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What is your favourite US state and why please?

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NatureOverNightclubs · 23/03/2025 18:33

Looking for inspiration. Done New York, planning Chicago next then Boston. I absolutely love America and would honestly love to do every state except Florida...

Thank you!

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Wirewool · 24/03/2025 02:02

MissyB1 · 23/03/2025 18:51

Prefer Canada.

Really helpful answer to the question “What is your favourite US state and why?”.

Unless you associate Canada as being a state of America?

Whycanineverthinkofone · 24/03/2025 02:06

Ponderingwindow · 24/03/2025 01:57

Favorite state? I guess California.

where would I send a tourist? Pick a national park. They are all
worthy of a visit and showcase what makes this country a special place.

agree with national parks. All I’ve been to have been utterly amazing- Yosemite, Zion, Death Valley etc. I’d say around Nevada and Utah if you want a road trip.

i would also recommend following alt. Parks if you aren’t over fond of the current administration. The resistance springs up in surprising places.

Harbourofdiscovery · 24/03/2025 02:20

Loved a long holiday we had in Colorado (OMG 31 years ago) plenty to see and do with stunning scenery and some unusual places to stay.

Also Wyoming (30 years ago) we stayed on a working ranch outside Cody, fabulous time.

Been to many other places in the US, some I would not go back to, but sure those mentioned above have changed quite a bit.

SirDanielBrackley · 24/03/2025 02:31

Mississippi. Wonderful people.
[Waves to SIL in Jackson]

BereftBeyondBelief · 24/03/2025 03:13

mathanxiety · 23/03/2025 21:30

Michigan has soooo much to offer.
Detroit/ Motown
Sandy beaches to die for on both the sunrise and sunset sides.
Sleeping Bear Dunes.
Orchards, fruit themed festivals, hayrides.
Quaint little Victorian towns with ice cream parlours, friendly cafes and diners.
Lovely harbors, lighthouses.
Mackinac Island.
The UP - a world unto itself:
Dark night skies.
Wild and unspoiled, superb nature and bird watching, hiking.

It's an all season destination, with snow in winter and lovely summer weather.

Completely agree. Michigan is my favourite place to visit. Absolutely beautiful.

SnakesAndArrows · 24/03/2025 06:39

NatureOverNightclubs · 23/03/2025 20:17

Could you tell me a bit more about Oregon please? What is there to do and is it feasible to go there without a car?

Oregon is beautiful - high desert, fabulous coastline, rivers and gorges, volcanoes (dormant) and great weather. But you can’t really do much without a car.

The Grand Canyon South Rim (Arizona) has a railway station. Also, there’s a railway from LA up to Seattle with some stops well worth making.

WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 24/03/2025 06:46

North Carolina

CalicoPusscat · 24/03/2025 06:46

Why not Florida @NatureOverNightclubs? Just curious

SunsetCocktails · 24/03/2025 09:44

I wouldn’t necessarily say it’s my favourite state, but the most fascinating place I ever visited was Lancaster County in Pennsylvania, where the Amish community live. Such a juxtaposition between their lifestyle, trotting along in their traditional dress in a horse and buggy, just going about their daily lives, and the modern day tourists. This was many years ago now so things may have changed, but I loved visiting.

PersephoneSmith · 24/03/2025 11:32

SnowFrogJelly · 24/03/2025 00:44

I wasn’t that excited by Alaska

I went last year, it was a great experience (I did it the easy way, on a cruise ship) but I wouldn’t go again. It’s quite one dimensional.
I chose Hawaii as my favourite but lots of others are amazing. I loved Texas, lived there for a while in 2005. We were a white nuclear family though so I am aware not everyone’s experience is the same.
San Diego is awesome, life there really feels charmed. San Francisco is challenging these days though, such a shame.
I love New Orleans, Chicago, Seattle, New York, Miami they are all so different and wonderful in their own ways.

