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I have been arguing with Chat GPT, and wondering …

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OffToSeaInABlizzard · 26/11/2025 12:05

Whether I might at some point switch to chatting with ‘it’ rather than here.

In truth the argument (about changes in school application processes over the last 15 years) was a little one-sided as it’s so polite and immediately acknowledged my point and adapted its opinion. But still - I could potentially have a Style & Beauty chat with it without risking wild hostility over my wardrobe suggestions, or grumpy responses to inferred bad faith when none was intended.

I’m a bit surprised at myself for discovering this thought in my head. Although - I like the variety of voices and opinions in a forum; I wonder if Chat GPT could replicate that?

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1457bloom · 14/01/2026 09:11

I wish humans spoke like chat GPT, it would make the world a better place.

Dolphinnoises · 14/01/2026 09:20

OffToSeaInABlizzard · 26/11/2025 12:25

Well, I really wanted a factual history without having to google it, @Timeforabiscuit. It gave me that, but drew a conclusion that was subtly different to my experience, so I said so. And it immediately incorporated my interpretation of the facts into its historical breakdown.

I am curious to know how it might conduct a proper argument, or if that’s even possible …

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By lying its head off, if Sam Coates’ experience is anything to go by…

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EarthlyNightshade · 14/01/2026 09:29

FerrisWheelsandLilacs · 13/01/2026 17:09

But if you have an S&B question, don’t you want to know what other humans think? Isn’t the point for you to know that other humans are thinking your wardrobe choices are deplorable. I could be easily go on to every S&B post and gush about how lovely the look, or how well they’ll suit the item they’re buying but that’s just not useful feedback?

Humans can be really mean for no reason. Also there are lots of humans whose views I don't care about. I wouldn't be asking ChatGPT if it liked my cardigan but I might ask it where I could get a black cashmere cardigan, and it would save me having to read through posts about how hideous black is, how hideous cardigans are, etc.
I think online forums will have to streamline to where human interaction is necessary and people will go to ChatGPT for things like "can you recommend a holiday for 6 people in May within two hours of Heathrow?"

GarlicHound · 14/01/2026 11:13

@Dolphinnoises, that's freaky 😲 It's already weird that ChatGPT fabricated an episode of Sam's own podcast - and then it doubled down! It gaslighted him!

@EarthlyNightshade Better make sure the holiday it recommends really does exist ...

persephonia · 14/01/2026 11:21

BedlingtonLint · 26/11/2025 13:32

You're being ridiculous. I have used my brain, and I can't see any reason why I should care about using AI or Google Scholar to search for sources of info that are readily available, and then using my brain to read and evaluate those sources.

My brain isn't going to atrophy because I have a quicker means of finding that information, is it? It's just quicker than ordering a book and waiting for it to arrive or going to the library and hoping they have the text I need. But I don't think you know why you object, or you'd just say so, plainly.

One thing for me is I don't know anyone's phone number anymore. I used to have to memorise my home phone number as a child and I could remember others.belonging to friends. As an adult with a mobile phone I don't need to. All the numbers are stored in the contact list.
People are much worse at using maps now (unless they do orienteering as a hobby) because of GPS and Google maps. People's sense of direction and ability to remember routes is measurably worse.

Both of those are quite small issues and specific. Unless the internet crashes and there is an emergency where you are stranded with only a pay phone, it doesn't matter that much. It's a skill loss but maybe one we can afford to use.

AI is much more wide teaching in what it does for us. AI being used to quickly synthesis information from multiple sources isn't too bad. Although it might impede your own ability to do this if you always use AI. But people also use it to construct arguments, and reason things out. It is a quick and useful way of expressing what you want to think/say. The problem with this is there is evidence that the act of reasoning, of trying to put into words why we think what we think, why we don't trust X etc is an important cognitive process. It's where a lot of the rationalisation/logical thinking happens (people tend to assume this happens earlier). Its why discussing things with other people or even just talking to loud can help you put your thoughts in order. Yes sometimes we help each other do that. E.g. someone is struggling to explain something and you say "what you are saying is you are jealous of Robert because..." (This can also b way people manipulate people btw). But Chat GPT will do that all the time for you which isn't healthy.

mylittleyumyum · 14/01/2026 11:41

Gettingbysomehow · 26/11/2025 13:10

I certainly don't want to talk to most humans. I'd rather speak to my cats. We need cat chat.

Cat GPT

mondaytosunday · 14/01/2026 11:45

But you know ChatGPT doesn’t actually think or have an opinion?

FerrisWheelsandLilacs · 14/01/2026 11:47

EarthlyNightshade · 14/01/2026 09:29

Humans can be really mean for no reason. Also there are lots of humans whose views I don't care about. I wouldn't be asking ChatGPT if it liked my cardigan but I might ask it where I could get a black cashmere cardigan, and it would save me having to read through posts about how hideous black is, how hideous cardigans are, etc.
I think online forums will have to streamline to where human interaction is necessary and people will go to ChatGPT for things like "can you recommend a holiday for 6 people in May within two hours of Heathrow?"

To be fair, there are an awful lot of forum posts (and social media posts) where people are asking questions that they could get a more reliable answer from some basic research of their own. ChatGPT is great to resolve those issues. If I’m asking here where I can get a black cashmere cardigan (or in my experience, a pure silk tee shirt) then I’ve already used ChatGPT and Google and I want a more anecdotal, obscure suggestion that someone has stumbled across. 99% of the purchases I make don’t need a forum post as the item is very findable.

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 14/01/2026 11:54

Wickedlittledancer · 13/01/2026 17:07

Mate it just searches the web and collages rhe info into an answer.

No, that's not "just" what these AI tools do. They will also invent facts, sources, data and opinions and present them to you with just as much earnestness as they can present you with real information.

OffToSeaInABlizzard · 14/01/2026 12:43

That’s the bit that worries me.

I’m a longstanding contributor to the Archers thread here, (with a lifetime of listening) and a new listener recently arrived asking complicated questions about various Archers’ stories. Which we’d never heard of. It transpired that ChatGPT had invented a whole load of tosh and presented it to her as fact!

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itsthetea · 14/01/2026 12:48

Echo chamber on steroids ?

AndSoFinally · 14/01/2026 18:12

SlipOfFinger · 26/11/2025 12:50

London taxi drivers that had 'the knowledge' suffered dementia after using GPS, is one example.

Slightly off topic, but this isn’t quite right. The part of the brain that stores “map knowledge” is the hippocampus. This is highly developed and enlarged in taxi drivers with The Knowledge.

The hippocampus is the part of the brain that atrophies in Alzheimer’s. Once they stopped using their map knowledge their hippocampi shrank back to normal size, simulating Alzheimer’s.

This is an incredibly specific phenomena, I don’t think it can be extrapolated to using AI to replace general thought effort (but who knows?!)

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