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Americans are lazy cooks

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Dogonthebed · 28/11/2023 22:32

I’m an avid Pinterest collector of recipes. I see something I like the look of then pin to that’s week meal plan only to find out it is an American recipe Recipe stretching it as they seem to have shortcuts for everything we can’t get in the UK. Can they actually cook? It is the equivalent of us making a cottage pie from a Coleman mix. Anyone else find it bizarre how much help they get for basic recipes then having the cheek to set up a blog as recipes??? They could just read the back of the instructions fgs!

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collectspples · 29/11/2023 14:32

KinS24 · 28/11/2023 22:45

Bit of a sweeping statement.
I do find the use of branded seasoning odd though. Like everything has something like ‘two spoons of Old Hanks all purpose seasoning’ or ‘a quart of little Betsy Cajun sauce’.

Bit like marmite or Worcestershire sauce here then

Scruffington · 29/11/2023 14:35

Crikeyalmighty · 29/11/2023 14:28

@DazedandConfused1234 yep I'm making bolognese tonight and it will involve a Lloyd grossman jar and some Waitrose sofrito

I love those bags of frozen soffritto. Snip it open chuck it in the pan and I feel like I'm off to a good start without even having had to peel an onion. Sometimes the idea of peeling an onion can be a big 'nope' for me.

Scruffington · 29/11/2023 14:37

collectspples · 29/11/2023 14:32

Bit like marmite or Worcestershire sauce here then

It's called 'wash your sister' sauce now. Or sometimes 'roy's sister cherie' sauce.

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LeopardPJS · 29/11/2023 14:48

Saw one recently which was supposed to be a soup recipe and it had an entire packet of shop-bought fresh tortellini as one of the 'ingredients', I was so confused

Citrusandginger · 29/11/2023 15:01

I've been involved in food projects to help people with low incomes and no cooking experience learn.

The projects use cups not weight.

Not everyone on a low income has a set of scales, but everyone has a cup or mug in the cupboard. The exact volume doesn't matter, you just need to use the same cup throughout the recipe and it will work.

It's also an approach that is helpful for the one in 4 people in the UK who struggle with numeracy and the one in 5 who have low literacy.

Crikeyalmighty · 29/11/2023 15:03

@Scruffington me too- just makes bolognese taste much nicer without the chopping faff and I hate peeling onions

Saschka · 29/11/2023 15:11

User13579367337 · 29/11/2023 14:30

I’ve just googled that out of interest, and the percentage of unemployed mothers in the USA is higher than any country in Europe

That’s down to awful mat leave policies, no requirement to consider PT requests, and shit childcare provision. The US government does not have the family-friendly policies we take for granted.

US 1950s fluoro jello salads are a hilarious and baffling rabbit hole (which plenty of Americans also find hilarious and baffling, I first became aware of it via Metafilter and AskaManager).

But we had our fair share of weird 1970s cooking in the UK - DM has an old 1970s Marguerite Patten recipe book she was given when she got married in 1974, and while it is all made from scratch, the photography in particular is something else. So many lurid colours. We just don’t have Mommy bloggers recreating it on TikTok.

FizzyStream · 29/11/2023 15:15

I believe (and I'm only going on what others have told me) that fresh produce is also extremely expensive in the US as opposed to cheaper processed alternatives.

DBro was in New York last year and said a fresh red pepper (1) cost around five dollars. Of course that could just be because he was in a city......

Saschka · 29/11/2023 15:17

Citrusandginger · 29/11/2023 15:01

I've been involved in food projects to help people with low incomes and no cooking experience learn.

The projects use cups not weight.

Not everyone on a low income has a set of scales, but everyone has a cup or mug in the cupboard. The exact volume doesn't matter, you just need to use the same cup throughout the recipe and it will work.

It's also an approach that is helpful for the one in 4 people in the UK who struggle with numeracy and the one in 5 who have low literacy.

Great for teaching kids how to cook as well - I have a great choc chip and oatmeal cookie recipe (off the back of a President’s Choice oatmeal packet 🤣) which DS has been making with minimal supervision since he was two.

