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Five years ago, the NHS shut down. Does anyone else remember?

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Kennobi · 16/03/2025 22:39

Because I do.

In fact I have several quite specific memories from that time. The time when we were all supposed to "stay the fuck at home", "protect our NHS" and read that fucking kitty O'Meara poem.

I shall share those memories with you here. Please add any similar.

  1. My good work friend, a young man in his twenties, realised his flatmate had covid and was struggling to breathe. He dialled 999 and the operator talked him through how to find and use the nearest defibrillator, at the co op shop, half a mile from his house. No, they weren't sending an ambulance and yes he was required to activate a defibrillator, on remote instruction, for a woman who wasn't his wife, or sister, or child and as far as the NHS was concerned that was it, job done, they wouldn't be sending medics to an address where there was covid in case they caught it.
  1. My cousin, a man in his fifties, caught covid. My auntie repeatedly rang for emergency assistance as his lips were turning blue, was told to monitor him each time, he died.
  1. My best friend caught it, again struggling to breathe, they asked her can you breathe? No. Are your lips blue? Yes. Are you able to watch a TV programme for five minutes (ie basically are you conscious)? Yes. Ok fine you can maybe see a doctor tomorrow. Saw a GP in a car park, wearing a mask, who confirmed she wasn't dead, and sent her on her way. She now has long covid and it doesn't look like she'll ever get her life back.

It seems to me that at the time we most needed our health system it was unavailable to us.

Do others have similar stories?

OP posts:
helpfulperson · 17/03/2025 14:29

BIWI · 16/03/2025 22:46

What a horribly biased memory you have. The NHS didn’t shut down, if it’s what you’re meaning about when Covid struck.

The NHS was overwhelmed, so had to ‘ration’ how people were cared for.

Of course it was there. But very sadly the pandemic meant that not everyone could be cared for, especially in the early days.

What are you trying to achieve with your thread @Kennobi?

Absolutely this. All the covid minimisers forget what it was like in the early days.

Cherrytreat · 17/03/2025 14:29

Yes I remember being redeployed from an outpatients department and being pretty scared of what was to come. We had limited information about the virus at the beginning, with the wisdom of hindsight I'm sure things could have been a lot different.

Working on the overwhelmed covid wards, the respiratory admissions units were full and there were new intensive care wards popping up all over the hospital full of COVID patients, I'd never seen anything like it. I remember being scared realising that a lot of patients in intensive care were in their 30's and 40's, same age as me. Nobody really knew what made some people so vulnerable and others asymptomatic. The PPE requirements were changing daily as PPE ran out and we had to make do with what was available to us at the time.

The rest of the hospital and corridors were eerily quiet, aside from the COVID sections.

Cornettoninja · 17/03/2025 14:30

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 17/03/2025 13:50

  1. My DH was made redundant and spiralled into depression.
  2. A dear friend was made redundant and took his own life.
  3. My FIL died in a card home after infected people were moved there fro hospital.
  4. My Aunt - see above different care home.
  5. My DM developed agoraphobia and anorexia- terrified to go out and terrified food would run out.
  6. My BIL had a nervous breakdown and quut his job.

Lesson learnt? I will never, ever, be a fool and fall for this again.

But you ‘falling for it’ or not would have made zero difference to the things you’ve listed?

Interested in this thread?

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 17/03/2025 14:32

Was this on the news? This is huge and I can't remember it happening 😭

How awful though - December 2020 was not the right time to be going away

I don't like him anymore anyway 😭 even if he was the most interesting part of gmb

His weird obsession with meghan markle needs to end

Distractoskort · 17/03/2025 14:32

I remember. I had suspected appendicitis at the end of March 2020. My other half had to drive me to hospital in the middle of the night as ambulance refused to come and I was in a lot of pain. We had to leave our kids then 13 and 11 home alone. (I was screaming in agony and didn’t want them to freak out totally. So my partner woke up the eldest and told her what was happening. He literally dropped me at A&E and then went home (25 minutes out of the house max but my kids were freaked out nonetheless). My doctor that saw me wasn’t sure about operating as it might not be appendix (in women 1 in 2 gets taken out when there’s no appendix issue due to all the gubbins being around same area). But I had visions of dying on on trolley of appendicitis whilst the hospital got overrun by Covid patients. In the end they did operate on me (there was a last minute argument as to whether I should be in the Covid clean operating room or not as I had fever etc, which was not fun: literally got stopped in the corridor outside operating room where a whole heated discussion took place between two nurses). They couldn’t do keyhole surgery so had to have the big scar. Then they tried to send me home the same day with a box of paracetamol. Which I strongly declined. I insisted they give me decent pain meds before I let myself be discharged and they went from paracetamol to liquid morphine but then I had to go. I had to isolate at home to stop potential Covid infection after being in hospital. It was a total nightmare but the doctors and nurses caring for me were pretty great. It all feels very unreal now that time…

stargirl1701 · 17/03/2025 14:36

What happened is triage. The NHS does this daily. The impact is never usually on this scale. What we experienced is what nearly every other generation who lived on this planet experienced during a pandemic.

