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Govt stealth policy to eradicate SAH parenting

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JRHartley72 · 22/03/2023 06:59

The Guardian is reporting this morning that buried deep in Jeremy Hunt's budget last week is a new policy which will force parents on UC to return to work when their children turn three. As charities and campaigners say, it's like they just don't want us to raise our own children any more!

www.theguardian.com/society/2023/mar/22/jeremy-hunt-universal-credit-benefits-mothers-30-hour-weeks

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Snowglobed · 22/03/2023 10:00

MyriadOfTravels · 22/03/2023 09:37

Well the main issue is that you can only tell women to go back to work when their dc is 3yo IF AND ONLY IF you have appropriate childcare available.

As it turns out, the current budget is been torn to pieces by nurseries saying that giving free childcare hours from 9 (??? Can’t remember exactly) months will simply decimate the industry and there will be LESS spaces available than before.

How are people then suppose to manage, I have no idea.
Unless the answer is to put the whole country even deeper in poverty. We are already at the bottom of table though…

It would be from 3 years old though, the funded hours already exist for this age range.

Ylvamoon · 22/03/2023 10:02

If the government/ society wants to encourage SAHP then they would charge the laws and entitlement around maternity leave & pay.

As it stands the ones who have shouted the loudest have got what they wanted... add on the effects on their coffers and the employability of women after childbirth it's really a non brainer.

We already have employment laws in place to minimise discrimination of parents/ carers.

MarshaBradyo · 22/03/2023 10:06

Ylvamoon · 22/03/2023 10:02

If the government/ society wants to encourage SAHP then they would charge the laws and entitlement around maternity leave & pay.

As it stands the ones who have shouted the loudest have got what they wanted... add on the effects on their coffers and the employability of women after childbirth it's really a non brainer.

We already have employment laws in place to minimise discrimination of parents/ carers.

As it stands the ones who have shouted the loudest have got what they wanted.

I’m not sure who you’re having a go at here? Who has ‘shouted the loudest’

Is it aimed at women who find cc prohibitively expensive

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carriedout · 22/03/2023 10:07

Snowglobed · 22/03/2023 10:00

It would be from 3 years old though, the funded hours already exist for this age range.

@Snowglobed If you had read anything from the industry, rather than just the Tory press release, you would see that the changes to provision from 9m-2y & more funded 3yo places is expected to force more providers to close (as @MyriadOfTravels explained in the post you replied to)

If it costs a nursery to provide the places (which it does) then providing more of those places results in bigger losses, meaning the businesses will have to close.

justpoppingtotheshops · 22/03/2023 10:07

I agree with him. If you want to stay home with your children then you shouldn't get benefits to facilitate that

SalviaDivinorum · 22/03/2023 10:08

JRHartley72 · 22/03/2023 07:04

No of course they do! Sorry, clumsy wording on my part. Blame the early hour! Apologies for offence caused.

I just meant the Govt doesn't want anyone to stay at home to look after their children.

Why should the parents who do go to work pay for others to stay at home by choice?

caringcarer · 22/03/2023 10:08

If people can't find childcare in their locality it may be a good move to train to become a childminder. You'd have plenty of work if not much provision in your area.

inamarina · 22/03/2023 10:08

megletthesecond · 22/03/2023 07:20

It's inhuman forcing lone parent of young children to work that many hours.

I've worked 3 days a week since my youngest was 1 and it's been awful. My health is damaged (cost the NHS a few quid to fix my bowels) and I have anxiety though the roof. I have teens now and still work 3 days as my youngest has MH issues.

If you worked three days a week and unless it was 10-12 hours a day, it was probably the job itself rather then the amount of hours that caused your health issues.
Plus, you started working when your youngest was one, but here we’re talking about three year olds.

Snowglobed · 22/03/2023 10:09

carriedout · 22/03/2023 10:07

@Snowglobed If you had read anything from the industry, rather than just the Tory press release, you would see that the changes to provision from 9m-2y & more funded 3yo places is expected to force more providers to close (as @MyriadOfTravels explained in the post you replied to)

If it costs a nursery to provide the places (which it does) then providing more of those places results in bigger losses, meaning the businesses will have to close.

I know but policy is from 3 years old. A lot of people claim at least the 15 hours at 3 years old now. They are also increasing their contribution by 30% to settings which won't solve all of the issues but will alleviate some of the funding problems. It's not going to be parents forced to look for work when their child is 3 that causes issues in these funded places.

MyriadOfTravels · 22/03/2023 10:22

caringcarer · 22/03/2023 10:08

If people can't find childcare in their locality it may be a good move to train to become a childminder. You'd have plenty of work if not much provision in your area.

Except that what the government is proposing for free extended childcare is a pittance and CM will not be able to live from that……

ImNotAsThinkAsYouDrunkIAm · 22/03/2023 10:24

Gincan · 22/03/2023 07:57

People on UC credit will be pretty fucked around here then, there simply aren't enough nursery places. The only way to guarantee one is to put your name down while ttc, most places waiting lists are at least 18 months long. It will only get worse when the "funding" (inverted commas as it will likely cripple the nurseries) becomes available. Another well thought out plan from the tories, excellent.