Weighing stuff out precisely is hard, putting one scoop of flour and smaller scoops of oatmeal and butter in a bowl is not.

Scruffington · 29/11/2023 15:23

FizzyStream · 29/11/2023 15:15

I believe (and I'm only going on what others have told me) that fresh produce is also extremely expensive in the US as opposed to cheaper processed alternatives.

DBro was in New York last year and said a fresh red pepper (1) cost around five dollars. Of course that could just be because he was in a city......

Yes, grocery shopping is way more expensive in the US. Obviously NYC will be a special case but even Ordinaryville, Ohio will be far more expensive than your average UK supermarket.

sheflieswithherownwings · 29/11/2023 15:24

Love the sweeping generalisations here. Some Americans, like some British people, do actually cook from scratch. There are also very health conscious Americans who are disgusted by the amount of processed food available in US shops. I managed to cook from scratch really easily while living there. And there are many good blogs from US cooks that don't use any processed food.

Also, since I've been living back in the UK, I've been shocked by the number of kids I see who are visibly overweight - more than I used to see where we were living in the US. British people have no reason to feel superior around food and nutrition at all!

mathanxiety · 29/11/2023 15:28

DazedandConfused1234 · 29/11/2023 14:21

I'm not sure that's true. The taste and texture is usually massively inferior from a box cake. Sometimes it doesn't really matter (kids parties, for example) but generally I wouldn't touch a box cake.

And I am not averse to slinging a jar of sauce and some frozen veg in a pan of mince and calling it bolognese, so no saint in this area.

American boxed cake mixes are delicious. In fact, I'd recommend bringing some back if you're ever in the US.

I normally bake from scratch and have a sheaf of reliable recipes for cakes of all kinds, and DD4 bakes something nice at least once a fortnight. But sometimes you feel like a cake in a hurry on a Wednesday evening, and it's nice to whip one up using just one mixing bowl, with no sieving or time-consuming measuring involved.

sixteenfurryfeet · 29/11/2023 15:41

DazedandConfused1234 · 29/11/2023 14:21

I'm not sure that's true. The taste and texture is usually massively inferior from a box cake. Sometimes it doesn't really matter (kids parties, for example) but generally I wouldn't touch a box cake.

And I am not averse to slinging a jar of sauce and some frozen veg in a pan of mince and calling it bolognese, so no saint in this area.

I agree with you that cake mixes are not the same as a home-made cake, but that wasn't the point I was making. The person I was responding to had posted about obesity, and that was what I was referring to in my post. It doesn't matter how you cook a cake, it is still a cake at the end of the day, and stuffed with calories.

Goldenbear · 29/11/2023 15:43

sheflieswithherownwings · 29/11/2023 15:24

Love the sweeping generalisations here. Some Americans, like some British people, do actually cook from scratch. There are also very health conscious Americans who are disgusted by the amount of processed food available in US shops. I managed to cook from scratch really easily while living there. And there are many good blogs from US cooks that don't use any processed food.

Also, since I've been living back in the UK, I've been shocked by the number of kids I see who are visibly overweight - more than I used to see where we were living in the US. British people have no reason to feel superior around food and nutrition at all!

You must be in an overweight child hotspot then as I don't really see any obese kids where I live, mist arw the opposite. The fact is in world rankings the US does have more of obesity problem, those are the facts.

British food when out, well depending on where you live is of very high quality now. At home maybe a different matter but surely that comes down to money like most things in life.

mathanxiety · 29/11/2023 15:45

FKATondelayo · 29/11/2023 13:19

Exactly this. Most Americans live in vast cities and sububs hundreds of miles from farms and market gardens. (Not to mention a lot of them live in desert - California, Arizona and Nevada are among the highest populated states.) Zoning laws also dictate how living is organised - so housing is segregated from business and shops and agriculture. This means a lot of food is by necessity processed because it's the only way it can be transported and sold.

In the UK we are a tiny country where even the most central city dweller is still a short drive away from a farmshop or a walk from a farmer's market. What's our excuse? I live in London, a 15 minute drive from a pick your own farm.

LOL

We have refrigeration, you know, and planes and trucks to transport produce all over the country to supermarkets.