I think people truly have not read enough history. Do you know how many died in Spanish Flu pandemic? COVID wasn’t that far removed from that experience including the desire to forget it afterwards.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 17/03/2025 15:28

I agree that the parameters for care and the way in which care and medical assistance was provided changed during covid. No one would argue with you.
But to say the hospitals were not overwhelmed is mental.

JenniferBooth · 17/03/2025 15:30

Cornettoninja · 17/03/2025 14:27

Who was moaning about people sat at home? If their presence wasn’t critical to the functioning of society then they were exactly where they were meant to be.

all that was highlighted was the difference in societal expectations at the time based on profession. And not any profession you would have reasonably expected to suddenly become measurably more dangerous based on circumstances. I don’t think anyone goes into nursing or a supermarket job expecting to suddenly have their work deemed so necessary they should forgo the public safety advice to do it.

some professions lended themselves to easier circumstances, I don’t see why anybody should have to censor themselves and refrain from pointing out the disparity of experience.

I bolded it in the post that you linked @itsnotalwaysthateasy said it
And @WinterBones said ppl going out was why she caught Covid
So where were the public supossed to go exactly.

WinterBones · 17/03/2025 15:46

JenniferBooth · 17/03/2025 15:30

I bolded it in the post that you linked @itsnotalwaysthateasy said it
And @WinterBones said ppl going out was why she caught Covid
So where were the public supossed to go exactly.

i never mentioned anything about lockdown. i didn't catch covid until may 2021 for the first time.. when people WERE still testing and WERE still supposed to stay home/away from people if they were positive.. but people didn't, because they're assholes.

Blueuggboots · 17/03/2025 15:51

I’m sorry you had such horrible experiences. It really was unprecedented and as a paramedic, many of my friends gave up months of their lives, stayed away from their families for weeks and months on end to try and help and do what they could.

many people worked their arses off but triage is a thing. It didn’t always work, but unfortunately, there were people more in need, as shit as it is.

you do need to get some counselling. And you need to understand that people have different experiences from you but they’re no less valid.

TheEllisGreyMethod · 17/03/2025 15:54

No OP.
You're the only one that remembers or has horrible stories.

breakfastdinnerandtea · 17/03/2025 16:16

Yes, I remember 5 years ago being a newly qualified ODP and being sat at home on my arse because the NHS had shut down, and not running around daily in hot and sweaty PPE, working in theatres caring for sick people and being redeployed into ITU. What a time.

Thebusinesswilljuststealyoursoul · 17/03/2025 16:20

I found a breast lump two weeks after the first lockdown started in April 2020. Rang GP who saw me within the hour. Told me it was a lump to be worried about and a consultant would call me within the next 24 hours. They called me 3 hours later to discuss my health issues( I have a rare auto immune disease and am extremely Immune suppressed). After the phone call I was invited to a breast clinic the following day.

I attended the clinic alone ( which was hard) but had a mammogram, ultrasound and biopsy in same day. It was confirmed I had cancer and needed to come back the following week for biopsy results.

The following week I was told I had stage 3 breast cancer and I needed a lumpectomy. Because I was so immune suppressed, it was decided that chemo would be too dangerous, but I would have intensive radiotherapy every day for 4 weeks.

I had the surgery as a day patient( again which was hard)two weeks later and began the radiotherapy 6 weeks after that.
I attended a packed regional centre for cancer care every day for 4 weeks. There were people of all ages with all different kinds of treatment plans, and I had a fantastic specialist team. After the radiotherapy I developed 3rd degree burns and permanent lung damage, but had access to a specialist nurse, Oncologist and consultant at all times.

My point is this. Having cancer alone with no one to hold your hand or give you any support was VERY hard. I was very scared and it took a huge toll on me mentally. My dad had just died 3 weeks previous to my diagnosis and my husband lost his job due to Covid. I was the sole breadwinner for the family and had to return to work way before I was ready, but WFH made that possible. The NHS were incredible. They did everything possible to keep me safe, fight for my life and support me. In no way, shape or form did they shut down for me or any of the other hundreds of patients I saw in the busy city centre hospital every day for weeks at the height of the pandemic.

Cheguevarahamster · 17/03/2025 16:35

The NHS didn't shut down. At the time I found a lump on my breast and had the most excellent care and after care. (The lump was benign). I find your title extremely insulting and disingenuous.

Oblomov25 · 17/03/2025 16:42

I don't actually recall. It didn't actually close like op suggests though did it?

wavingfuriously · 17/03/2025 16:43

Triakne · 16/03/2025 22:44

People seem keen to forget covid now but for many it was a time of fear and trauma.
I lost a work colleague and still miss her. She was only 30 and had a young child

😥

ElbowsUpRising · 17/03/2025 16:51

Kennobi · 16/03/2025 22:57

I've given you three examples. There are many more. The threshold for medical intervention changed when the NHS was not overwhelmed. It was far from overwhelmed.

