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If you're a teacher, what would you want the parents to get you for Christmas?

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chickpea1982 · 09/12/2024 12:41

I'm in charge of buying a group present for my child's teacher this year. If you are a teacher, what would you want to receive? We've got a few hundred pounds to spend. I'm thinking vouchers, so she can buy herself something she actually wants. Or would it spoil it to just ask her want she wants? Any suggestions would be gratefully received.

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TheYearOfSmallThings · 09/12/2024 20:35

twentysevendresses · 09/12/2024 20:29

Why?? This is presumably collected from the whole class...far better than 25 boxes of maltesers and half a dozen 'World's Best Teacher' mugs (that will get bunged in the staffroom cupboard along with all the others!)

Exactly - it is a much more efficient use of the money people will spend anyway.

Although I myself would not mind 25 boxes of maltesers if we're being honest.

Knowitall69 · 09/12/2024 20:36

Sunshineofyourlove · 09/12/2024 20:31

Do people really do this? I wouldn't be allowed to accept this and I feel a bit nauseous at the thought.

Oh sweet Jaysus!!!! Another one!!!

Teaching with you lot would make ME nauseous!

Owmyelbow · 09/12/2024 20:38

Do an Amazon voucher. Can it hide the value until they add to the account. Id feel really bad about accepting that much if I could see when I was given it :D

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StarDolphins · 09/12/2024 20:38

Someone did this the year before last for my DD’s Teacher. They collected over £250! (She was an amazing Teacher though & the children adored her)

They spent half on a JL voucher then they donated the rest in her name to an animal charity as the teacher loved cats & dogs apparently and often talked about this to the children.

Knowitall69 · 09/12/2024 20:46

Iwouldratherbegardening · 09/12/2024 16:55

Thanks for all the responses so far. It's a state school, though in quite an affluent area. Not everyone is well off by any means. Most of the parents are contributing, so between 25 or so it all adds up! There is a TA as well, do we are going to split it between them - just didn't want to complicate the initial thread.

Depends on the TA. Could be one of those bloody TA's who think they run the place.....

In that case they can get in the feckin sea.

Gall10 · 09/12/2024 20:59

Noimaginationforaun · 09/12/2024 13:51

I’m not sure I’d be allowed to accept a gift of a few hundred pounds! It depends on your area though but it might be best to check before you spend the money on a voucher? The office would know!

NHS staff not supposed to accept ANY gifts…box of quality street maybe but certainly not hundreds of pounds worth of vouchers!

SnowyIcySnow · 09/12/2024 21:09

Honestly? I'd like your kid to turn up with a pen pencil and ruler. And ideally a calculator and a hair bobble if they have long hair.
And if you wanted to throw me 200 glue sticks, I'd be very happy!

BeachHutsAndDeckchairs · 09/12/2024 21:20

Chocolate
Biscuits
A fancy mug
Costa voucher
Lovely smelling flowers that are cat friendly

anicecuppateaa · 09/12/2024 21:32

Reception kids here and the class reps suggested £5-10 per child. With 29 in the class, it goes a long way….but the teachers are bloody saints and deserve every penny for coping with 29 4-5 year olds!! Our class has bought JL vouchers too.

EachpeachpearplumIspytomthumb · 09/12/2024 21:38

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 09/12/2024 16:32

I don't think state school teachers are generally allowed to accept such big presents. Or at least they'd have to declare it. I've never heard of anyone getting hundreds of pounds worth of presents!

What would I like? Yes, John Lewis or M&S vouchers would be amazing.

In reality it is generally fine. None of my teacher friends or I have never been told we can’t accept vouchers like this.

I would go with vouchers and a nice bunch of flowers or bottle of fizz with it.

stichguru · 09/12/2024 21:43

I'd say an Amazon Voucher is a good idea. John Lewis is lovely but it's a lot of money to spend on random stuff. I would struggle to spend a few hundred pounds at John Lewis. A new microwave or an airfryer would only be £100-£200. Even replacing some old bedding and towels or an old appliance, unless she is obsessed with appliances being replaced every year or something, she's unlikely to want to spend that much. Maybe do John Lewis or another more special shop for £100 and then Amazon. I also like the point of whether there is anyone else like TAs, dinner supervisors, caretakers etc who maybe have a more background, but equally important role with the kids, who might like something.

Readmorebooks40 · 09/12/2024 21:46

I'm a teacher and was given £200 last year in vouchers (v generous & v much appreciated). You can't go wrong with M&S vouchers.

stichguru · 09/12/2024 21:50

Also has she got any hobbies that might warrant a voucher? Are the kids big enough to know anything about her free time? I mean if it were me £100 at Hobbycraft would go far easier than £100 at John Lewis? Do you have a "County Supplies" that would do things for the classroom? My mum was a primary teacher and I remember going to our County Supplies for stuff she'd pay for out of her own money e.g. big roles of backing paper, toys for the play corner etc. Obviously get her some stuff for her too, but teachers often spend £100s on extra stuff for school.

