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Please tell me about your embarrassing job interviews

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Itdoesntrain · 28/09/2022 11:00

I've been made redundant and applied for a few jobs. I had 5 booked in (different jobs at different companies!) but 2 were cancelled due to the mini budget announcements so am feeling sorry for myself

Anyway, last minute interview arranged at 9am today for 10am today on Zoom.

It was a complete and utter disaster. I had such good answers in my head but just ended up tripping over all my words and stuttering. I couldn't even think of a decent question to ask at the end.

I even started getting teary eyed when they asked why I left my old job (redundancy!) - but I didn't actually cry. I know they noticed my watery eyes though...

I KNOW I haven't got the job, but I'm feeling so cringe about it all and keep having flashbacks 🤣

Please cheer me up with your embarrassing interviews. Extra points if you cried in your interview!

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RaininginDarling · 28/09/2022 14:14

I'd left a job I'd been in for four years - which in my industry is a long time - and had a massive, boozy send off.

Only, the boozy send off was the night before a last-minute interview for a new gig, one I really wanted. It really was "Can you come in tomorrow and meet the boss?" I said 'yes of course' and, on an idiotic high - leaving the old, the promise of green pastures new - I was in the mood to celebrate...

Cut to early the next morning and I'm on a bench, on the South Bank, trying to stop the world from spinning and my stomach contents from paying a visit. I still smell of pure alcohol and I'm gingerly self-medicating with croissant & coffee.

I'm ushered into a glass office, overlooking a busy, open plan workspace. I'm meant to wow the big guy with my expertise and knowledge but mostly I'm cold sweating last night's tequila and drawing booze blanks left, right & centre. I can barely string a full sentence together. Putting sentences together is a fundamental part of the job. My mouth is dry and I'm really beginning to regret the croissant I had earlier...

I'm aware, as the wave of nausea overtakes me, that I've been asked another question. My ears are ringing and my head falls onto the glass table I'm sitting at. I want to stay there because the room is moving. I feel terrible. Also: who has this much glass? It's all glass, the walls, the furniture, the trendy chairs...

It's no good, I move into damage limitation mode. I confess all, profusely apologise and then ask if I can quickly borrow his bin...

At the end of the interview, we say goodbye, I muster whatever dignity I have left and walk out, head held high. And straight into his (firmly closed) glass office door.

It turns out, when I walk out of doorways mortified, I do it at some speed so the impact of my face on glass caused quite a loud bang. If anyone in the open plan office wasn't already watching the strange woman throwing up in a bin, they were doing so now.

I apologise for what feels like the umpteenth time and let myself out, through the door, old skool style, by opening it first.

There is such a thing as an office walk of shame when the office is open plan and you've made a complete tit of yourself.

Reader: I did NOT get the job.

Years and years later, at a business function, when I was much more senior and less prone to out and out stupidity, I was reintroduced to that interviewer. He was now, also much more senior. I decided to front it out, letting us be introduced by another. Sure, he wasn't going to remember little oik me. He took one look at me and laughed "Oh, I remember you!"

Hillrunning · 28/09/2022 14:26

Not mine but a new friend told me last week that she got a few minutes into an interview and mutism kicked in and she sat there silently with tears rolling down. She managed to thrust her work over to them and run to the loo to calm herself before going back in. She got the job and loves it.

Itdoesntrain · 28/09/2022 14:29

Hillrunning · 28/09/2022 14:26

Not mine but a new friend told me last week that she got a few minutes into an interview and mutism kicked in and she sat there silently with tears rolling down. She managed to thrust her work over to them and run to the loo to calm herself before going back in. She got the job and loves it.

Ah I love this!!

I don't think I've got this job, but I have another interview lined up very soon which I really want. Fingers crossed for me!

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Itdoesntrain · 28/09/2022 14:31

Omg @RaininginDarling this brings back memories of me being sick on the platform at Canada Water when I lived in London!!

😂 people walking by and tutting at me!

Oooh the shame...

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maxelly · 28/09/2022 14:39

I thought of another one, many years ago I got an interview at a really prestigious organisation, total dream job. Had to do a barrage of tests and pre-screenings, then had the first interview and it went well although the panel were quite cold, just reading off the questions and noting my answers without getting into any kind of chat, then got invited for a second interview. Walked in and was mildly surprised to see it was the exact same panel (IME second interviews usually with at least one new person, but OK). Got much weirder when their questions were literally, exactly, word for word the same as they'd asked me in the first interview. Asked in the same order by the same people in the same dry manner, no explanation or comment on this by any of the panel. Have never been so flummoxed in an interview in my life, what was the point, were they testing whether I was consistent or did they not get enough information from what I said the last time? Was I meant to comment? I veered wildly between trying to replicate exactly what I'd said previously in case they thought I was lying about my achievements etc the first time, and making up new stuff to try and impress more. At the end they thanked me, then ghosted me afterwards for about 3 months, didn't bother to tell me I didn't get it, certainly didn't offer any feedback, before finally writing me a very nice 'thanks but no thanks, don't call and ask why, we won't answer' type letter in the post on super posh headed embossed notepaper (this was definitely at least 10 years after everything had moved to email, why the posh letter?). So I never found out why the weird second interview, had they gotten muddled and forgotten they'd already interviewed me? Was it an initiative test that I'd failed? I later saw the exact same job re-advertised despite it being the sort of thing they'd get a lot of applicants for so they clearly didn't find whatever it was they were looking for! The weirdest thing was I was retelling this anecdote to a colleague some months later and she'd had exactly the same experience when applying for the same job a few months before me, they clearly made a habit of whatever that was all about! Confused