PersephoneSmith · 24/03/2025 11:33

SunsetCocktails · 24/03/2025 09:44

I wouldn’t necessarily say it’s my favourite state, but the most fascinating place I ever visited was Lancaster County in Pennsylvania, where the Amish community live. Such a juxtaposition between their lifestyle, trotting along in their traditional dress in a horse and buggy, just going about their daily lives, and the modern day tourists. This was many years ago now so things may have changed, but I loved visiting.

I once spent a day driving from the top of Pennsylvania to the bottom. Worst state ever 😃

SunsetCocktails · 24/03/2025 13:24

@PersephoneSmithI remember driving through Pittsburgh and thinking what a shithole 😬 we didn’t stop!

HospitalityHolly · 24/03/2025 13:52

Thank you @BigDecisionWorthIt, very detailed. What about the UKSubs being refused entry?

I wouldn't book anything at the moment. Colleagues said transiting recently was surprisingly scary and they travel a lot.

I think very fondly of the people I met in North Dakota and Wisconsin.

PersephoneSmith · 24/03/2025 14:10

SunsetCocktails · 24/03/2025 13:24

@PersephoneSmithI remember driving through Pittsburgh and thinking what a shithole 😬 we didn’t stop!

We started in Eerie, where we had spent a pleasant couple of nights, had coffee in Puxatawney (there were many groundhogs) then ended up in Hagerstown where we had another couple of nights, DH wanted to visit Antietam and Harpers Ferry

What is your favourite US state and why please?
MaterMetella · 24/03/2025 14:15

Another vote for Utah if you are outdoorsy. If you aren’t wowed by Bryce Canyon then I don’t know what. It is utterly spectacular and no photos do it justice. If you went to lean into amazing places also go to Arches, Canyonlands (dead horse point made famous by the last scene of Thelma and Louise), and Zion NPs. Get on the Colorado river. If you are into hiking and fearless consider Angels Landing walk at Zion (the path is less than 1 meter across and 1400ft high). Truly spectacular driving as well. If you really want to lean into red rocks, capital reef and monument valley (AZ, not Utah) nearish by, and of course the Grand Canyon (which is obviously worth seeing, but I didn’t find as impressive as Bryce or arches).

BigDecisionWorthIt · 24/03/2025 15:12

HospitalityHolly · 24/03/2025 13:52

Thank you @BigDecisionWorthIt, very detailed. What about the UKSubs being refused entry?

I wouldn't book anything at the moment. Colleagues said transiting recently was surprisingly scary and they travel a lot.

I think very fondly of the people I met in North Dakota and Wisconsin.

Incorrect visa.

Alvin even confirmed on SM that they stated he didn't have correct visa for entry. Tried to allude to and play the rhetoric that it was to do with comments etc.

But simply put, incorrect visa is all it needs to be. CBP cannot process visas on the fly and they can't just be taken to a local embassy to do an "emergency" non-immigrant visa.
I could waffle on a good chunk about the nvc portion of applications and how long it can take at each step.

Whycanineverthinkofone · 24/03/2025 15:27

MaterMetella · 24/03/2025 14:15

Another vote for Utah if you are outdoorsy. If you aren’t wowed by Bryce Canyon then I don’t know what. It is utterly spectacular and no photos do it justice. If you went to lean into amazing places also go to Arches, Canyonlands (dead horse point made famous by the last scene of Thelma and Louise), and Zion NPs. Get on the Colorado river. If you are into hiking and fearless consider Angels Landing walk at Zion (the path is less than 1 meter across and 1400ft high). Truly spectacular driving as well. If you really want to lean into red rocks, capital reef and monument valley (AZ, not Utah) nearish by, and of course the Grand Canyon (which is obviously worth seeing, but I didn’t find as impressive as Bryce or arches).

Edited

is there a lot of leaning into things in Utah? 😂

not heard that phrase in this context before.

AutumnOcean · 24/03/2025 15:35

Oregon is stunning!

MaterMetella · 24/03/2025 15:36

Whycanineverthinkofone · 24/03/2025 15:27

is there a lot of leaning into things in Utah? 😂

not heard that phrase in this context before.