JollyHollyMe · 09/12/2024 21:50

Workingthroughit · 09/12/2024 13:35

Costa voucher!

Risky as so many boycott over their trans stance.

PastaAndProse · 09/12/2024 21:51

40andlovelife · 09/12/2024 16:36

Most schools have policies that they are not allowed to accept gifts over a certain amount. At my school it was £10. Sorry but I would be mortified if a parent spent more than that on me. A small gift and a lovely note would be so much more appreciated,

BTW most school teachers do not feel underpaid, under appreciated and over worked yes, not underpaid though

But if you break it down per child it's likely less than £10 Confused so what's your point?

OP, I'd also go with something like a JL voucher.

yukikata · 09/12/2024 21:53

I agree with those saying this is a huge amount of money for a teacher's gift and I'd be questioning whether everyone who donated was actually happy about it (unless it's a fancy private school or in a wealthy area I suppose).

I'd do a (smaller) voucher and a donation to a children's/ educational charity... and next year, try to encourage something a bit less extravagant.

yukikata · 09/12/2024 21:55

PastaAndProse · 09/12/2024 21:51

But if you break it down per child it's likely less than £10 Confused so what's your point?

OP, I'd also go with something like a JL voucher.

£10 might not be a lot to you, but in the average state school, amongst those 30 kids will be some who are on benefits or even in poverty.

It is a lot of money for a teacher's gift and if they've ended up with hundreds of pounds, I'd definitely be concerned that there was some kind of pressure to give.

EachpeachpearplumIspytomthumb · 09/12/2024 21:57

40andlovelife · 09/12/2024 16:36

Most schools have policies that they are not allowed to accept gifts over a certain amount. At my school it was £10. Sorry but I would be mortified if a parent spent more than that on me. A small gift and a lovely note would be so much more appreciated,

BTW most school teachers do not feel underpaid, under appreciated and over worked yes, not underpaid though

In reality though it’s fine.
Tbh I would appreciate a voucher more than 30 gifts. (Cards always welcome of course!)

40andlovelife · 09/12/2024 21:57

@PastaAndProse I will try to simplify my point just for you,

If the gift is given as one gift as opposed to 30 separate gifts then it might ( depending on the schools internal policy) mean that the Teacher cannot accept it.

Schools that are part of an academy trust tend to have gift policies. You have to decline the gift and then report it to the trust,

EachpeachpearplumIspytomthumb · 09/12/2024 21:59

40andlovelife · 09/12/2024 21:57

@PastaAndProse I will try to simplify my point just for you,

If the gift is given as one gift as opposed to 30 separate gifts then it might ( depending on the schools internal policy) mean that the Teacher cannot accept it.

Schools that are part of an academy trust tend to have gift policies. You have to decline the gift and then report it to the trust,

Yes it is usually written in the policy. But in reality, in all the schools I’ve worked in, we’ve always been allowed to keep the vouchers and gifts.

TheDefiant · 09/12/2024 22:11

In our Scottish local authority teachers are not allowed to accept gifts and parents are discouraged from doing anything individually, even small, due to efforts to cut down the cost of the school day.

Teachers ask for cards with nice messages that they will treasure. I normally slip an origami book mark in the card. Home made. One of the corner ones.

On the rare occasions we've had a collection for a special event/teacher the teacher has chosen a charity to receive the collection and gift made to the charity in their honour.

Bobbybobbins · 09/12/2024 22:24

Personally I would like M&S vouchers, flowers, nice coffee, chocolates (if any of my pupils are reading 😉)

EducatingArti · 09/12/2024 22:57

🎶On the first day of Christmas, the parents bought for me,
A cartridge for the printer!

2 working pens
3 staplers
4 sellotapes

5 whiteboard pens 🎵

6 packs of pencils
7 boxes of tissues
8 packs of felt tips
9 pencil sharpeners
10 phonics readers
11 new erasers
12 packs of glue sticks 🎶

WhoPutTheBomp · 09/12/2024 23:09

Bobbybobbins · 09/12/2024 22:24

Personally I would like M&S vouchers, flowers, nice coffee, chocolates (if any of my pupils are reading 😉)

Not a card of thanks to place in your portfolio to show Ofsted, as you want the families to spend their budget on themselves not on <checks notes> M and S vouchers, flowers, nice coffee, chocolates?

noblegiraffe · 09/12/2024 23:14

What is a portfolio to show Ofsted? Confused

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