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Do your children have to take a morning snack to school?

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Longwhiskers · 01/01/2023 11:22

Just curious what other schools do. Ours requests a morning snack sent in for the children. My younger one is not fussed what they’re sent with but it causes tensions with the older one who is easily influenced by what others have (they claim classmates all have crisps and expensive snack bars) whereas I try to send mine in with fruit or homemade muffins etc (not cool apparently!). I’m fed up with the whole thing. The cooked lunch is often rubbish so several days a week we have to send in packed lunch so it’s a faff.

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liveforsummer · 01/01/2023 13:04

Ours take their morning snacks outshine so those tubs would end up used as footballs 😆

FlounderingFruitcake · 01/01/2023 13:05

If they have crisps or biscuits at lunch, can’t they eat it mid morning instead? If they’re having it once a day anyway then it’s just a question of timing. Or is the issue that they want it twice?

liveforsummer · 01/01/2023 13:05

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vinoandbrie · 01/01/2023 13:06

Fruit only, right through primary years.

Minimochi · 01/01/2023 13:09

Ours don't tend to use their snackboxes as footballs. It's a whole school thing and all the children have them outside. There's a space for them to eat and store them away from the football pitch or playing area.
Obviously, if that isn't the done thing at a school, it would be more difficult to take a box. On the other hand, it's school lunches only across the school (Reception to Year 13), so no lunchboxes to take in.

Pinkflipflop85 · 01/01/2023 13:15

Minimochi · 01/01/2023 13:04

To be fair, we leave the house at 7.15am and he doesn't eat breakfast. He's then usually in after school club until 5pm, so it's a long day.

We leave at 7. He refuses breakfast and is at ASC until 5 too.

I knew he barely ate but this has highlighted it even more!😮

Craghopper1 · 01/01/2023 13:17

My son is at primary and the school request fruit or veg only.

Lollipop999 · 01/01/2023 13:31

Sugarfree23 · 01/01/2023 12:37

Why not give them toast or bagel for breakfast and fruit for snack.

I can't imagine how hard it would be for schools to be doing hundreds of bits of toast. And kids would use their entire snack time queuing for it.

Because fruit costs more money and tastes nicer when fresher (not after being bashed around in a school bag) and I want to make sure they eat it and don’t throw it away or waste it so they have it for breakfast.

A lot of fruit is not easy to transport.

Sugarfree23 · 01/01/2023 14:20

liveforsummer · 01/01/2023 13:04

Because they actually have a bit of nutritional value hidden in there among the junk and do help with the hunger - unlike pure sugar!

You say that as if kids are actually hungry. For the majority who'll have eaten breakfast its habit.

The biggest difference between kids in the 80s and now is the amount of snacks they eat.

NYresolutions23 · 01/01/2023 14:28

Ds used to. Normally what his friends had, so cereal bar, crisps or small choc like a rocky bar. If took fruit it came home battered in his bag.
Fruit wasn't cool. He wasn't fussed about housepoints for healthy snacks.

Allezallezallez2023 · 01/01/2023 14:31

Yes, and it has to be fruit or veg

hedgehoglurker · 01/01/2023 14:39

FlounderingFruitcake · 01/01/2023 13:05

If they have crisps or biscuits at lunch, can’t they eat it mid morning instead? If they’re having it once a day anyway then it’s just a question of timing. Or is the issue that they want it twice?

My thoughts too, and put the muffin in the lunch instead.

Ours were only allowed fruit/ veg at break in primary, with no single use packaging...

SpinningFloppa · 01/01/2023 14:45

No our school doesn’t allow it. Didn’t know others did!

EcoCustard · 01/01/2023 15:17

My Ks1 kids get fruit provided but have the option of taking in a snack. Apparently friends all do but I don’t send one in unless at after school club. Dc1 is Ks2 and has to take a healthy snack, he takes fruit or occasionally a cereal bar. What constitutes a healthy snack varies to the schools monthly stance and from parent to parent, his friend took in a toffee crisp one day last term, much to his annoyance, I don’t think he’ll get away with it next week. 😁

PortableVirgins · 01/01/2023 15:29

DS's school doesn't do school meals, so he needs to take lunch and a snack -- he takes a cheese sandwich or pasta, fruit, breadsticks, cucumber or carrot/hummus, and one 'treat' which could be crisps or a small bar or a homemade brownie. Up to him how he distributes them between snack and lunch.

Natsku · 01/01/2023 15:37

My DD used to take a snack some days (this year her teacher has discouraged it, not sure why), when there was a longer afternoon (lunch is so early they never need a snack in the morning) and would either take a sandwich or a piece of fruit and a biscuit. Now she just keeps an emergency cereal bar in her backpack.

RandomUsernameHere · 01/01/2023 15:38

Yes mine have to take one (primary). It's supposed to be fruit or vegetable, but not sure how much that's enforced!

doris9034 · 01/01/2023 15:43

Bit off topic, but we never had snacks at school (mid 80s - 90s) and we didn't starve or suffer educationally. Why are snacks now almost mandatory?!

Longwhiskers · 01/01/2023 15:45

i think I’ll say it’s up to them to have the ‘treat’ for lunch or get it out for morning break. But quite often the treat bit isn’t cool enough eg crisps’ bit is some mini cheddars from a big pack in a tub and that’s not cool enough for my eldest. Or homemade muffin or biscuits I put in a tub. It’s all about stuff in a wrapper. We’re on the pathway to ASC diagnosis and he is very heavily influenced by what classmates have/desperate to fit in. We’ve had massive effing meltdowns in the morning over what the bloody snack is for morning break. His previous school didn’t do it and I don’t think kids necessarily need a morning snack either, they’re not toddlers. Certainly mine don’t because luckily they eat a big breakfast.

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OnTheRunWithMannyMontana · 01/01/2023 15:48

Ah reminds me of the old primary school days of DDs Epic Travelling Apple.

I swear it travelled more miles to and from school each week than my actual commute.

Edwardwilliamnancy · 01/01/2023 15:49

At primary ks1 got provided with fruit/veg, ks2 could send fruit/veg.
Mine are now in secondary school and dc 1 and 3 have always taken a snack due to medical issues (usually homemade flapjack, cereal bars). Dc2 doesn't really need a snack now he's older and doesn't want to take one as its not cool.

PortableVirgins · 01/01/2023 15:50

doris9034 · 01/01/2023 15:43

Bit off topic, but we never had snacks at school (mid 80s - 90s) and we didn't starve or suffer educationally. Why are snacks now almost mandatory?!

In DS's case, he's a terribly slow eater, and often doesn't eat much breakfast, and as he walks/cycles to school and is very active during breaks, I think it's important for him to have the option of something to eat between an almost non-existent breakfast and a 12.30 lunch.

TurquoiseBeach · 01/01/2023 15:53

KS2 optional piece of fruit. Sometimes it's eaten, sometimes it's not.

Sugarfree23 · 01/01/2023 18:27

@PortableVirgins which is why it makes sense for it to be an optional thing rather than a universal all kids need a snack

Most kids will be fine going from breakfast to lunch. We have a massive issue with obesity. And I'm sure a chunk of it has to come from snacking.

The TV adds have done a job convincing people that Chocolate biscuits and deep fried potatoes are fine to eat between meals but a tiny bag of sweets with less calories aren't.

ThatsGoingToHurt · 01/01/2023 18:32

At DD primary school we have to send in a morning snack but it has to be fruit or veg only.

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