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Tell me at one or two small thing you've done to make your life easier

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listsandbudgets · 08/02/2024 12:19

I've done 2 this year

  1. I've unsubscribed / marked as spam from nearly all my mailing lists. Now my inbox is an oasis of calm and I don't spend what feels like hours every week wading through emails I don't want My spam file is brimming over!
  2. I found a sharpie and (once I was sure they were the right way round!) labelled my double fitted sheets with side and top - wish I'd done this years ago not having to shuffle them about trying to work out which way up they go
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Wherediditgoto · 11/02/2024 13:56

twopencepetula · 11/02/2024 12:54

All the people arguing about food waste - a thing to make your life waaay easier - get a waste disposal unit

No smelly food waste ever again. It all gets broken down into tiny bits, is biodegrable and gets washed away.

Bought a property with one there already and would never be without one again.

They are meant to be environmentally unfriendly. I have no idea why. I had one in two consecutive houses and found them absolute game changers. I spend my life emptying the sink drainers now. I hate it.

FayKnights · 11/02/2024 13:57

CurlyhairedAssassin · 08/02/2024 22:32

I bought DH a weed burner. We both hate gardening but it's revolutionised keeping the brick paving weed free.

I read the first sentence and thought you were going to describe an oil burner type of affair but with weed in, and thought you were going to say it was the quickest way to help your DH relax. Grin

I had a very similar thought!! 😂

456pickupsticks · 11/02/2024 14:30

Wiggleyfingers · 08/02/2024 19:02

Setting up a child email address and giving it to the school. I spent so much time hunting through my personal emails to find the one that said what they needed to bring in on X day. Now they are all together it is so much easier.

For several roles I have, I email a family email address with kid stuff, rather than a parents personal one ([email protected]).
I don't know if this forwards to both parents email, or whether one parent checks it every day, but it seems like the way forward for any kids stuff!

Lifebeganat50 · 11/02/2024 14:49

twopencepetula · 11/02/2024 12:47

@Kazzyhoward

ll our old holiday photos have all be scanned and uploaded to dropbox and the actual photo albums ditched.

This is awful and really sad. I'm very focussed on this as have just had a bereavement and have elderly relatives.

Huge loss of pleasure. It is such a lovely thing to give someone a photo album to leaf through. Especially if you have had a relative die to look at physical photos all collected together in one place is such a comfort.

Whatever you think about the fact you can just look at digital photos, no one does really in the same way as having a weekend and a spare moment to look through it. A digital photo frame isn't the same. Plus digital photos tend to have repeats of the same image than no has bothered to edit so scrolling through 10 photos of uncle jack with his christmas dinner takes the joy away. Whereas an actual photo album has the editting done, only the best are there - plus old analogue photos taken with film were taken more selectively anyway because of the cost of printing. They really do record a family over time in significant moments and joyful moments of family life.

Plus when you die, unless you have been very regimented and given all the passwords and details to a surviving child/relative, all these photos may be lost when you die or if you develop dementia/memory loss. And to retain it in the family you are relying on that happening from child to child. Law of averages means there will be unexpected premature death where no one has planned for it or to hand it on. On the other hand, the photo album is right there- a physical part of your life and your history and who you are - that can always be found and handed on.

A family photo album across generations is a lovely thing to have and to pass on. It's so sad that someone would just throw them away.

Plus a scan of an old photo is never going to be as good quality as the actual printed analogue image was, you will get loss and degredation.

It has made me really sad for you and your family and descendants. What a terrible decision.

Edited

I agree @twopencepetula , I’ve spent a couple of hours this morning disappearing down a wormhole of old physical photos, reliving fabulous memories…and it’s actually made me resolve to get more printed, not just save the physical ones digitally

gingercat02 · 11/02/2024 15:01

My mum has a suitcase of old photos. We love killing an afternoon laughing and crying our way through them.

FayKnights · 11/02/2024 15:06

ReetPetity · 09/02/2024 08:11

Ziplock bags in the freezer that I fill with diced red onion/diced brown onion/diced garlic/garlic paste/ginger paste. Then I just need to scoop out the amount I need and it cuts down cooking time when I’m in a rush.

Meal planning. We do Gousto on and off, and keep all the cards we like. Having the recipe cards laid out each week knowing we’ve got the ingredients (whether from the box, or because I’ve done a separate shop) really helps the mental load.

A little ziplock bag in a kitchen drawer containing spare batteries of all sizes, plus a mini screw driver for taking the backs off toys to put them in.