If the nhs wasn’t overwhelmed why were myself and other midwife colleagues sent to go and work as nurses on the general side (covid ward) when we have never trained or qualified as nurses? Maybe because the hospital was overwhelmed and too many patients and not entirely staff (due to sickness and actual nurses being redeployed to ICU, etc). It normally wouldn’t be allowed at all. IIRC there was discussion about getting vets to come and work on the wards at one point!

khaa2091 · 17/03/2025 16:51

Kennobi · 16/03/2025 22:56

Normally when someone has breathing difficulties they will be offered medical assistance when their lips go blue. During covid that didn't happen. The threshold was moved. It was moved to "awake". People died as a result. Hospitals were not overwhelmed. GP surgeries were, also, not overwhelmed. But they were refusing to treat people who were in need of clinical treatment. And, those people died.

I was working in a DGH. Our intensive care (usually 19 ventilated beds) was ventilating 89 patients. My colleague was admitted to intensive care for 3 weeks (after feeling obliged to see a patient who had been visiting ill family members with confirmed COVID daily, felt unwell themselves and brought themselves to a non urgent appointment).
Hospitals were SO close to the edge - so many people were requiring oxygen that we were close to losing piped oxygen because the pressures couldn’t be maintained.

The Jan was in my experience much worse - it took me 35 mins to get into the hospital car park around the private ambulances delivering bodies to the fridges occupying the local school playing field.

Cornettoninja · 17/03/2025 16:53

@JenniferBooth , @itsnotalwaysthateasy wasn’t moaning, she was pointing out the huge difference between her experience of that period and that of people that didn’t have the same responsibilities placed on their shoulders because of their job. Perfectly valid and required nothing from you personally although it would be nice to think most people would appreciate those who had those skills used them.

@WinterBones has already clarified further herself but I can’t blame her for still feeling sore about it given that by 2021 there was a loud contribution from people declaring they were done/never started and they would carry on doing whatever they wanted to virus or not. If speeding car had hit me and robbed me of the use of one of my legs I think I’d be understandably still angry at people who speed.

Cornettoninja · 17/03/2025 16:55

IIRC there was discussion about getting vets to come and work on the wards at one point!

I remember that. Tbf my vet is lovely and I’d have been happy to see her!

Parker231 · 17/03/2025 16:58

CatsWhiskerz · 17/03/2025 13:30

My brother is an anaesthetist and intensive care consultant. All the ICU beds were full, and they turned operating theatres into intensive care beds too. He, like many colleagues worked crazy hours and most caught the virus too. PPE was shite and not for for purpose, research in hospitals all but stopped as the research teams were re-purposed to Covid wards. The NHS were there but they were struggling to manage

DH worked on a Covid ward - he still won’t talk about much of it other than the frantic trying to treat more critically ill and dying patients than they had capacity for and the ongoing converting of space into additional Covid wards. He did more death certificates then than he had during the other 30 years of his medical career.

BeHere · 17/03/2025 16:58

It certainly wasn't there for my family during the pandemic, I know that much.

IseeBrigadoon · 17/03/2025 17:03

Kennobi · 16/03/2025 22:48

@Hazeby My point is that the health service we are all required to venerate changed its parameters and refused to treat people and they either died or were left permanently injured as a result. But no one talks about it.

I am “frontline” NHS staff. Never once refused to treat someone. Nor did any of my colleagues, including the ones that died when they contracted it looking after COVID positive patients. If anything I worked probably double my usual hours to treat as many people as possible. It just wasn’t enough as there were too many to treat and not enough staff/beds.

And you know what- we do talk about. Quite often amongst ourselves. We talk about how horrific it was to be in the situation of not seemingly be able to treat everyone and watch people die on a scale we have never witnessed before. We talk about it all the time as we will never shake what it did to us.

iwentjasonwaterfalls · 17/03/2025 17:05

Weird, I worked for the ambulance service all the way through COVID and I don't recall us shutting down. I remember panicking about sending my 5 year old into school hubs as a key worker because I was worried what she'd catch and come home with. I remember coming home from work one evening during "the clap" and just wanting to keep my head down and get inside because I was exhausted. I remember hearing a colleague receive their final "stand down" from dispatch after their death from COVID.

We asked additional questions to monitor infection risk, and told people to take additional precautions before the ambulance arrived (ensuring everyone was wearing masks etc), but everyone who would have gotten an ambulance response before COVID got one during COVID.

Parker231 · 17/03/2025 17:10

Kennobi · 16/03/2025 23:21

I agree. Nevertheless this is what the operator instructed him to do.

Anything other than have an NHS worker exposed to covid, I guess.

DH, a doctor working on a Covid ward was exposed along with all his colleagues every day, with minimal PPE. They were overwhelmed with critically ill patients whilst trying desperately to save as many lives as possible.