JonSnowedUnder · 28/09/2022 14:44

I'm not sure if this thread is good timing - I have my first interview in about a decade tomorrow!

RaininginDarling · 28/09/2022 15:04

JonSnowedUnder · 28/09/2022 14:44

I'm not sure if this thread is good timing - I have my first interview in about a decade tomorrow!

Don't go on a bender tonight! Also: good luck!

RaininginDarling · 28/09/2022 15:05

@Itdoesntrain 🤣

RiftGibbon · 28/09/2022 15:07

Many, many years ago.
I was about 16 or 17, working in a shoe shop and went for an interview for a library assistant job. Essentially tidying up, helping people find stuff and stamping books in, putting index cards away (pre computers).

Started off okay, until one of the interview panel asked me what I'd do if a customer wouldn't leave at closing time. I said I'd most likely find my manager and ask them to deal with it. The interviewer man then launched into a bizarre role-playing exercise with no explanation and no warning and had a mini tantrum - I had no idea what to do and blundered my way though. I didn't get the job. Thankfully.

LuckyDipForTheEuro · 28/09/2022 15:10

After university I reluctantly went for a sales job. I couldn't think of anything I'd less like to do but had not had any luck in jobseeking.

She asked if I had any questions and I said "would it be a problem if I wasn't very good at selling?"

Needless to say I did not end up in a glittering career in sales.

MaMisled · 28/09/2022 15:18

I was in an interview with the manager of a care home when she passed over her desk, some literature for me. As I leant forward in my seat to take it, I let out the most horrendously loud fart! I thought I might pass out with horror but she said " oh we get ALOT of that here, you'll fit in very well!" Seven years on and I'm still there!

SandyIrvine · 28/09/2022 15:31

Found a graduate job that I wanted and instead of cancelling another interview I had, I went (as it was on a Friday in a cool city and they were willing to put me up in a hotel for a night and pay travelling expenses). Didn't bother reading anything about the interview format and nearly passed out when I arrived at 9am to find it was 4 interviews, psychometric testing lunch with department , write an essay and do a presentation to senior management . Got to the essay bit and decided to do a runner but couldn't find my way out of the building (wandered about corridors for ages) and then remembered I hadn't received my expenses and was skint so had to return to the essay. Wrote the essay in 30 minutes (they had given me 90 minutes). Put together an extremely short presentation and delivered it in I don't give a fuck manner. When they asked if I had any questions I said no questions. When pressed I said when will I get my expenses!

I got the job. Feedback was the liked my succinctness and confidence. I still have the fear when I hear their name.

RaininginDarling · 28/09/2022 15:48

SandyIrvine · 28/09/2022 15:31

Found a graduate job that I wanted and instead of cancelling another interview I had, I went (as it was on a Friday in a cool city and they were willing to put me up in a hotel for a night and pay travelling expenses). Didn't bother reading anything about the interview format and nearly passed out when I arrived at 9am to find it was 4 interviews, psychometric testing lunch with department , write an essay and do a presentation to senior management . Got to the essay bit and decided to do a runner but couldn't find my way out of the building (wandered about corridors for ages) and then remembered I hadn't received my expenses and was skint so had to return to the essay. Wrote the essay in 30 minutes (they had given me 90 minutes). Put together an extremely short presentation and delivered it in I don't give a fuck manner. When they asked if I had any questions I said no questions. When pressed I said when will I get my expenses!

I got the job. Feedback was the liked my succinctness and confidence. I still have the fear when I hear their name.

I hope you have 'zero fucks given' on your LinkedIn profile

RaininginDarling · 28/09/2022 15:59

I know you're experiencing a bit of a cringefest right now @Itdoesntrain but sometimes, with all things in life, your miss is your bliss.

When I got a job in a company everyone (in my world) wanted to work in, I thought I'd made it. Then spent the next miserable year crying in their loos. They were horrible bullies and it was an industry-wide secret, which is amazing considering how gossipy this world is. Throughout that year, random ex employees, who had once done a stint there and talked it up a storm publicly, would ask if I'd cried in the toilets yet and wanted to trauma-bond with someone who knew what they were really like.