A “uniform” for when I’m in the office: white/cream tops/jumpers, blue/green trousers/skirts, neutral shoes/boots. I can then be confident that almost everything works together. I also look out my clothes (inc underwear) on Sundays for the week ahead. Plus my biggest lays out his clothes every night before school.

A load of washing a day. Never leave a room without an item for the room I’m going to. All washing up/vacuuming done every night; but we also have a cleaner so I only ever have to keep on top of things.

Freezer organised into breakfast stuff and frozen fruit, proteins/meals, frozen veg and carbs. Makes it easy to see what we are short of.

Packets of pre-cooked rice. Takes ages otherwise, plus I’m shit at cooking it for some reason.

I’m even lazier and buy frozen ready chopped onion, butternut squash and spinach from Asda
Yes, yes, yes to pre-cooked rice!

LenaLamont · 11/02/2024 15:24

FayKnights · 11/02/2024 15:06

I’m even lazier and buy frozen ready chopped onion, butternut squash and spinach from Asda
Yes, yes, yes to pre-cooked rice!

I've just found bags of frozen pre-chopped garlic at the Asian supermarket.

It's loose in the bag, not in the big ice-cube chunks, so I can grab as much or little as I need for a meal. Fresh garlic is so ropey at this time of year, it's great to have a convenient alternative.

I do like the cubes of grated garlic or garlic & ginger for making curries, they speed things up so much.

ALittleDropOfRain · 11/02/2024 15:31

I have two boil over protectors. They’re basically flower-shaped silicon lids with holes in the middle that you put over anything boiling on the hob. Also excellent for cooking rice in the microwave.

I decant dried goods into Kilmer jars and cut the label off the original packaging (e.g. the printed ‘wholemeal flour’ from the paper bag) and tape it to the top of the lid.

I also have children’s clothes and some shoes in the next size up ready to go when DS suddenly shoots up. Seasons here are more extreme than in the UK, but there are items of clothing he needs all year round (including for his sports clubs). As we buy a lot second hand, it means I can pick things up as I see them. As we don’t have school uniform here, I think he needs more clothes than I had as a child.

We have a whiteboard in the kitchen where things are written when they’ve run out/ low. I just snap a photo of the board before I go shopping.

I also buy heavily used stuff in bulk. Pasta in 10kg boxes, rice in 5kg bags, tonnes of tinned tomatoes, etc. It’s quite possible to live from our stock cupboard. Particularly as we have a lot of frozen veg, which is so convenient. Take a handful of whatever you fancy and steam it in the microwave.

When DS was smaller, I used to batch cook hidden veg sauce and freeze it in silicone muffin trays. It meant that we could quickly make him
pasta in sauce if we adults fancied eating something spicy.

Even younger, we used a lanyard to attach his dummy and cuddly toy to his pushchair/car seat. It meant that whenever he dropped either they didn’t land on the floor and get lost.

HappyCrow · 11/02/2024 16:04

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Goldfishonabike · 11/02/2024 16:11

Got DH to do an equal share of housework.

Stopped worrying about what other people think so much.

ok maybe not small things 😂

just reflected on hoe revealing these responses are as to the extent mums worry about running a perfect household.

HappyCrow · 11/02/2024 16:15

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sockinapot · 11/02/2024 16:24

I write our names directly onto our passports with a white Jelly Roll gel pen.

If you want to use your passports for actually travelling, don’t do this.

Zone2NorthLondon · 11/02/2024 17:27

sockinapot · 11/02/2024 16:24

I write our names directly onto our passports with a white Jelly Roll gel pen.

If you want to use your passports for actually travelling, don’t do this.

Indeed
potentially it invalidates it as defaced

Zet1 · 11/02/2024 17:39

Love this! A lot of mine have been mentioned.

I would really appreciate label maker recommendations😊. I'll be using it for labels jars and storage boxes. Thank you

BeyondMyWits · 11/02/2024 17:43

Zone2NorthLondon · 11/02/2024 17:27

Indeed
potentially it invalidates it as defaced

Potentially , I guess. 48 years of worldwide international travel with first name written on the back of mine in white chinagraph (wax pencil) suggests a lot of places aren't bothered.

Zone2NorthLondon · 11/02/2024 17:49

BeyondMyWits · 11/02/2024 17:43

Potentially , I guess. 48 years of worldwide international travel with first name written on the back of mine in white chinagraph (wax pencil) suggests a lot of places aren't bothered.