Edited

There’s a lot of ‘leaning into’ in the corporate world where I work. Sorry. Ghastly phase. ‘If you really want to focus on / surround yourself with / prioritise red rocks……’ [take your pick]

SunsetCocktails · 24/03/2025 15:41

AutumnOcean · 24/03/2025 15:35

Oregon is stunning!

DH loves Oregon! We seriously contemplated moving there many moons ago when he was offered a job over there.

goldenretrieverenergy · 24/03/2025 15:45

California. But I also love coastal eastern US.

NatureOverNightclubs · 24/03/2025 21:01

CalicoPusscat · 24/03/2025 06:46

Why not Florida @NatureOverNightclubs? Just curious

I just get the impression it's very dangerous unless you're inside the theme parks, much more than other states. I could be wrong though and I'm not dead set against it, just isn't on the list.

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AmIthatSpringy · 24/03/2025 21:06

tarheelbaby · 23/03/2025 19:44

For all y'all mentioning Canada as some kind of hate swipe, I'm sure you know it's not a state ... yet ... just kidding - sort of ... One of the saddest parts of living in the UK (after the weather) is the jealous hate for the US.

ICE is no joke but if any of you know any immigrants to the UK, I'm sure you can attest that meeting the legal strictures and the living conditions for those people are not very nice either.

And, as ever, the UK hate for the USA on MN is sad to behold since you would be humbled to discover how much the average US citizen respects and reveres the UK as the fount of civilization. Seriously, they will treat you like geniuses and kings if you ever visit. But at the same time ... they've NEVER heard of Mumsnet! They're not thinking of you at all!!!

My home state (roughly the same size as Great Britain) is an amazing place with ski resorts at one end and beaches as nice as any Caribbean island at the other with miles of ocean front houses (many of which you can rent for a week or more) where you can literally walk out the door, down the steps into the sand and throw yourself into the sea (search Emerald Isle or Atlantic Beach). In between are lush forests with scenic waterfalls and teeming with traditional US wildlife like racoons, bears, squirrels and snakes - both poisonous and benign - and world renowned research centres (Duke University, GlaxoSmithKline, IBM) and several airports with 2 or even 3 runways. My state has contributed a wide range of products which Britains consume regularly and like including Pepsi, Krispy Kreme and . Michael Jordan started his basketball career there.

I have also lived in New Orleans which is, in its own way, as amazing or more so than my home state. I have also spent summers in Austin, Tx and Ville de Québec, oh, whoops, that's in Canada ... the 51st state to be ... maybe
I have also visited Alaska, Florida and states in between like Virginia, South Carolina, Tennessee, Kentucky, Alabama, Georgia, Maryland, DC - not really a state..., Pennsylvania, Maine, New York City (not NY state)

i really don't think anyone's jealous.

FFs

MsNevermore · 24/03/2025 21:58

NatureOverNightclubs · 24/03/2025 21:01

I just get the impression it's very dangerous unless you're inside the theme parks, much more than other states. I could be wrong though and I'm not dead set against it, just isn't on the list.

My mother-in-law and that side of the family live on Florida’s west coast.
Leaving the absolute craziness of living directly in the path of hurricanes out of it….its not somewhere I’d ever want to live.
Great Cuban food and mojitos in Miami though 👀

What is your favourite US state and why please?
Kendodd · 24/03/2025 22:21

DoubleDoubleDown · 23/03/2025 20:16

I'm Canadian and currently visiting Oregon for our spring break. Don't come for me this trip has been planned and paid for since long before the madness. It's beautiful here and I have to say everyone from US border staff to hotel staff and locals have been nothing but lovely, friendly and helpful.

I wonder if people were particularly nice to you because you're Canadian? I remember just after the brexit vote (still now really) I am overly nice to EU nationals because frankly I'm embarrassed by the UK and want people to know I didn't vote Leave. I wonder if the people you met are the same and just embarrassed by their country.