Humidity !also known as relative humidity) is a percentage, because 100% refers to how much moisture the air could possibly hold. This depends on temperature. So when it is cold and wet outside, the relative humidity may be close ro 100%. But if you bring that cold air indiors and warm it up, suddenly it could hold a lot more water. If it's still only got the same amount of water in, the relative humidity falls, because the warm air could now hold more.
The relative humidity is the main thing that encourages/suppresses mould and mites, and helps laundry dry or otherwise.
When it's wet and not all that cold outside, but not very warm inside, it is inevitable that indoor humidity will be high, because wet outside air can only achieve low humidity if it is warmed up a lot.
So for instance where I am the outdoor air is12 degrees and 91% humidity. When it is warmed up to 19 (my indoors temperature roughly) it is still at 64%. So that is the lowest possible humidity we could achieve indoors without turning up the heating more. Then with us breathing, bathing, cooking etc in the house and adding more moisture to the air our indoor humidity is actually at 69. And we do have the ventilation running, but not at 'howling gale' levels.
If the indoor temperature was lower, 16 or 17 the humidity would inevitably be higher, just because that's air we have around us in this weather.
The only way to reduce the humidity is to increase the temperature but without reducing the ventilation. Which is obviously expensive 🙁.
That said if your humidity remains high even when it is dryer outside (or there is more of a temperature difference between outside and in) there may be another source of moisture , such as rain soaking into the walls, that could be adding to it. This can happen with solid walls, and also with cavity insulation if the pointing is in poor condition and/or you are in a very exposed location.
Do you have good loft insulation? That is a relatively straightforward job that does make a big difference to indoor temperatures, and it is also doable as diy if you are careful (and watch a few youtube videos beforehand probably). Depending on your income/circumstances/location you might also be eligible for a grant