Itdoesntrain · 28/09/2022 16:02

Thank you so much for saying that @RaininginDarling you're so right! ❤️

This thread has definitely made me feel better 😁

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RaininginDarling · 28/09/2022 16:10

Itdoesntrain · 28/09/2022 16:02

Thank you so much for saying that @RaininginDarling you're so right! ❤️

This thread has definitely made me feel better 😁

Glad to hear it X

SuperGinger · 28/09/2022 16:14

Several disasters, one job they asked me to tell them a joke WTAF! The only joke I could think of was "what do you call a French five breasted nun?" - Answer "Cinq titty!"

Apologies if that offended anyone.

Another time, legal magazine,I wore a silk pussy bow blouse that had come undone and I only noticed afterwards. I got invited to the next round, but I said to the editor who told me I was through to the next round that flashing my boobs to the panel must've counted in my favour. They withdrew their offer to go through to the next round.

Another one with a very well known tabloid editor, I was super nervous and he is famously cantankerous, I got through it ok, but revealed to him that every time I felt unsure, I just reminded myself he had to wipe his own arse. I did not get the job.

TimBoothseyes · 28/09/2022 16:19

Mine was June 2020, after I I got made redundant (cheers Covid), and got an interview for community support worker (not carer). The interview was obviously via Zoom. All was going great when out of nowhere I did the loudest sneeze known to humankind. As I sneezed my head jerked forward and knocked the camera off the monitor. The camera landed lens up and the interviewing panel could see right up my left nostril. I looked at them, they looked back at me and the interview descending into a massive giggling fit from us all.

I got the job though.

Latenightreader · 28/09/2022 16:21

Not long after finishing university I had an interview at a military museum. The advert and job description made it look as if it was (in part) assisting visitors with family history and other research enquiries and systems I could easily pick up. I'd worked in places with subject specialisms before, and was confident I could acquire the knowledge needed on the job - they didn't require advance knowledge of their systems.

They asked for an interest in the history of the RAF museum. It turned out it was a typo and they actually wanted in depth knowledge of the history of the RAF. During the interview I was asked a very detailed question about phases of operation during a very specific battle in WW2. I couldn't answer. I had spent the week before the interview researching the aerodrome, learning about the history of airshows there in the 20s and 30s, development during WW1 etc. I felt utterly humiliated. It wasn't helped by the two interviewers sitting with their backs to a window in full sunshine so I was squinting the whole time. I still cringe a little if I think of it! I definitely didn't say in my application that I knew all about the RAF so have a slight suspicion that I might have been a token woman being interviewed...

Bluey124 · 28/09/2022 18:35

@MaMisled That made me smile, she sounds great !

MaMisled · 28/09/2022 19:10

She turned out to be a great boss and the biggest farter of all!

Bluey124 · 28/09/2022 19:20

@MaMisled love that!

hodeyho · 29/09/2022 08:03

I went for an interview for my dream job. I was so excited and worse, on the way I bumped into a friend who I hadn't seen for a decade, that didn't live in the area and was a real fate meeting as I never went into that area either.
I was so happy by the time I'd got to the interview having seen my friend (which 4 years later I'm still in touch with so every cloud and all that) I was not all there and my concentration levels had plummeted.

They asked me the usual and I got through those questions then they said have you seen the product we sell and I said oh yes and they said how would you describe our product.

Bearing in mind this is a professional job and the product was not as I described it and was a luxury product...

Me:It's squishy.

Interview man with a boring tie on: erm
Me: well it is, isn't it, when you touch it it's squishy

Interview man with a boring tie on: well er I've never heard it described that way before
HR also in interview: ahemmmm
Me realising the error of my ways now wants to leaveeeee
Anyway I didn't get the job and I'm still sad but I can chuckle about the squishy thing now.

TheClitterati · 29/09/2022 08:18

I had a great interview for the perfect job & I was making a follow up phone call delivering some information they wanted. I got interviewers voicemail had just begun leaving a voice message )using house landline) when a huge strange man wearing a helmet appeared in my living room.

I totally freaked out.

Eventually we established he was doing a delivery, my flat mate had left the front door open, this guy didn't knock - just walked into my house. Outrageous.

So my message was interrupted, there was some swearing & then I couldn't for the life of me remember my mobile number, I was so flustered.

It was the worlds worst and longest voice message. I was in line to get that job, & I didn't get it. I did get the next one though which was a great fit, so it worked out ok in the end.

wilddreams · 29/09/2022 09:05

I had an interview for a job which would involve writing, l public speaking and generally being articulate. A former colleague worked there and gave me a glowing character reference and generally sang my praises to the boss, so I thought I stood a chance. On the day of the interview I woke up with the worst sore throat ever, including swollen tonsils, raging temperature and banging headache. I was scared to call and rearrange so decided to brave it out. It was horrendous. I could barely speak, I couldn't concentrate so I kept repeating myself and coughing. I remember at one point just wanting to lie down under the desk and fall asleep. The panel kind of exchanged a look and said they'd be in touch before showing me out. That was ten years ago and I'm still waiting for my call back ...🤣

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