Ok, just a note of caution but as you say 48 year travel no hiccups

itsallgoingpetetong · 11/02/2024 17:54

I have a label maker and each shelf in freezer is labelled meat and meals, vegetables, fruit and desserts , miscellaneous. Saves so much time rooting about looking for the packet of peas im sure i bought....

twopencepetula · 11/02/2024 18:06

@BeyondMyWits

Potentially , I guess. 48 years of worldwide international travel with first name written on the back of mine in white chinagraph (wax pencil) suggests a lot of places aren't bothered.

The trouble with that is that it only takes one airline/airport/border official to take a different view and you potentially can lose a flight, cost of trip and a lot of money. This was someone who was denied boarding because of a tiny peeling page which most people wouldnt think twice about

https://www.independent.co.uk/travel/news-and-advice/passport-damage-boarding-rules-how-to-guide-help-a8738491.html

Writing on your passport is technically defacement and all it takes is one irritable boarder official to run your holiday/business plans/visit. It's risk v reward isn't it? It's may be low risk but the damage if the risk eventuates is very high.
Is the benefit worth? it is the question and people will take different views.

I was denied boarding due to a damaged passport – how to make sure it doesn't happen to you

Ben West was due to fly to Qatar, but was refused boarding because his passport showed minor damage

https://www.independent.co.uk/travel/news-and-advice/passport-damage-boarding-rules-how-to-guide-help-a8738491.html

sockinapot · 11/02/2024 18:23

FFSNHS · 09/02/2024 11:28

Make sure you do the passport names with something easy to peel off because anything written on/in or stuck on/in the passport invalidate it when trying to enter certain countries. I found this out the hard way when trying to enter Vietnam years ago.

I'm now registered blind so have passport office attached braille on the outside of mine and that came with a warning about not doing the above.

Yes, this is why you shouldn’t write anything on your passport. Why take the chance. Good to warn people about it.

sockinapot · 11/02/2024 18:47

twopencepetula · 11/02/2024 18:06

@BeyondMyWits

Potentially , I guess. 48 years of worldwide international travel with first name written on the back of mine in white chinagraph (wax pencil) suggests a lot of places aren't bothered.

The trouble with that is that it only takes one airline/airport/border official to take a different view and you potentially can lose a flight, cost of trip and a lot of money. This was someone who was denied boarding because of a tiny peeling page which most people wouldnt think twice about

https://www.independent.co.uk/travel/news-and-advice/passport-damage-boarding-rules-how-to-guide-help-a8738491.html

Writing on your passport is technically defacement and all it takes is one irritable boarder official to run your holiday/business plans/visit. It's risk v reward isn't it? It's may be low risk but the damage if the risk eventuates is very high.
Is the benefit worth? it is the question and people will take different views.

Edited

I watched Border Security Australia recently, and there was a man denied entering because of a peeling page. He had never thought it mattered. Expensive mistake.

Kazzyhoward · 11/02/2024 19:37

We use an "easy peeling" label for putting our names on the covers of passports. If we come across a jobsworth airline/security staff, we can just very easily peel off the labels with no residue. But, in nearly 40 years of foreign travel, never happened yet!

nopuppiesallowed · 11/02/2024 19:37

After Christmas, I watch TV with a glass of wine in hand and check the Christmas cards we've received. I make a list of who's sent us cards and put it in the box of cards bought in the sales ready for next year. Next, I slug a mouthful of wine and cut the fronts off the cards to make gift tags. Then I have another sip of wine and make shopping list cards off the remains of the cards. All this while watching reruns of Frazier....

DodoTired · 11/02/2024 19:39

Love this thread!

I finally persuaded DH to use family online calendar (neither Google nor paper previously worked…). It also has space for to-do lists and shopping lists. Reduced a lot of arguing!

got a cleaner through the agency so it is much easier to rearrange/cancel/have coverage in case of sickness.

last year before we moved we also had a nanny doing nursery pick ups for DD, as we both work in high pressure jobs leaving for nursery pick up was very stressful. This way we could get home by 6-30/7 and one could even work till late if necessary

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 11/02/2024 19:41

nopuppiesallowed · 11/02/2024 19:37

After Christmas, I watch TV with a glass of wine in hand and check the Christmas cards we've received. I make a list of who's sent us cards and put it in the box of cards bought in the sales ready for next year. Next, I slug a mouthful of wine and cut the fronts off the cards to make gift tags. Then I have another sip of wine and make shopping list cards off the remains of the cards. All this while watching reruns of Frazier....

I have a similar ritual with my lovely new diary and a glass bottle of wine over Christmas.

Cuckoochanel80 · 11/02/2024 20:00

@saturnspinkhoop
I was able to just live in reality again, not have to see the same toxic bullying behaviour i was tired of witnessing. It massively took the pressure off.

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