keep working for the bigger income but possibly lose out on quality health years to have fun? I feel like retiring is somehow me failing.

Anyone any advice? What would you do?

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timetogoandstop · 15/01/2026 18:51

tobesuretobesureagain · 15/01/2026 00:29

You didn't answer my point about the savings. They are important as to what you want to do as well. If well invested they will grow and you could even take additional from that on a monthly basis or as lump sums if you needed it while the fund continues to grow. Your first stage of retired life is when you may spend a lot depending on what you want to do eg I go on two long haul holidays a year. As you age you tend to be more conservative in your travel spending as you may not go as far. I would say it's a good time for you to enjoy the years you do have while still up for it.

Im wondering if taking unpaid breaks for more holidays would be an idea or whether I’m just delaying this more

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timetogoandstop · 15/01/2026 18:52

And our savings are mostly in ISAs and premium bonds, the latter wins used for treats

OP posts:
DaphneduM · 15/01/2026 19:09

In your situation I would absolutely retire. You'll be very financially comfortable and you never get those years back.

I retired at 61 and my husband at 57 (he's younger than me) - no regrets at all. We had worked out our finances, and like you were mortgage free. We both have defined benefit pensions and also similar savings to yourself. It's enabled us to do things we couldn't do if we'd still been working - moved to a new area to be nearer to our daughter which has meant we've had the joy of spending two days a week looking after one of our grandchildren. My husband also volunteers.

We pride ourselves on keeping fit but I can say that now I'm nearly 73 I'm beginning to notice things creeping in - small things like having a cataract op - but still indicative of the passage of time. Also a slight slowing up and less overall strength. A cliche, but you absolutely don't get these years back - I'm so glad we retired when we did.

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ChikinLikin · 15/01/2026 19:16

Financially you'll be more than fine - and if you don't like not working, you can get a part time job or volunteer.
But if you still love your job, you could tell them you don't want to take redundancy and maybe they'll keep you on.

GameOfJones · 15/01/2026 19:20

I would take the redundancy and retire with a view to taking part time work somewhere if I felt I wanted to.

Your DH is a fair bit older than you and seeing so many men suddenly hit ill health in their 70s and reduce travelling and going out etc I'd want to maximise as many healthy years as I possibly could together. You can't get the time back and don't know what's around the corner.

I'm influenced by my own parents. My dad is 10 years older than my mum and I'm so glad she took early retirement to retire not long after he did as they had some great years together and holidays before he got ill.

Christmaseree · 15/01/2026 19:26

That’s a really good pension, I would for it if I was you.

tryingtobesogood · 15/01/2026 19:29

timetogoandstop · 15/01/2026 18:51

Im wondering if taking unpaid breaks for more holidays would be an idea or whether I’m just delaying this more

One way to budget with your savings is that you would take 4% a year from them, would that be enough and alongside your pension plus your husband’s pension? Is the 12 K he’s getting his Private pension that will be topped up with his state pension? That changes things a lot.

£35,000
£24,000
(235,000\100*4) £9,400

That’s an income £68,400
Will that help you have the lifestyle that you want?

edited to include the redundancy

Christmaseree · 15/01/2026 19:31

tryingtobesogood · 15/01/2026 19:29

One way to budget with your savings is that you would take 4% a year from them, would that be enough and alongside your pension plus your husband’s pension? Is the 12 K he’s getting his Private pension that will be topped up with his state pension? That changes things a lot.

£35,000
£24,000
(235,000\100*4) £9,400

That’s an income £68,400
Will that help you have the lifestyle that you want?

edited to include the redundancy

Edited

Plus the OP’s state pension in 7 years.

tryingtobesogood · 15/01/2026 19:32

@Christmaseree yes just realised I’d forgotten that

tryingtobesogood · 15/01/2026 19:37

£35,000
£24,000
£12,000
(235,000\100*4) £9,400
That’s an income £80,400
You could take redundancy and then work part time somewhere.

I say go for it, and I’m someone who doesn’t know how not to work either

Christmaseree · 15/01/2026 19:40

tryingtobesogood · 15/01/2026 19:32

@Christmaseree yes just realised I’d forgotten that

I think the OP is in a really good position.

Neurodiversemom · 15/01/2026 19:43

You’re in a strong financial position, so retiring wouldn’t be failing — it’s more about lifestyle. Staying at work gives more money, but may cost health and energy. Retiring lets you enjoy life, family, and experiences you can’t “buy back.” Many would lean toward taking the pension and embracing retirement, maybe with some flexible work if you want to stay active.

SwedishEdith · 15/01/2026 19:45

tryingtobesogood · 15/01/2026 19:37

£35,000
£24,000
£12,000
(235,000\100*4) £9,400
That’s an income £80,400
You could take redundancy and then work part time somewhere.

I say go for it, and I’m someone who doesn’t know how not to work either

Is it not 200,000 rather than 235,000? Still a lot though.

tryingtobesogood · 15/01/2026 19:49

@SwedishEdith yes I corrected that later

mcmuffin22 · 15/01/2026 19:54

I would take it and get a part time job if I felt I needed to. Life is short. Op, why do you still feel very responsible for your adult dd. Do you contribute to her income?

WashableVelvet · 15/01/2026 20:03

Sounds fab. And you could always retire and then actually work, I think?

Personally I’d go for it if they offered me that today in my 40s 😂 I enjoy working but I’d love the freedom to take future roles that were more risky, or less well paid, or take sabbaticals.

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 15/01/2026 20:14

Are your husband and adult child expecting you to subsidise them?

Your income, combined with your husband’s, with no mortgage and large savings, is plenty to have a very nice life. Unless they are leeching off you.

BeeCucumber · 15/01/2026 20:18

Leap into retirement as soon as you can. Spring is on it’s way and it’s a wonderful time of the year for a fresh start.

TheCurious0range · 15/01/2026 20:23

200k in savings, what would your lump sum redundancy be?
Annual seems ok without a mortgage 47k between you. What do your essential bills and food cost?

Leo800 · 15/01/2026 20:25

Go for it OP! Launch yourself into hobbies, travel, volunteering etc. You can spend your time as you please. I early retired last year & absolutely love it. Make the most of the time you have left.

tobesuretobesureagain · 15/01/2026 21:03

timetogoandstop · 15/01/2026 18:51

Im wondering if taking unpaid breaks for more holidays would be an idea or whether I’m just delaying this more

Yes you seem uncertain about retiring and it is different when you are only taking out of the pot as opposed to putting in . Why don't you take a year and see how you feel after that? Take a couple of holidays.

ThatFridayfeelingishereagain · 16/01/2026 06:05

Go for it! I'm retiring very soon & can't wait. 😁

Cars4Gov · 16/01/2026 12:00

I think on your income from your 70s when generally people slow down (stop travelling as much) you will be able to save. I know someone who is in a less fortunate but struggles to spend what she receives in pensions (state & NHS).

Admittedly she hasn't had to pay for care but she goes to the theatre, has a car and takes UK breaks.

Ineffable23 · 16/01/2026 12:10

So is this right:

Husband - state pension of circa £12k per year?
Husband - private pension of £12k per year
You - private pension of £35k per year index linked
You in 7/8 years - state pension of £12k per year?

If so, surely that must be plenty to live on, given your house is paid off?

cinquanta · 16/01/2026 12:50

Ineffable23 · 16/01/2026 12:10

So is this right:

Husband - state pension of circa £12k per year?
Husband - private pension of £12k per year
You - private pension of £35k per year index linked
You in 7/8 years - state pension of £12k per year?

If so, surely that must be plenty to live on, given your house is paid off?

Plus £200k in savings.

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