California is a leading producer of fruit and veg, and Americans get the benefit of proximity to Central and South American producers, too. Arizona and Nevada are not among the more populous states.

Now that winter is upon us, I'm looking forward to seeing Texas pink grapefruit in the shops. American-grown Clementimes have already appeared. We've just had apple season, with lovely apples from two nearby states in all the shops, and before that we had melons, blueberries, raspberries, and cherries. They're all still available, but produced in California, Peru and Mexico at this point. There are lots of fresh root veg and green leafy veg too.

I live in a big Midwestern city where winters are long and cold. The local Farmer's Market operates from early May to the end of October, and takes food stamps as well as cash and card payments. I grow herbs, tomatoes and peppers - both sweet and hot - on my deck, and my downstairs neighbour grows zucchini in a little bed she created in the back yard. I bring the herbs indoors in winter and have rosemary, sage, basil, mint, thyme, and oregano whenever I want. My parish church has a 'gardening for our sisters and brothers in need' programme where parishioners donate garden crops to a city food bank. I don't grow enough to make much of a difference to the total, but every little bit counts.

I doubt there are pick your own farms near every British city and town. The SE tends to be very well served by businesses benefiting from the generally higher incomes in that region.

allfurcoatnoknickers · 29/11/2023 15:46

I live in NYC, we don't cook at all.

(I'm joking, but generally New Yorkers don't really cook. Loads of people I know use their ovens for storage)

mathanxiety · 29/11/2023 15:53

Goldenbear · 29/11/2023 15:43

You must be in an overweight child hotspot then as I don't really see any obese kids where I live, mist arw the opposite. The fact is in world rankings the US does have more of obesity problem, those are the facts.

British food when out, well depending on where you live is of very high quality now. At home maybe a different matter but surely that comes down to money like most things in life.

So does the British obesity epidemic. The Nuffield Trust has stated that one in four British children was obese in the 2020-21school year, with a distinct correlation of obesity to income levels. If you factor in children who are overweight, you are looking at one in three children who are either obese or overweight.

MissConductUS · 29/11/2023 15:54

BabaBarrio · 28/11/2023 23:12

It’s bashing mainstream American cooking, not the people.

It's more a case of lost empire syndrome. This is often accompanied by the "Americans don't have real cheese" urban myth. Anything that puts them in their proper place is popular on MN.

mathanxiety · 29/11/2023 15:56

Butteredtoast55 · 29/11/2023 12:41

Two words. Pioneer Woman.

My DH is off sick and is watching this and has just texted me her recipe for festive haystack cookies which is crushed dried egg noodles in melted chocolate formed into haystack shapes. She has made millions from this kind of cooking so it must be popular.

The money comes from licensed kitchenware and home textiles. The cooking bit is the shtick that sells the merch.

mathanxiety · 29/11/2023 16:02

Pluvia · 29/11/2023 11:41

Just FYI, you old charmer, I read all the way through the thread to the end, then started my post about wtf is a stick of butter but was interrupted by needing to take my old dog out into the garden for him to be sick. I don't know what he'd eaten but he had me up till 3am. Having settled him again, I finished my post and posted 17 minutes after the butter stick explanation.

Do many other countries have different measures that they use when writing up recipes? I went to some cooking classes in Thailand and when we needed to measure we used scales and grams. I've also done Indian cookery classes in India: scales and grams too. But what do I know — because according to you I'm stupid.

And your point about the volume measurements is...?

If you think the average Thai and Indian cook uses a scale and measures everything in grams when cooking at home for the family, you need to give your head a wobble.

Most home cooks all over the world either eyeball ingredients or use a trusty cup or other vessel to measure ingredients. Both of my grandmothers and my mother made bread this way every day of their lives, and pastry, and most savory dishes too. My mum can whip up a sponge just by eyeballing the ingredients.

Goldenbear · 29/11/2023 16:15

MissConductUS · 29/11/2023 15:54

It's more a case of lost empire syndrome. This is often accompanied by the "Americans don't have real cheese" urban myth. Anything that puts them in their proper place is popular on MN.