Pretty sure they aren’t going to make people go out to work and leave their 3 year olds at home alone. Just like people looking for a job but not immediately finding one, they will be required to supply evidence that they are looking for childcare places. And probably supported in finding one.

DarkShade · 22/03/2023 10:25

I'm genuinely really confused by this. At the minute can you claim UC to be a stay at home parent, irrespective of your household income? Or is that if you are on unemployed benefits (or top up) anyway, then you can stop job seeking until your child is 3?

It's irrelevant for me at this stage, but I'm going to be seriously pissed if it turns out that I've been going to work and missing out on my child to pay for other people to stay at home with theirs.

MyriadOfTravels · 22/03/2023 10:26

@Snowglobed no it’s not them who will cause the problem.

Its the fact there will be no spaces available so no childcare available for that parent to work.

happysingleversary · 22/03/2023 10:26

Well that ties into the thinking popular in right wing subculture that the powers that be want to see a destruction of the traditional family in favour of state-raised children and worked to death slaves in a technological hell.

I think there's merit to it, and now it's in mainstream press.

KillingLoneliness · 22/03/2023 10:30

So will they help create jobs that work around school hours? Especially in rural locations? I’m currently a carer for my youngest but I want to get back into work, my issue is there’s no breakfast club or after school club where I live and no public transport so I don’t know what my children are expected to do if I’m not able to collect them, the school is half an hours drive away from our house. I’ve been struggling to find any work at all that can fit around the school day and moving is not an option.

Lcb123 · 22/03/2023 10:30

you can still chose to stay at home-but why should you get money to do so, once children are school age. I hope this actually benefits women by encouraging them to work and not be reliant on their partners, and then left high and dry when the relationship breaks down

mumyes · 22/03/2023 10:32

The tories just want everyone to line up like good worker bees & make them & their friends money. At any cost.

Welcome to capitalism!

happysingleversary · 22/03/2023 10:34

mumyes · 22/03/2023 10:32

The tories just want everyone to line up like good worker bees & make them & their friends money. At any cost.

Welcome to capitalism!

It sounds more like feudalism.

MarshaBradyo · 22/03/2023 10:39

mumyes · 22/03/2023 10:32

The tories just want everyone to line up like good worker bees & make them & their friends money. At any cost.

Welcome to capitalism!

It’s frustrating that cc costs are so high don’t you think?

Massively higher than other countries which impacts women mostly

BashirWithTheGoodBeard · 22/03/2023 10:40

I'm genuinely really confused by this. At the minute can you claim UC to be a stay at home parent, irrespective of your household income?

No, there are income and savings thresholds. You can have too much money to qualify for UC.

Wisteriaroundthedoor · 22/03/2023 10:43

mumyes · 22/03/2023 10:32

The tories just want everyone to line up like good worker bees & make them & their friends money. At any cost.

Welcome to capitalism!

No they want you to work if you can and not ask for benefits instead as we have huge debts and our schools and healthcare and policing etc all need paying for.

sorry you find the thought objectionable.

ImNotAsThinkAsYouDrunkIAm · 22/03/2023 10:43

KillingLoneliness · 22/03/2023 10:30

So will they help create jobs that work around school hours? Especially in rural locations? I’m currently a carer for my youngest but I want to get back into work, my issue is there’s no breakfast club or after school club where I live and no public transport so I don’t know what my children are expected to do if I’m not able to collect them, the school is half an hours drive away from our house. I’ve been struggling to find any work at all that can fit around the school day and moving is not an option.

They’re apparently providing funding so that schools can provide wrap around care.

Wisteriaroundthedoor · 22/03/2023 10:45

DarkShade · 22/03/2023 10:25

I'm genuinely really confused by this. At the minute can you claim UC to be a stay at home parent, irrespective of your household income? Or is that if you are on unemployed benefits (or top up) anyway, then you can stop job seeking until your child is 3?

It's irrelevant for me at this stage, but I'm going to be seriously pissed if it turns out that I've been going to work and missing out on my child to pay for other people to stay at home with theirs.

No , if your income is below a certain threshold so you can’t afford to stay home you can claim benefits. If you can afford it it doesn’t apply

JustAnotherUsey · 22/03/2023 10:45

I hope the gov offer grants to people to set up the extra childcare provisions needed.

Would be good if businesses started to create childcare spaces and jobs within offices, to help support parents with childcare. That would be useful!

happysingleversary · 22/03/2023 10:45

Wisteriaroundthedoor · 22/03/2023 10:43

No they want you to work if you can and not ask for benefits instead as we have huge debts and our schools and healthcare and policing etc all need paying for.

sorry you find the thought objectionable.

What was the total in unclaimed benefits this year?