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Quiet coach on trains

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1questionfromme · 30/09/2024 13:04

If you deliberately book on to the quiet coach on a train what does this mean to you? I'm trying to work out if I'm naive or stupid as I thought it meant no talking on phones or listening to music etc out loud. I feel as though that's how it always was. More recently that seems to have gone out of the window and people just treat it the same as any other carriage. I'm on a train to Edinburgh from Kings Cross now and there's one person who has been constantly talking loudly on the phone and another with a child playing a beepy game on a tablet.

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sharpclawedkitten · 30/09/2024 18:09

HeeseChamwich · 30/09/2024 13:18

It means fuck all.

Any semblance of quiet on the train is now only to be found in first class. This seems to price out most of the noisy cunt bags.

You'd think but a few years ago I told someone to stop playing all the ring tones on their phone in first class.

He told me the world didn't revolve around me, but he did stop.

Snugglemonkey · 30/09/2024 20:18

harrumphh · 30/09/2024 15:13

because some people are working on the train.

So work quietly, or do not sit in a quiet space.

AgainandagainandagainSS · 30/09/2024 23:36

Fink · 30/09/2024 14:58

Same in France. Except there they don't have quiet coaches so every carriage is quiet. It goes to the other extreme: people with children usually sit in the corridor between proper carriages rather than go into a carriage and make noise. I've been on 6 hour journeys where I've been terrified to eat my sandwich because of the silence all around me. Never actually seen a conductor asking anyone to be quiet, it's just the done thing.

The exception is trains with a large number of foreigners, e.g. the ones that serve airports. They can be very noisy. And it doesn't apply to the RER, metro, buses, trams, or anything else; they just have an almost eerie reverence for trains.

I only saw it done once - and the two girls were whispering. They are so strict.
Let’s be honest though, behavior is going out of the window in the UK. It’s pretty grim.

MelainesLaugh · 01/10/2024 07:34

Dawevi · 30/09/2024 15:53

I'm thinking of putting a playlist together of loud, sweary, horrible sounding songs to play when people won't wear headphones in public. I reckon that playing them at full volume through a little speaker I can drown out the inconsiderate bastards and make my point.

Kevin Bloody Wilson would be perfect for this situation!!

Dawevi · 01/10/2024 07:45

harrumphh · 30/09/2024 15:13

because some people are working on the train.

In which case the quiet carriage is the seeing places to be in. A train isn't an office, anyway.

CupOfSoup · 01/10/2024 07:46

Common courtesy has gone out the window. I've been commuting for 30 years and post Covid commuting is like every man or woman for himself/herself.

I would say 75% of my journeys have someone playing something out loud on their phone. Or people having a conversation with someone else where they hold the phone out in front of them!

No one seems to care much anymore. The only way to deal with it is noise cancelling headphones and even they are not perfect.

GillOg · 13/08/2025 13:28

There seems to be an idea that the quiet coach is for children, NO! Unless they are very quiet and using headphones. Or sleeping the whole way. The quiet coach is for people who want to get away from loud conversations, children playing, and any device without headphones.

GillOg · 13/08/2025 13:39

Re Quiet Coach, on French trains, people always go to the area between coaches o make or take calls. ( Unless they're British...). Quiet Coach not needed. I have seen family coaches, which is a great idea. I just avoid those coaches.

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