With the cheese thing, isn't it the case that it is the prevalence of processes cheese? I was backpacking around Europe in 2000 and we washed our clothes on a laundrette in Venice and got chatting to an American girl backpacking she remarked on how dangerous British cheese is and how the U.S regulations ensure their safety on the cheese bu not having cheddar available. She also thought all the cows in England were still infected with mad cow disease though and how these things indicated how unsafe our policies on food standards were.

When I was very young so 7 in the mid 80s my Mum organised a tour of the U S over a period of two months and even then I was surprised at how big some people were in certain states. My Mum is not a particular amazing cook but she was desperate for vegetables when we returned as they were distinctly lacking. We definitely have a rising obesity problem but in a way we have imported lots of these approaches to fast food from the U S. Probably because burger and fries is tastier than soggy cabbage and faggots when you are a child.

Goldenbear · 29/11/2023 16:18

So do Americans have there own cheddar equivalent then or when you say it is an urban myth are you just alluding to the European cheeses that are available in the U S this is a genuine question?

mathanxiety · 29/11/2023 16:21

MrsTerryPratchett · 29/11/2023 01:28

And therein lies one of the issues. If a recipe says 100g of brown sugar, you weigh it. Job done. 100g of butter. Weigh it. You want three cakes, 300g. Easy.

If it wants 3 tablespoons of butter, ummmm 9 for three cakes. What's that in sticks? 1 cup of brown sugar. You have to know you pack that but you don't pack flour or white sugar. Don't shake it to level, slide a knife over. Recipe won't say it. It is less precise and needs more explanation.

Added to which volumes aren't as stable as weights. A cup of milk is always the same volume but a cup of flour will vary more. Good bakers in North America weigh things. It's fine for cooking but not baking.

I think there is a lot of shit eaten in the UK and US. Everyday foods are less sugary though. When I was in the States the bread, salad dressing, lots of savoury things, everything tasted sweet.

Oh dear.

If you need 9 tablespoons of butter then you use one full stick stick plus one tablespoon of a second stick. You use the handy little markings on the wrapper to gauge where to cut. Each stick is marked into eight tablespoons/half ounces. Astonishing, right?

Recipes almost always call for packed brown sugar, and they take into account the density and texture of other sugars, nuts chopped or whole, or other ingredients like raisins, chocolate chips, etc. that you might use. Your castor sugar and brown sugar measurements will all be fine. There's no need to fret, because recipes have the correct proportions, taking the different qualities of various ingredients into account.

The only issue you might have is with high altitude baking. Some books give amended ingredient measurements for high altitude baking (The Joy of Cooking, for example). If you use your usual recipe for a chocolate cake somewhere in the Rockies and it flops, you can always look online too, to see what might have gone wrong and how to fix it.

Everyone who bakes either sifts flour and then scoops and levels it, or just scoops and levels and fires ahead. It is a perfectly satisfactory method of baking, and millions of very good bakers use it all the time in the US because it works. Flour handling doesn't need to be spelled out in every recipe because it's a given, like releasing eggs from the shell before adding to the mixture. Do you honestly think Americans would go on using a method that turned out failure after failure?

I can't believe the nonsense that's being spouted on this thread, and the sheer lack of joined up thinking.

ErrolTheDragon · 29/11/2023 16:27

When we lived in Pennsylvania, we did find some Real Cheese. There was a deli out in the sticks, which to our delight had a whole Stilton. The first piece we bought was a bit immature but ok. I think we were the only people buying it, we got through a fair bit before we had to tell the shopkeeper that he'd better get rid of the rest before it walked out of the door.Grin

That was ca 1990, don't know if the predominance of fake/poor cheese still applies. And maybe it's regional? Are there areas where you can get local goat or sheep's cheese like you can here?

EnoughIsay · 29/11/2023 16:28

ohdrearydrearyme · 29/11/2023 14:20

Oh, and using oil in cakes rather than butter. Surely at least in some cases it will be to keep it kosher. So perhaps indicative of religious requirements or inclusivity rather than simply "bad taste".

Exactly that.

But also cultural.

Mist Italian cakes use oil. Thery find butter very heavy and conider it bad for you in the quatities we use.