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What age do you stop giving your children plastic plates and cutlery?

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 19/04/2025 16:45

Random one from me

Dd is 6 now. She has her autism but I think that i could get her to start using plates and 'adult' cutlery

The plates and cutlery aren't expensive of course

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 19/04/2025 19:45

Jshrbt · 19/04/2025 19:41

I wondered this as mine are 7 and 5; it’s more that if I give to one I need to give to the other so the younger one is making me keep going with them longer. Our crockery is expensive and was a wedding present so I’m wondering about buying some cheaper ones for them but not sure if that’s odd.

Asda have a pack of four for like £2

So four bowlzs/plates/knifeforkspoons

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DilkushaKitchen · 19/04/2025 19:45

We swapped to crockery and child sized metal cutlery slightly younger than that, but used them for quite a while. The "shiny spoons" are still favoured for pudding though (youngest has just turned 20!) and I take the forks to work to eat my lunch!

FairlyTired · 19/04/2025 19:48

One at 18 months, but our autistic DC used them until 4 as everything would go on the floor without warning. Still had a few mishaps but he didn't like the noise of things breaking so it actually helped stop him throwing things.

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stargirl1701 · 19/04/2025 19:48

We never used plastic due to the microplastics issue.

Lavender14 · 19/04/2025 21:35

stargirl1701 · 19/04/2025 19:48

We never used plastic due to the microplastics issue.

You can also get some decent bamboo crockery.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 19/04/2025 21:38

Pretty much after aged 2. You have a child not a monkey. No broken plates as far as I can remember.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 19/04/2025 21:41

I know the Rory the racing bowl survived as it is the cat’s bowl now.

Needspaceforlego · 19/04/2025 21:44

Mine were quite small 2/3 maybe?
They used side plates rather than big plates but they looked the same.
I also used the metal tommie tippie toddler cutlery with the plastic handles.

Gettingbysomehow · 19/04/2025 21:53

Around 45.

Jollyjoy · 19/04/2025 21:57

stargirl1701 · 19/04/2025 19:48

We never used plastic due to the microplastics issue.

This worries me too, I don’t think anyone should microwave food for their kids on plastic plates, or put them in the dishwasher, if they must use them.

Scentedjasmin · 19/04/2025 21:57

Our daughter, 9, uses both. She likes her old plastic plate sets and the smaller cutlery is much lighter. I don't think that there needs to be a time limit tbh. If they're capable of not smashing china and want to use it, then fine. If they want to continue with their favourite animal plate until they're 17, so be it.

Sinkingfeeling952 · 19/04/2025 21:59

IKEA do a good metal child size fork / knife / spoon set which is what my 3 year old has been using since he was about 2.5. We still use plastic plates and bowls (also ikea) but do give him china ones if we’ve run out / are eating out

pambeesleyhalpert · 19/04/2025 22:00

My 3 year old has refused anything plastic for about 6 months, shes v v stubborn

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