DH is a company director (non executive). He works very hard. His regular hours are 9 hours a day, 5 days a week (he works Saturdays and has a day off in the week).
He often works late; brings work home; deals with issues or goes in on his day off,; responds to alarm calls at any hour of the night meaning he has to attend work for several hours; cancels his day off altogether; works six or seven days a week in the festive period; covers late nights at Christmas so maybe a 20 hour day, plus four times a year goes abroad for a weekend on a trip.
He has a pretty good salary and a great bonus (but this is related to business performance). He gets 4 weeks holiday a year,.
He does not count any extra hours, work done at home or days where he flies abroad. However, when he works a full day on a day off and can't take an alternative day off he counts this as a day owed.
He probably accrues 15 days owed a year and over the past 6 years has taken 3-4 of them. He doesn't carry them forward.
His boss is now saying that as a director he expects DH to just swallow these extra days.
He's gutted. Given the choice he would take a pay cut for extra time off, but this isn't an option.
We aren't clear if he has a right to these days.
Can anyone offer any thoughts please.